Family - May 2007

2007-05-16 16:05:13 · 20 answers · asked by bubbly 1

okay, my brother is like obsessed with games/other things. he used to play games, go search things on wiki, read anime, etc. secretly from my dad. me and my sister already knew about it but my brother told us not to tattle or else he'll get grounded. my dad found out. he asked us if we knew about it and we said yes. my brother got forbiddened to play games/do any other computer things besides homework until my dad said so. later i caught him reading an manga on the computer. i told him i'll let him off the hook just this once. then i saw him reasearching game things on wiki. i let him off again. i saw him watching something on youtube i let him off. and then today i caught him playing a game (roms) so i decided to tattle. my brother said not to tell because he'll get busted. okay... so i need ur help... should i tattle? if my dad eventually finds out i WILL get in trouble also. should i tell now? am i being to nosy? plzz help me... =[

2007-05-16 15:52:29 · 1 answers · asked by saran 1

If you are close to your mom but she decided she would rather mow her yard instead of coming to a special dinner, how would you feel?

2007-05-16 15:43:35 · 18 answers · asked by Holly C 3

If your sister and mother were just murdered - shot to death - I imagine you would be devastated. If anyone you cared about was killed, that is. What would you do to get over it and move on? How would you overcome your depression?

2007-05-16 15:13:47 · 7 answers · asked by Mailman 3

ok so say that you live with your bio. mom and dad. but you have a godmother.
[this is pretty much for moms and godmothers....]
how would you feel if your goddaughter asked you to buy B.C or condoms for her? would you do it? would you tell her mom? what if she said it was just incase something happened but she dont plan on it happeneing, what would you think? would you buy them for her lets say if she was 16. and you set her up with her current bf.

plz answer. i want to ask my godmother, who will keep my secrets and dont tell on me for prety much anythign i dont think, and she wuld do nething for me. but im kinda scared. and what are some good convo starters to ask her?

plz plz plz help me!!!!!?????

2007-05-16 14:14:58 · 5 answers · asked by youdontneedtoknome 1

im 16 and having problems at home wat could happen if i ran away and lived with my 18 year boyfriend and his dad, could they get in trouble i.e go to jail or anything. i need answer quickly plz! (just so u know i live in florida) PLZ HELP!!!!

2007-05-16 13:52:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

whats the best way makeing your mom happy without giveing cash or leaving the house?

2007-05-16 13:22:48 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

my names chris, im 19 and i just got caught drinking by my mom in her house, i kinda took her car out and scratched it, we got into a big argument and i talked backed and called her a *****, she says im totally out of line and immature, she says if i cant act like an adult and act immature and childish she is going to punish me like a child, so she sent me , this is so embarrassing, she wants me to ask if anyone would like to see me receive a spanking on my bare bottom and made to stand in the corner?

2007-05-16 13:13:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-16 12:56:25 · 11 answers · asked by MandaPandaXoX 1

Im young so I really don't have any transportation and its late, I have no money even if I could go somewhere, I need some help, like maybe I could make something, give me some ideas.

2007-05-16 12:38:36 · 15 answers · asked by soccermaniacjr 1

So no matter what my Mom is always irritated with me over the same things. I'm not accountable enough, I'm not proper enough, I'm not goal oriented enough, I procrastinate too much, I'm too scatter brained. This is the kind of mother who flips out when I forget to do the dishes (when I use to live with her). She finally handed me the title to my car (it was in her name for cheaper insurance, but she's moving so she gave me the title) and then even after I already told I had insurance waiting for the car in my name, she calls up Allstate and cancells the insurance that WAS on it and then tells the agent that I'll be calling in for insurance. I told my mom I already got insurance and thanked her anyway, then she says "Well, call the agent back so I don't look like an ***". excuse me, how is this my problem? So anyways, bottom line, no matter what I can't be perfect for her like she wants. Should I keep proving myself or just give up since she'll never change?

2007-05-16 12:19:20 · 2 answers · asked by Water Witch 2

My cousin and I were like best cousins. She was always my favorite. This year she's finally graduating but didn't really invite none of my family, only me. Even though she's acting like she likes me, i know she doesn't because she turns around and talks about me to my other cousin. I really dont care, i don't let it get to me, but i'm trying to find a card or something that will tell her, that no matter how much she really hates me, i'm always going to be her cousin and i will always love her, but i just can't seem to find the right card. Do you kow where i can look?

2007-05-16 11:36:27 · 2 answers · asked by sindy v 1

I'm adopted & I really want to find her. I know her first, middle, and last name, the hospital i was born at, and a previous phone number of hers. I don't want to have to pay for one of those stupid sites, is there any other way?

2007-05-16 10:51:29 · 12 answers · asked by lissarocks02 2

I know of a situation in which a mother has been dysfunctional for many years, and an enabler for the problems of those she is close with. The wife of the person in the middle thinks he should disown her for her failings. He has never expected his mother to come through for him on anything since she never has since he was a teenager. His wife expects her to let her actions speak for her...and to abandon her until she does. He wants to remain civil toward his parent and maintain a positive relationship with his wife and children. Any ideas?

2007-05-16 10:44:17 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am sorry that i am bothering you people but my g/f found out that she has leukemia. She is home now but she has a home nurse. I am only on here to get advice on what to do because i can't think straight. I have not gone to school because my g/f is more important then any education. We are only in high school, we are juniors, i am mad at god for what he is doing to her. I am mad at god because what he is doing to her. My hospital has a chapel and when i found out that she has cancer, i ran out and i had to be alone. I ran to the chapel and started yelling to god for what he is doing. I did not mean it but i dont want to lose my baby, she means everything to me. I been with her for 4 years since 8th grade now in 11th. I will stick by her and i will not leave her. If anything happens to her then my life is over, she is the only girl for me and is she does not beat this cancer, then my life is over, I WILL KILL MYSELF. But she is not going to lose to cancer. she is hot, i love her alot.

2007-05-16 10:17:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My stepson is 20 years old and still lives with us. With 16, he dropped out of school and promised to get a job instead. So far, nothing like this happened in 4 years and has still not looked for work until recently. We provided him with food and housing all those years. He's lazy and does hardly contribute anything in the household, like cleaning etc. He just hangs out at home and does nothing. And if we criticize him for it, he flips out. Any argument with him turns into a storm of the nastiest, most violent cursing one can ever imagine. Even up to the point where he threatens the person with ultimate violence; walks up into the face, challenging an open fight.
This happened a couple days ago to me and I am his step dad for half his life, provided him with everything he needed. He threatened me to "f*** me up real bad" and I was challenged to the fight. I turned around, because I did not want to hurt him, for the sake of himself and my wife. What in the world can I do?

2007-05-16 10:00:39 · 37 answers · asked by McMurdo 3

I need help please with gift ideas for my wife's birthday.

She will be mid thirties and is pregnant so any pregnancy related gift ideas that will make it easier greatly appreciated...

She is not a girly girl and does not like make up cosmetics etc...

Previous successes include a necklace photoholder thingy with the kids photos in it.

She has no real hobbies as such...

We are taking limo to dinner etc but am really looking for something special.

2007-05-16 09:45:47 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

i just need to know what u see

2007-05-16 09:44:38 · 4 answers · asked by ELIZABETH A 2

How can I talk to my son about birth control. My son and his g/f been having sex and she is now pregnant. they both are in high school, they both are 17 years old. I did find a box of condoms in my son's room. I need some help because i don't know what to do. My son is sexually active and he is 17 years old and is still in high school. He been with his girlfriend for idk, 3 years since the start of their high school career.

Everytime i turn around or pick in my son's room, they are always making out, one day i caught his g/f on top of him. They were just making out but still.

I did walk in the living room one day and they were having sex on the couch, my son told me he had sex like 3 times with his girfriend and she is now pregnant. He does have a job and so does his g/f. I don't know what to do, please help. His g/f is now staying with us because her parents threw her out because she couldn't wait to have sex until marrage and be more responsible.

2007-05-16 09:40:02 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

GEESH! my youngest step son just found out his girlfriend is pregnant.. AGAIN. She has 2 kids with another man, they are ages 1 and 2, now she is pregnant again. They had a pregnancy scare earlier this year. She FREAKED out then, so WHY dont these people use BC?

My youngest step son couldnt hold onto a job if it came with handles, and is currently unemployed again. They have no furniture and cant even afford to get his car fixed so its parked. How the heck are they going to afford a baby? He lives in another state (thank god) so we cant really assist expect to send money.. and trust me we have sent enough already for other things.

My oldest step son had 3 kids in 3 years too!

I heard a comedian say once that the only thing poor people could afford was kids!

I am all for people having a family and stuff, but when you cant afford to support yourself.. why would you risk having a baby! I guess this will be one more welfare family. good thing I pay my taxes

2007-05-16 09:38:11 · 7 answers · asked by grapelady911 5

2007-05-16 08:03:31 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, my step mom's a total pain in the a^#. She absolutely hates me, and I feel the exact same towards her. She always blames her and dad's fights on me, and EVERYTHING I do is wrong in her eyes. I can't do anything right. I really need some help dealing with her from an outside source, but she totally refuses to go to counseling with me and dad. She probably doesn't want to hear that she's wrong. I admit there are things I have done in the past that are out of line, but seriously, she's done more. She treats my brothers fine, and acts like they do nothing wrong and they're perfect little angels. But when it comes to me, ooooh no. I'm the devil in her eyes. And I try really hard to be nice, but not so that I'm fake. It's just so hard when she treats me like ****. On mothers day, I was nice and she was nice, but I could tell she didn't mean any of the sweetness towards me. It was only to pelase dad. Help on how to deal w/ her???

2007-05-16 08:03:21 · 15 answers · asked by kittyluve2010 1

My mom and I had an exceptionally close relationship. She lived next door to me the last ten years and I was her caregiver. I helped her with everything (cleaning, shopping, doctor's appointments... pretty much everything). We were always there for one another.

She went into CHF over the holidays and eventually came home with hospice. I thought she would be happy to be home. The month before she died she said some very hateful things to me - accused me of wanting her to die, pushing her to die. Told me not to cry crocodile tears for her - she'd soon be gone and I'd have everything.

These words devastated me. I can't understand why she would say those things when I have pretty much devoted myself to her care for the past ten years. The nurses said they see this a lot - dying people lashing out against those they love the most. She was on a lot of meds at the end and her electrolytes were messed up. Anyone else have a similar experience? Why would she do that to me?

2007-05-16 07:57:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-16 07:14:55 · 4 answers · asked by sister 1

What i mean is, our daughter is six months old and he was only with her for two weeks of that. I dont want to get him a corny "you're the best dad ever" card, because it will only make him think of what he's missing, and he'll consider the card a lie, because how can you be the best dad if you're not near your daughter? help!

2007-05-16 06:51:16 · 26 answers · asked by Christi F 3

How can a father ( out of spite ) take the children away from their mother? Don't they have to prove that the mother is unfit? What is the definition of unfit?

2007-05-16 06:29:14 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay my aunte said i could live with her she is like a mom to me since i dont have one. however she has her own two kidz and husband but i love them too. anyway ,my dad has some issues and after he called the police on me and repoted me as a runaway {even through he kicked me out} she said i could comke live with her, my dad hates me and wants to kill me. tells me so all the time. he has put a bad reputation on my name all around town. to other parents and my friends parents and just everybody, i think he tells that im on drugs.

my aunte said that when i turn 18 i could come live with her when all this was going on but lately she has not been doing anything but kinda ignoring me i feel that she is aggervated by my phone calls and emails, and has step down, from where u use to be in my life. she says u can go stay with ur mom knowing my mom is poor, but loves me

i wanna know why people do this why they take back things t they once said ?

2007-05-16 04:31:08 · 13 answers · asked by it's HG !! 2

2007-05-16 03:48:07 · 19 answers · asked by killy_jake 1

2007-05-16 03:47:15 · 7 answers · asked by nichola e 2

How faraway is your mother living from you?

2007-05-16 03:34:06 · 16 answers · asked by gabnella 6