Family - May 2007

I know two, my mother, and my father in law.

2007-05-15 14:27:29 · 6 answers · asked by ♥ ♥ ♥ 6

plz help me my wife went to TOKYO im stuck with 3 kids one who is 3 years old the other are 15 12 i got to go to work do stay with them or take them to a day care

2007-05-15 14:23:08 · 6 answers · asked by grisel_b121@sbcglobal.net 2

My boyfriend and his mother purchased a house together, but his mother is leaving everything to his sister when she dies. My boyfriend thinks he will get the house without any problems. I am trying to find out if the sister would inherit the mothers half of the house. The mother pays the house payment each month and my boyfriend pays his mother his half.

2007-05-15 14:22:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

A year ago I bought my grandmother, who barely gets by on Social Security, a car. My uncle, who is 45, recently divorced from his wife and has custody of their two children. He has always been sort of a deadbeat, working part-time dead-end jobs his entire life (video store, grocery store, etc.) He still works at a grocery store, but only 30-35 hours a week. His 2001 ford taurus broke down in DECEMBER, (bad alternator, that is all) and he has yet to fix it...so he has all but aqucistioned my grandmothers car, that I bought FOR HER USE, and not only that, but he has trashed its interior and has been smoking in it. Every time I ask her how his car repair is going, there always some reason or another that delays him getting his own car back...he has the money...he recently got a large tax return and did he fix his car? NO. He bought a computer. I AM LIVID. everytime I try to talk to my grandma, she just replies, "hes my kid". She can't say no. What do I do?

2007-05-15 14:11:06 · 3 answers · asked by cwido25 2

I have a daughter who is turning 19, she has 2 children a 1 year old and 2 year old. She did not finish high school, has done nothing to take her GED, and has no place to live at the moment. She has lived with 3 boyfriends in the past 3 years and it never works because she is bipolar. Really mentally she has the maturity of a 14 year old. She is a good mom though and treats those kids with tons of love. But she has no job and I always have to bring them back into my house. The fathers of the babies are being pursuit by the Child Support office at the moment but it takes a long time. She applied for housing but had heard nothing from them. I help her babysitting when she gets any kind of job, but i cannot do so forever. Its just too much for me and my health.
Is it true is time to let her hit bottom? Because doing so takes my sleep away and stresses me out! Is there a way to help her help herself?

2007-05-15 13:57:13 · 5 answers · asked by Mama Vida 1

Sorry for this being so long-but i need to figure it out please read and help! I am one of 6 children and im the youngest besides my brother who is 15-we are all grown up and hes the only one left to really take care of. My mom was a stay at home mom and raised all of us and her way of discipline was "guilt" she never grounded us or anything but we all knew right from wrong and i would say we are all well rounded..My younger brother is a sophomore in high school and he wont get up for school at least two days out of the week. He is a good kid-doesn't cause trouble at school but he just doesn't like to wake up in the morning they have tried everything from switching his schedule to seeing a Psychologist. He has no sense of guilt and it doesn't seem like he has any respect he just doesn't care to change-hes about as responsible as a 8 year old. If anyone has a solution or anything that could help please give me some ideas,i know i shouldn't be worrying about him but somebody has to.Thanks

2007-05-15 13:41:50 · 15 answers · asked by Melissa 1

a father of two kids, he picks them up at school every day since they started school and even after he had separated with the kids' mom. after the separation the two agrees (verbally) to have the kids every other week, both now in relationship with other people and now after the guy had gotten married with the current partner, the mother of the kids all of a sudden forbids him to pick up their kids from school and also had threatened him that she'd call the police if he comes around them. the guy knows that just a matter of time until she files for custody aswell, so he went and filed in court and has a summon for custody to serve her. but he fears now that if he gives her the paper he really wont be able to see his kids at all until judgment has been served in court. also, rumor has it that she might send kids to other state. should he get emergency restraining order as well protecting kids and his wife and him and serve summon at the same time? buys time to spend with his kids?

2007-05-15 13:24:19 · 8 answers · asked by whyalwaysbadthingshappen 1

For over 7 years my MIL has been poison in my life: trying to seperate my husband and myself, playing us against each other, lying, and verbally abusing the both of us. After 7 years (and a bad incident where she was verbally abusing us in front of my then 8 month old) we cut her from our lives.

It has been 2 years since I saw her last...but it appears as if we will both be going to a family reunion together over Memorial Day. I will have my two children with me (1.5 and 3 yo). I want it to be a nice reunion...but the tension is already starting. How do I survive a long weekend with her and her family and yet avoid her? Should I completely ignore her? Should I be civil but short? She has never seen my youngest daughter...what if she wants to hold her and play with her? I honestly don't know what to do...

2007-05-15 12:43:14 · 10 answers · asked by aziahh30 2

Im 7 months pregnant with my 3rd child. me,my kids and hubby all live together under 1 bedroom house *for now*..i have stress on my hands etc already. My sister in law is having problems and took her and her 2 month old in until she gets on her feet. our place is kinda small yes. She knows we are in the process of getting a 3 bedroom but she has been getting frustrated with the living situation. If a fly comes in the house she gets aggravated and says we all need to move,she complains about the furniture because its not perfect and worries about baby sitting on it and herself breathing in dust at times. complains about the size of the house,when my little boy touches her baby and trys to help her out. she just gets real aggravated and it upsets me at times,cause we are in hard times and she doesnt need to rub it in. I love her and know she is going through some things but i just wish she wouldnt complain so much, im not gonna tell her about this but how do i deal with it and the stress

2007-05-15 12:39:20 · 17 answers · asked by Allure 1

i'm a stay-at-home mom and 7 months pregnant again with my third baby. my husband's salary is pretty well but most of it go to bills. therefore, i wanna earn extra money for my babies and myself. someone told me about inboxdollars.com. i wanna know if what they're saying on the site is really true??? anyone a member???

2007-05-15 12:10:37 · 1 answers · asked by *¤Little Mimi¤* 4

my friends says i can live with her but everytime the subject comes up she avoids it. i hate my living surroundings. my stepmom and my dad are too much to deal with these days.

2007-05-15 12:03:48 · 3 answers · asked by Felicia R 1

I keep worrying about how I'll go on without her even though I'm not a child and don't live with her. I keep thinking,"I'll be crushed with grief!" She's in her 60s. That seems ancient. I can't imagine living another 37 years! She still gets around okay and seems okay, (except for the fibromyalgia) but things could change so fast and I don't know if I'll ever be ready for that day!

2007-05-15 11:51:40 · 27 answers · asked by ? 6

my friened had se xwith hid sister what to u think he is 16 she is 22

2007-05-15 11:38:59 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been having some problems at home lately, i've really been having problems at home, since i left foster care, but now they're are worse. Now, everybody in my house are irritable, and I think i'm depressed. Since i got out of foster care, i haven't had insurance, so i all i have is the same 30 day supply of Zoloft I got at the hospital, i'm afraid to take it, cause i know that taking it for a month, than quitting, can make me even more depressed or suicidle. So, i'm just keeping all my pain inside and letting them out. I feel like i'm going to snap soon. i feel like a bag of popping popcorn, that's about to burst. i'm so depressed because, i feel like everything, and every problem at our house is my fault. we don't have money anymore. my mom is crazy stressing over that, now, so am i. and i'm upset of things that go on at my house. My mom is soooo irritable,last night, she wouldn't listen to me,she heard me,but she didn't listen, i kept telling her that i was stressed,and that was why my memory sucked, but she said,"so, people stress over things everyday". she doesn't understand, i stressing about: the abuse i've recieved, emotional and sexual, the way she's sooo irritable,how we have no money, how my brother hates me and said he wished i would have never come home, me not doing well in school,and most of all, everthing, all of this, being my fault! I'm also angry and upset, because my brother doesn't give a monkey's behind about me,he makes me so upset, he'll say whatever he wants to me all my mom does is say, "both of you stop,I don't want to hear it".my brother is also very lazy, my mom will tell him to do something, but he won't, so i'll have to end up doing the chores (his).Then, my brother is a lier and he thinks he knows it all.he'll lie on me and get me in trouble.it makes me so angry. My step-day, oh, my step-dad. he abuses me, lies and denies it,i lie to protect him in court, so, he decides to come back to our house.I had a HUGE problem with that,my never even asked me if it was ok, that he came near me.after he had stayed for a while,i started turning evil at school, but acted like nothing was wrong at home. finally my friends got sick of me, so my best friend decided, we should talk to the counselor, she was very supportive, until they made her goto class, then it was just me.my mom had to come up to the school to talk with the counselors, and she told me that he wasn't staying permanently, he was just here temporarily, because my cousin's kids were over where he lived messing up his house and sleeping on his bed.she asked if that was ok. I wanted to yell out no, because she never even asked me if that was ok. then i get so mad, that her and my brother will leave me alone til' all hours of the night, to go hang out with my step dad. they've been to parties without me,get togethers, six flags, the world of coke and god knows where else.it makes me feel so left out, like i'm supposed to be some family secret, like i'm not supposed to be alive, so they're keeping me hidden, kind of like that book AMONG THE HIDDEN.yeah,feel just like one of those hidden kids.i've been keeping so much inside forever. thanks to everyone for listening to my ranting in raving, i just needed someone, anyone to talk to, who would understand. Oh yeah, my question is, am i just tripping for no reason? what should i do?Ever since i came home, i've been asking myself "go back into foster care, or not?".i would probaly do better in there, because when all these caseworkers and foster parents catch an attitude with me and disrespect me, atleast it's not my blood that hates me. My mom had forbidden me to tell my real dad, who lives in N.Y. about our "family Problems", as a father, i think he should know though, maybe he'll let be live with him, i don't dare tell him though, cuz my mom would be sooo angry. What should i do about that? once again, thanks for listening!!!!!!!!

2007-05-15 09:27:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

This hurts me to even think about.
My son is getting married tomorrow, I like his choice of girl he is going to marry. We took them to get a date via the courts. (my second hubby and I)
Then he invited my ex hubby, still that did not worry me, I was still happy my son has finally stopped his silly behaviour of drugs and clubbing.
Then all of a sudden today, he (my son) comes to our home, and starts complaining about his dad, I told him it was his choice to invite his dad, not mine.
Five minutes later my son starts swearing at me and tells me we are no longer welcome at his wedding, his new family are all going for lunch after the wedding, we are not invited.
He chased is dad away, and his sister that lives 75km away had to drive through to collect the father, as he has no transport of his own.
I really am not sure if I am hurt or shocked by this, I stood with my son, while he was in rehab, bike crash, broken legs, and lover affairs galore.
What would you???

2007-05-15 09:25:08 · 11 answers · asked by unity 3

My m-i-l ia horrable!!!!! I married my hubby in 94 and we have no kids. I got pregnant on our first dateso we got married, 4 mths into my pregancy my m-i-l pushed my down the stairs the next day I lost my baby and have not been able to conceive again. My mother-in-law has lied on me she told everybody that I stole $750 from my hubby and that I was having an affair with our landlord so we moved. (i wasn't) My sister stayed with us for 2 mths. My mother-in-law called my new landlord and tried to have us threw out. She use to call 3 times aday leaving really nasty messages, my hubby thinks they are funny. Now she calls 3 times aday or til someone answers the phone, or she gets someone to bring her to my house. She had me so mad one day thet my blood pressure was up to 165/116. Now My hubby has took over payments on hewr car that she could not afford to begin with, and she thinks I should drop everything that I am doing and run errands for her, and if I don't do it she throughs a trantrumn

2007-05-15 09:19:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

for damaging her car when i ran her mom over??

2007-05-15 09:12:47 · 6 answers · asked by NUTTY PIMP 1

Based on my last question http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AhEnKMoEVy9hqUU.luhD1Wrsy6IX?qid=20070514162305AAopQ0J

I dont know what to do, i love my dad but i feel like if i speak to him, its like forgiving him and i cant do that knowing he probably does see another women, and if i dont speak to him things will probably be worse..Please help i really need advice..

2007-05-15 08:58:12 · 11 answers · asked by Leo 3

He is 6 now and just wonder when would be the best time?

2007-05-15 08:51:19 · 23 answers · asked by auntie 2

Our 20 year old daughter who lives at home is simply not growing up. She goofs off and gets terrible grades in college that we are paying for, leaves dirty clothes all over the bathroom and you cant walk through her room it is such a mess, and she has struggled with an eating disorder for years and refuses to go to her counselor or her group for help.
She can be very manipulative, and lies a lot about what is really going on. She does have a job but spends all her money on junk food. We got her a new car for college and she is more interested in staying out all night with her friends. We worry because she is basically the same as she was when she was 15. When we get upset and confront her with her BS - she gets very sweet and promises to go get help - then never does.
I think it's time for tough love.

2007-05-15 08:34:14 · 19 answers · asked by Blondana 3

2007-05-15 08:02:37 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have recently rekindled a relationship with my 19 yr. old birth daughter (i placed her for adoption when I was 16). Her parents say that they are happy about this but insist on being included in all my family activites and gatherings that I invite her to. If they are not included, my "daughter" feels caught in the middle and wants me to invite them just to keep the peace. I feel that its rather a control thing on the parents end since they still feel that they have to be involved in every aspect of her life.

It's not that they are "bad people". I just want to maintain a healthy distance since the mother is very controlling and it's "her way or no way".

How do I keep everyone happy? Including myself.

2007-05-15 07:07:29 · 20 answers · asked by selery222 4

2007-05-15 07:06:05 · 12 answers · asked by Jilly 1

Basicly I would like to see what people think. In our calture it is unexceptable to even date at such a young age. But you go back not even 100 years and girls were married some times before they were a teen. What do you think. Right or Wrong

2007-05-15 06:48:12 · 6 answers · asked by Kitty L 3

GET PUT ON RESTRICTION,OR IN BIG TROUBLE FOR SOMETHING YOU did not DO??

2007-05-15 06:12:51 · 15 answers · asked by FYIIM1KO 5

just a few weeks ago i got my mid-semester report card. my parent don't understand that they dont really matter in the long run, but they still get mad when they see them.

how can i figure out a way to tell them that they dont matter, without being in a long lecture about my future and stuff

2007-05-15 06:05:18 · 20 answers · asked by ♥Crazy♥ 2

Please explain your story. Tell me what you did, what your parents did, and what happened to you (punishment). Did you ever forget what happened or does it still bug you??!!

2007-05-15 05:16:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mom has a boyfriend who is taking her money, she wires him money and all he wants is money. She claims she is happy with him eventhough she might get ripped off. HE has her debit card and has made over $1,000 in purchases( in just one week) but my mom is ok with it. SHe thinks i dont love her and i dont want her to be happy, because i asked her why she was sending him money, she got really upset. Long story, i apologized for questioning her finances and butting in her bank account (i saw it on line). I was only looking out for her. Now she tells me her boyfriend feels offended and wants an apology from me. How can i tell her hell fu** no I am not apologizing to his sorry asss. I hate him for takind advantage and my mom for letting him. I would never apologize even if he gave the money back or supported her. He needs to prove my mom he will take care of her, not just her money. ANy suggestions? My mom is blind i know. I dont live with her im 23

2007-05-15 05:03:29 · 9 answers · asked by sourgirl 3

i have so much in my live right now going on i have have 4 deaths in my family,not enough money to do thing, people i know have drug problems im just lost there is soo much going wrong

2007-05-15 04:52:54 · 11 answers · asked by steven_gurl_meg 1

Suggestions PLEASE! My former employers (small mom & pop company), who after working for them for over 8 years have become more like family to me. I moved out of state a couple years ago but, keep in touch with them all the time.

My problem.... her mom was kinda like my daughter's great-grandmom. While we didn't spend a WHOLE lot of time together, her mom and dad always thought of us like family. Her mom is in her 80's and is ready to 'go'. She's been ill for sometime and she's tired and is ready.

I CAN'T do funerals! After my dad died and I went to his funeral it's just been something I cannot do. Now, since I live 1800 miles away I do kind of have an excuse (I feel awful for saying that) but, what do I do??? How do I show my support and sincerest sympathy when I don't want to be there???

2007-05-15 04:49:32 · 13 answers · asked by whatchagonnado 4