okay my aunte said i could live with her she is like a mom to me since i dont have one. however she has her own two kidz and husband but i love them too. anyway ,my dad has some issues and after he called the police on me and repoted me as a runaway {even through he kicked me out} she said i could comke live with her, my dad hates me and wants to kill me. tells me so all the time. he has put a bad reputation on my name all around town. to other parents and my friends parents and just everybody, i think he tells that im on drugs.
my aunte said that when i turn 18 i could come live with her when all this was going on but lately she has not been doing anything but kinda ignoring me i feel that she is aggervated by my phone calls and emails, and has step down, from where u use to be in my life. she says u can go stay with ur mom knowing my mom is poor, but loves me
i wanna know why people do this why they take back things t they once said ?
2007-05-16 04:31:08 · 13 answers · asked by it's HG !! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
She knows that you are part of your own problems too, and she doesn't want that drama in her house. Yeah, sure, you have NEVER done anything to anyone. You are a perfect angel.
2007-05-16 04:34:44 · answer #1 · answered by Blunt Honesty 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Im very sorry this happened to you and trust me things would get better. People take what they say back because they have a change of heart or feel that they dont feel the same any more about the situation.All you can depend on is yourself. Take the right path in life and your kids in the future will thank you. Good Luck!!! Stay humble and you'll be alright.
2007-05-16 12:01:57 · answer #2 · answered by Bubblez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like auntie has been told to stay out of it.
that's just my first impression.
most important is that you leave all these people alone who are hurting you.
love does not hurt sweetie. it never did and never will.
it does take hard work at times to say you're sorry, take back things you said that you didn't mean, or explain yourself when you're messed up. sometimes people mess up and are just too weak to fix their problems. listen, being homeless and accepting help from strangers is way better than being mistreated and brought up in the wrong way.
love yourself. take care of yourself. do what's right and if you don't know what "right" is, go to youth counselors and teachers and anyone to get help and advice. honey there are good people out there, way better than what you are describing. LOVE and PEACE to you.
2007-05-16 11:37:56 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, it is hard to say why people, even adults do the things that they do and renig on their promise. i do know this-only your auntie knows the real reason. i would venture to say if you are on drugs you need to stop. if your dads issues are truly his issues and not things you cause (and only you know that)then i would see auntie in person and in private if possible. if she lives in another state then you of course would need to write to her. i say write instead of phone because writing affords the reader the time to be alone with your thoughts and theirs. it also allows her to re-read everything until she decides what the right thing to do is. i hope you are not on drugs and i am sorry to hear about your situation. i do not know if you believe in god but i highly suggest that you ask jesus to come into your heart and to guide you in this rough spot in your life. do not ever run awaay.my daughter did that to me when she got involved with gangs and drugs. it is so dangerous in this world today. write to auntie,even if she lives nearby and do not hold back. make the letter reveal all that is in your heart and do not lie to her about anything.explain your dilemma and your reasons for why you think being with her is best for you and assure her, if you mean it, that you will not corrupt her children or take them down a bad path because as a parent, i can assure you that in her decision, the well-being of her own children are in the equation.good luck. i will keep you in my prayers.
2007-05-16 11:45:45 · answer #4 · answered by tigercub1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe things are happening in your aunt life that has prevente her to allow you to come. If your dad is threating that way she may fear for her family. At first you say you dont have a mom and later you say she is to poor. Doesnt matter if she loves you she will take you.
2007-05-16 11:37:29 · answer #5 · answered by brighton 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Does your father has a reason for spreading rumors about you? i dont understand why your father would do such a thing to his own flesh and blood, unless you have done something...As far as your aunt is concerned, she might have spoken to your father. He very well could have told her about your behavior and she doesnt want the foolishness in her household with her own children.
2007-05-16 11:38:28 · answer #6 · answered by plumprump26 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe her circumstances have changed. I don't know. I do know your father has serious issues. You need to get away from him, ASAP. If your mom's poor, maybe you could help her out. Even if it's just encouragement. You're old enough to take care of yourself. So do it. Good luck.
2007-05-16 11:37:47 · answer #7 · answered by Ann S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am really so sorry but perhaps she has problems of her own and just not prepared to have to add you to her fold ?
She does not have a right to just take you in as you have your biological mother , so perhaps she does not want any troubles from her too ?
Go talk to her ...
2007-05-16 11:38:15 · answer #8 · answered by aunt_webby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
god what a mess! I know what your going through. have you ever thought of her feelings being caught up in this? God how exhausting! empathize huh? Hope this helps Email me with more questions if you have them
2007-05-16 11:40:05 · answer #9 · answered by mikey man 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because the world is not made in black or whitte. Things change, people's feelings and circumstances change. Sometimes you cant do what you once said you would do.
2007-05-16 11:35:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋