A friend had a child at 14 , she had multiple partners and wasnt sure who the father was , so she kept silent for 9 years with her son never knowing who his father is... well now she wants to know. How could she begin her search when she only knows the first names of her old friends and she has moved through many states since then. She has a Idea of who the boy looks like , but only knows his first name. WHAT CAN SHE DO???
2007-05-18 00:03:12 · 10 answers · asked by yahna_22 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
YEAH , THIS IS SAD.
2007-05-18 00:41:29 · update #1
Go back to the place she had all these affairs and try to locate the men using friends, family members of his and maybe court records. That is assuming you find out the last name. How can you not know the name of some of the people you sleep with unless they were all one night stands. That doesnt sound to good.
2007-05-18 00:07:25 · answer #1 · answered by smokindoggy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK...I'm not being funny but she could always call the Maury Povich show. This might be wrong but she might have to give this search up if she only has a first name. I guess she could ask some people he used to run with. It wouldn't be right to blow up some mans life because she thinks her child looks like him. Of coarse if she found him and he was around her age at the time, the first thing he will probably do is deny the child. She could try to offer to pay for a blood test but after 9 years what does she expect... if she has been around the block a few times and got a baby as a result, she should let it go and be a really good mom to her child...this could cause a whole lot of rejection and hurt on the behalf of her child... wish her well....
2007-05-18 00:12:05 · answer #2 · answered by Lil_MissVal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DNA testing.. its a comprehensive search and if a match is found, the person can be traced by authorities.
2007-05-18 00:06:38 · answer #3 · answered by santosh_musicman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats gonna be really hard to do....unless she uses the kids blood work.....
Or maybe she can just go back to the place where she did all of her whoring around and asked questions.
2007-05-18 00:09:31 · answer #4 · answered by MEME 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get hold of all of them induldged and get a DNA test done for the child and the people involved..this is the only way out..god bless
2007-05-18 00:05:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call Maury.
2007-05-18 00:05:19 · answer #6 · answered by Traci 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what that person really you? you could try the citizens advice bureau.
but to be honest he might be a total jerk
2007-05-18 00:06:05 · answer #7 · answered by Buda d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-05-18 00:06:52 · answer #8 · answered by schuschtermat 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
look on the computer think who she slept with
2007-05-18 05:13:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make a DNA test
2007-05-18 00:05:55 · answer #10 · answered by Bogdy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋