Family - May 2007

my mum thinks im annoying she prefers my sister to me she always talks to her and never to me.

2007-05-18 03:18:23 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Recently I got invited to my cousin's wedding, I already replied that my fiance & I would be going but then recently found out that he could not go. I wrote to my Aunt (my cousin's mother) telling her that he could not could but I was wanting to bring my sister since she was not invited (they are not close) & I know she wanted to go very badly, & this was before I have even metioned anything to my sister. My Aunt then very sharply replied that the inviation was only for myself & my fiance & that she questioned if I knew right from wrong by inviting my sister to take my fiance's place. I wrote back that I was sorry & that I didn't realize that the inviation was not a "plus one" thing. It was a misunderstanding but I feel very hurt by how my Aunt handled it & am not sure if I want to go at all, she doesn't know she hurt my feelings & I am sure she didn't mean to but still it was very insulting that she would think I would every do something so inconsiderate. Should I go?

2007-05-18 03:08:23 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

we had a house fire 2 yrs ago and moved in with my sister til we bought a house. shortly after she moved in because of health hazards at her house. shes paying rent but dont want to help with anything else including cleaning up after herself and the kids. my bf is to good hearted to kick her out buts its getting to be a problem. whats ur opinion. we lived with her for 4 mos. and shes been here for almost as long as weve had the house.

2007-05-18 02:47:07 · 7 answers · asked by 14yrsurvival 2

What kind of junk is this? Not only has he NOT tried to visit or support my daughter in anyway for the last 5 years (no calls, no birthday/Christmas presents, no loving conversations, NOTHING) but all of a sudden I get served papers for an upcoming court date for visitation purposes?? Come ON!

Yeah, I am a single mother. And no, I'm not looking for sympathy...we're doing just fine. :) But my question is...should a man like this REALLY be given visitation by a judge in a court of law? I've spoken to people who actually say that happened to them. The judge pretty much said "well, he's trying now....blah blah blah". He was never a good father...we moved away to get away from his verbal abuse when my daughter was 4. She is now nine. Going crazy here...any suggestions?

2007-05-18 01:47:53 · 17 answers · asked by Tra-la-la! 2

and no one one can heare you? if you have do you know what is it, some people said its a sprit?

2007-05-18 01:16:56 · 19 answers · asked by riverbank1949 1

you dont know friends when hearts breaks its really pain.

2007-05-18 00:49:09 · 15 answers · asked by YUGMANI 1

I've been grounded for having some people up to my dads house for a while when he was on holiday. We wern't gonna be staying there and afew people had drink but I wasn't drinking but my mum still went mental and accused me of having a party! So I've been grounded for a week so far and she says she wants to ground me for 3 weeks! I don't even think I did anything that bad but I still said sorry for it. Last night we got in a massive fight about it and I said some things I shouldn't have out of anger but it resulted in her throwing a cup at my head and trying to strangle me! Then made me sit outside in the cold when all I had on was a vest top and shorts! Whatever I said had no need for that behaviour and she said plenty of things to me. I feel like just packing a bag and going to a friends house for a while cause I can't stand being stuck in this house with her. Should I stay and stick out the grounding or leave?

2007-05-18 00:46:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it unfair of me to expect to get a little help around the house. After all, the 18 year old goes to school and has a job, the 23 year old has a full time job and is a musician? After all they are busy people! NOT! So are thier Dad and I! I work full time at a job that requires a lot of hours and Dad is on the road most days. Why don't they just see that the dishes need to go into the dishwasher! That the garbage is over flowing! Somehow they think its ok for me to come home from a long day and just take care of picking up! Why do some kids think that way! I provide them with a great home, especially since the 23 year old should be out of the house by now. Do other young people treat thier Moms this way? Why does anyone think its ok for Mom to work all day and have to come home and clean the kitchen while everyone else sits down?????
How do I turn them around???

2007-05-18 00:27:25 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

A friend had a child at 14 , she had multiple partners and wasnt sure who the father was , so she kept silent for 9 years with her son never knowing who his father is... well now she wants to know. How could she begin her search when she only knows the first names of her old friends and she has moved through many states since then. She has a Idea of who the boy looks like , but only knows his first name. WHAT CAN SHE DO???

2007-05-18 00:03:12 · 10 answers · asked by yahna_22 1

2007-05-17 23:28:20 · 8 answers · asked by gracious 1

I am in bit of a situation today, I just learned of three pre-teenage kids two girls and one boy. I thought I seen a couple of different familes struggle with their lives but these kids got it bad. They have known of the drug abuse for quite some time now and are not in school their dad is pawning their things for drugs and there is also reports of physical abuse aswell. The next one has to do with two small children ages almost 3 and close to two their mom uses needles infront of them I know this for a fact because I have seen her do it. I have taken the nexy step and called local HHS and still nothing has been done she leaves them home alone all the time in search for illegal drugs and sometimes the kids will go quite some time without eating. Now what do I do?

2007-05-17 20:23:38 · 8 answers · asked by thing_sweet_sexy 1

My step-son has taken my med's, money, just personel things of mine and my husbands, and his siblings.
He don't live with us because my husband threw him out. I love that boy, but, am afriad of him hurting us all over again. what do i do, set boundries...

2007-05-17 18:48:36 · 6 answers · asked by Petunia 4

My dad and i dont have a good relationship at all. I havent seen him in almost 18 months and even when we were in contact it wasnt that great. It was my birthday a few months back and he called to say happy birthday and that he was sending me money. The money never arrived and the fact that i didnt get anything upset me because he said he was sending something and i felt that he lied to me. Even a card would have been nice. Now he is calling me saying that he wants to see me so he can give me my birthday present which is a lap top computer for school. But i dont know whether or not to accept his present because he always argues that i dont want to see him unless he has something for me. So if i see him it will prove his point but it was a present that he promised me earlier and i do need a lap top for school really bad. But my gut instinct is telling me not to see him.

2007-05-17 18:19:53 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

M sister is sometimes nice to me but most of the times she hate me one time I sudenly have this feeling that I want to draw 4 days pass and she told me to stop it, she is always telling on me even I haven't done a thing but my mom will belive her I told this to my mom but my sis is doing this again and when I am rally mad sometimes I sleep or I beat her up then I got in trouble then I blame her about it.what sould I tell her?

2007-05-17 18:08:30 · 5 answers · asked by tigerlily 1

My 86 year old Grandpa is coming to stay with my family for 4 days next month.He suffered a MILD heart attack last month but still is able to fly out.I hear that all of the meds' that he is now on ,have taken away some of his energy.He is a bit forgetful but in other wise good health for his age.We planned on going out to dinner and keeping things low key.Being that this may be the last time that we see each other what other activities would anyone else suggest? We live near Boulder Colorado.

2007-05-17 17:47:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

him and got nothing from the interview, they want to redo the interview and without me being there, can they do this.

2007-05-17 17:02:44 · 24 answers · asked by jafa 1

2007-05-17 16:19:25 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

I haven't talked to my Grandmother is over two years. Why?

She has treated my Mom like sh*t for the last 23+ years, refuses to have anything to do with my half brother because he isn't her "blood" and missed my high school and college graduations because she didn't want to leave her dog home alone during the ceremony.

Now that she's found Jesus and is over 70 she believes we should all forgive and forget the crummy things she's said and done. Right.

2007-05-17 16:16:12 · 5 answers · asked by The "Hmm" Girl 4

gah! I can not stand my mother! she's is so freaking psycho! like, she won't let me do anything by myself! I'm 16 and im not allowed to manage my own life! she's always right there making sure she knows every damn detail! I DO NOT LIKE HER! she makes my life hell! she's so controlling and manipulative and she thinks the whole world has to run according to her plans, and if it doesnt? she has to be a ***** and get all up in people's face! she can't just let anything go! i'm not allowed to do a single thing! i'm 16 and i not allowed to act that way. i don't kno when i was last allowed to watch TV, im rarely allowed to go out, and at the same time, she's always bitchin about getting responsible! and she gripes about the littlest ****! like if i leave a pair of pants on the floor or don't make my bed, she will use that in an arguement for months! and if i put something off cuz god forbid i actually am trying to plan my time and she can't wait 10 minutes! she's never gonna let me grow up!!!

2007-05-17 16:03:49 · 6 answers · asked by whoops :) 5

my friend told me never to go anywhere with him without my mom. she claims he is to nice. im afraid. what should i do?

2007-05-17 16:01:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok. I was at a tennis tournament, and i had to leave to go play. So i set my backpack down either by my friends stuff, and/or by the tennis shop thingy. anyways, when and after i finsihed and won my game, my backpack was gone. A few weeks ago, my coach was telling me about how someone stole 1000$ pairs of shoes from the place. but yeah.

i need to know how to get my backpack back with all my 400$ **** in there. Im sorry for the cussing but, my parents have been yelling at me..and i desperatly need my backpack back....before tuesday. because...well wensday and thursday are the last days of school..
and its kind of messed up because..
i was working on a 5 day project and i was almost done with it...and now thats gone to..

so please..
if you have anything other then " you shouldn't leave your **** around " or " ask the priciple if they have it " cause believe me..i checked.

please help me out..

2007-05-17 15:49:24 · 4 answers · asked by §☼New Found Purity☼§ 1

2007-05-17 15:45:51 · 11 answers · asked by miss.jimmyjones 1

please tell me what to do. and say i love sherk if dont ill cry.

2007-05-17 15:43:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Help me!!!!!!!! I am pregnant. What can I do? I am still a teenager.?

I am pregnant and it is the biggest mistake I have ever done!!!! I have been in denial for a long time. These past few months I thought it's all surreal!!! No, it's reality!!!! It feels like a long time. I've gone through depression. I've regained a ton of weight and I look like crap. I'm great at hiding this secret. The only person who knows is my psychologist. My stomach is beginnning to show. I am not the person I use to be. I use to love music, now I hate it. I hate singing!!! I don't want to become a musician any longer. People at my department, I believe, do know. They could tell. Am I being paranoid? I use to be such a great person, now I bring misery. These people have ruined my life. I have been so irrational this year. I am persian and my family will kill me. How can I tell them? I think I'm going to run away. I have family in L.A.and Chicago. WherMaybe they will be forgiving? My friends don't know how to help me because they don't know my problem. I've started cutting again.
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54 minutes ago
I'm afraid if I tell my parents, they will have a heart attack. I worry about my mother because she is dealing with her cancer. My father will execute me. I don't know who to tell. Please god? Should I start going to the mosque? i will pray hard. I wish I was invisible. I'm trash and a ****. I didn't think about my consequences and now, I got what i deserved.

48 minutes ago
I no longer care if the entire world knows. I've disappointed everyone, especially myself. I am revealed.

45 minutes ago
I had so many goals. I wanted to finish college and get a degree in vocal performance and science. I am a failure.

43 minutes ago
I am iranian. My culture is NOT forgiving!!!!!

34 minutes ago
I don't know any other persian with this problem!!! I feel sooo alone.

2007-05-17 15:42:53 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-17 15:19:40 · 13 answers · asked by ihavequestions 1

5 days after my fiance proposed, we went to his parents house (his dad was at work) and told his mom. She heard the news and said "well that's ok". The fiance said she didn't know what he had said at first.. later she said congratulations.

His father does not know yet and it's going on one week. He has not told his brother yet either.

Is this normal? Why am I a bit upset?

2007-05-17 14:57:30 · 4 answers · asked by PlasticTrees 2

How do you get spray paint off of your skin?
My adventurous 3 year old thought it would neat to spray black paint all over himself. I have given him 2 baths and it still won't come off.
Anyone have any tips?

2007-05-17 14:28:23 · 9 answers · asked by GeorgiaGurl 3

i dont really know what to do to have a least a day to not worry about anything without getting drunk! my mum split with her boyfreind last month and tried to commit suicide but i managed to get a ambulance just in time! her heart stopped in the ambulance but they managed to get her back, she got back with this ******** boyfriend but now they'v just split agian and im scared incase she does it agian, i cant help but to think shes selfish as i have a four year old lil brither and she was going to leave us over this prat but i feel guilty! i also worry for my dad as he isnt well and termally ill with cancer and i love him so much. both my parents are alcoholics but dont live together but they both cause trouble when drunk. i love them so much and i cant help but worry all the time, i also have other problems but these are my main ones! can you tell me how to chill out for a bit! thanx

2007-05-17 12:32:45 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

alright so my parents split up a few months ago and it has been absolutely crazy around here since, since my dad left we've had all kinds of problems over here especially with money almost to the point its scary. were constantly shorthanded, and this week wondering how in the world were going to pay the mortgage. i know there are ways for this to all work out but we are going to need a miracle,and luckily i do know that gods here and hes going to take care of it so i need as many people to pray for us as i can because honestly its all i can do, and i know it will be the most effective.
so everyone please take the time to just pray for my family. were having a really tough time and we need prayer like woah..thanks much!!!
alex

2007-05-17 12:28:57 · 41 answers · asked by alex jade 2

How do you explain to your Hispanic/Catholic Mother-in-Law that you will NOT be having children with her only son? And telling her this doesn't seem to work. She won't accept it. If not that, any one know how to say "You'll have to pry the I.U.D. out of my cold dead body!" in Spanish?

2007-05-17 12:01:33 · 10 answers · asked by Dolyn 6