Family - May 2007

My husband has 2 children with his ex girlfriend. We have one child together. His ex is pregnant by his cousin and his family is so excited about the new baby coming. We mentioned to his mother that we are thinking of trying for another baby soon and she flat out said "no you're not". She wasn't kidding either. I love his mom but this really hurt my feelings. The rest of the family just shrugged their shoulders. Whats up with this?

2007-05-14 02:56:36 · 59 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-14 02:24:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

SIMONE OZBOLT 360

2007-05-14 02:07:55 · 31 answers · asked by gorglin 5

"Maatru Devo Bhava"(Taittriya Upanishad)=I salute-I pay my respects-to my mother

"Nachay Devam Devo na Kalu Kushalu"=There is No God who shows as much concern on my welfare as you(Mother) are----(Soundarya Lahari)

2007-05-14 01:44:12 · 2 answers · asked by ssrvj 7

2007-05-14 00:31:17 · 4 answers · asked by ittybitty31290 1

My husbands family is always telling me that my husband will always love his ex girlfriend because she had his first children. He has confronted them and told them where they could go but they stil continue to say this. Is it true a man will always love the woman who had his first child?

2007-05-14 00:24:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

my mother and i never really got along, but on mothers day was when things really started going down hill. it was a norman day, everything was going fine until my uncle showed up. hes been coming over everyday for quite sometime now, always the same thing: being annoying, drinking liquor and beer, smoking; ive just had enough. when he does this he basically talks out of his u know what; saying he wants to hurt and kill ppl, sayin hes god, and all kinds of crazy things...im just fed up. i told my mom weeks ago about this, but i guess she paid it no mind. well, i was cursing, like i always do; its a bad habit thats hard to break, and he was saying stupid stuff, and i was just like, "stop saying ur gonna try and kill ppl all the time" and he basically told me to shut up....i was sooo pissed because he said ur not grown until u have kids and blah blah blah. im 18, almost 19 hopefully, and yeah, im not an adult, but i also think that having kids doesnt make u one; thats just retarded....

2007-05-13 23:46:12 · 9 answers · asked by Jeannette A 2

in laws included to tell your kids off when you are in the same room, especially when you haven't had a chance to open your mouth and speak yourself.
This has been happening to me with one of my in-laws and I feel a bit peeved to say the least,

2007-05-13 23:39:20 · 33 answers · asked by treacle0511 2

Does it sound Cruel!

But the actual fact is every 8 in every 10 Household neglect their parents when they reach 80+.
When they are full of illness and full of problems

i would consider the following form of action "discard":
Put them in the old folks home.
Push responsibilty among siblings.
Visit Them less than 5 times a year.

The common excuse are for discard:
My house is too small for them to come and stay.
Both me and my Husband/Wife are working.
We are facing Financial Difficulty
We have Kids to take care
Many more....

Can you guys pls contribute "WHY & WHAT" have circumstances made you so "choiceless" that you have to discard your own parents?

Dont you remember how they sacrifice everything to take care of you when you are sick when you are a kid!

2007-05-13 21:56:46 · 10 answers · asked by novkhan 1

2007-05-13 21:53:45 · 9 answers · asked by sony_var 1

I'm a high school teacher, so I know teenagers are a bit self involved. But my daughter takes it to a completely different level. We try to do all we can for her (monetarily, physically, emotionally, spiritually) however, she treats us like we are nothing more than money bags. Whether it's prom, a car (yeah, it's a P.O.S. car, but it's wheels she didn't pay for), or a coach purse for her 18th birthday, she will take these things gladly but then doesn't show any love or respect for us. She LOVES her friends.
Am I being a sucker for giving in (and in essence attempting to buy the love she will not show) or should I keep trying?
p.s. Her little sister is totally the opposite

2007-05-13 20:39:30 · 23 answers · asked by Brenda J 3

im 21 and i have very protective parents. they don't want to let me move out till i graduate college , get a job as an architect and get a good car. my sister is 28 and still lives at home. she is successful but i dont want to be here longer. i think they want me to be like her but i need my freedom. its like im still a child because i still have to ask permission to do everything. i want to move out w/ 2 other girls. the place is 850 all together w/ 3 bedrooms. i only make 650 a month...do u think i should do it? i know i could make it work and i realize i wouldn't have money to just waste but my parents WONT LET ME. im over 18 but they dont care. they will NOT let me leave. what do i do? how do i make them see that i need to do things on my own? any advice please!!

2007-05-13 20:07:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

One problem after another.....WHY????

2007-05-13 20:02:07 · 36 answers · asked by aNjAsMaRa 2

My brother is graduating high school on his 19th bday, which is this Thursday. That is great, but his future may not be so great...My brother wants to go into the Marines, and go into infinitry, which basically makes him a target. It just really upsets me, because I don't want to bury a brother at the age of 19. My family isn't so pleased about it either, I want him to come to college with me, and have fun, and ENJOY life...

2007-05-13 19:37:01 · 7 answers · asked by millerdealer 2

im 15....

2007-05-13 19:23:45 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have abandonment issues because my stepdad essentially neglected me for 10 years. I can tell I'm kind of f*cked up in the head. I'm college educated and ambitious but I'm an illegitimate child whose stepfather is an alcoholic and neglectful. He puts me down with subtlety occasionally and I just want to blow up in his face. The only reason I don't is because I don't want to make our relationship worse (I think I crave subconsciously for a father). I feel these issues are the only impediment that's holding me back from reaching my full potential. How can I recover from my issues without therapy or drugs?

2007-05-13 18:43:32 · 3 answers · asked by Fancelll79 2

me and my dad are like SUPER closee, and so i really wanna make him a great fathers day gift and want to start making it soon. does anyone have any good ideas? i was going to do a scrap book with photos of me and him in it but im going to save that idea for my parents anniversary.


SO ANY IDEAS?!

2007-05-13 18:25:58 · 6 answers · asked by one2three 1

My husband and I do nothing but fight. He doesn't respect me, he just talks to me like ****. I get upset and say things I shouldn't, but he just says whatever he wants, whenever he wants and doesn't even care if he hurts my feelings. We have an almost eight month old son, and I'm a SAHM. Our son is going through a stage where he really gets upset if we put him down (please, no parenting advice) and I'm having a bit of a hard time keeping everything around the house caught up. He was yelling at me tonight that I need to get off my *** (my son was asleep on me) and "do my job" He sleeps all day because he works third shift and I never ask him for a bit of help other than to get the baby up and change him in the morning. That's it. He never talks to me, he talks to waitresses more than he does me in a weeks time, he barely kisses me, never hugs me or gets annoyed when I hug him, we never go anywhere unless he bitches about it. He just wants to do his thing. I'm so over it. I just want

2007-05-13 18:23:53 · 15 answers · asked by ... 1

Sometimes Dads don't get credit for raising their kids by themselves...Every Mothers Day, besides wishing my Mother Happy Mothers Day, I wish my Dad Happy Mothers Day too.
Its especially hard for a Dad, when he has a Daughter!

2007-05-13 18:07:11 · 1 answers · asked by iwish40 3

One of the childen (age 17) lives with his girlfriend.

The other boys age 3 and 12 live with them and are exposed to the drinking and drugs (cannot confirm this, but it is pretty common knowledge).

The father of these boys is jail.

I want to be a good example for these kids. I have started taking them to church and the 12 year old has spent the weekend at my house with my son. The three year old curses and hits you and I need advice on how to connect with him when he is getting NO GUIDANCE at home?

My husband says that it is not our problem. I want to "fix this" for those children.
Any advice on how I can be the BEST influence in the limitted amount of time that I spend with them?

2007-05-13 17:57:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i lost my virginity tonight, and it wasint what i expected. i thought that it would make me feel better about myself, sense all my friends are doing it and they told me i should. now i feel guilty as hell and i dont know why? i feel like i let my parents down, like i ignored everything they told me. they trusted me and i did this behind their back. just to fit in. help what should i do, what can i do to feel better? i just wish i could turn back time! if i just new then what i know now. that i would lose something so sacred forever, my innocence.


ps: i can't tell my parents they will be heartbroken. plus they won't trust me any more.

2007-05-13 17:53:57 · 22 answers · asked by lina c 1

Ok, so I found out that my dad has cancer. The problem is, I have only known him for about two years and have only met him 3 or 4 times. As I grew up without a dad, I kindof grew really attached. It's so awkward that I have to call him by his first name, but I want to get to know him and tell him how much I care, but I don't know how to do that when I can't even manage to call him "dad." I know that his family treated my mom really badly when they found out that she was pregnant, so they don't really talk and he lives in the other side of the United States. I have the chance to come up to his house for about a week this summer with his girlfriend (emphasis on girlfriend, although I do like her). The question is, how do I break the ice without it being completly awkward?

2007-05-13 17:49:19 · 8 answers · asked by Emily 2

I'm 20 with a 4 month old daughter, I'm living in a small town with my family right now, I plan to move back to the city with my daughter to live with my boyfriend. My mother does not want me to do this and plans to go to my boyfriend with information from the past that would ruin our relationship if I try to leave, I could really use some advice, anything that could stop her from doing this, thanks

2007-05-13 17:43:08 · 21 answers · asked by Rebecca B 2

i have a dad who is wicked strict with me growing out my hair. i want to have it longer but he always makes me cut it. have any ideas on what i can do to convince him to let me grow it out?

2007-05-13 13:09:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-13 12:45:15 · 26 answers · asked by dayna_monkey 1

I used to send my brother and his family gifts for Christmas. However, I never received anything in return.

Now, he and I have had a misunderstanding. He told me something that I did not like and I hung up on him . I sent a note apologizing to him and he did not respond.

Now my parents are overseas for a 1 1/2 weeks. I live with them currently. He does not even call to see how I am doing.

He thinks that I am bipolar, but I am not. He is on meds for it and thinks that its hereditary. I don't believe it and am seeing a Counselor who says that I am not bipolar.

Do brother/ sisters normally stay close? His wife is close to her family. My brother is 6 years younger than me though.

2007-05-13 12:38:57 · 2 answers · asked by Stareyes 5

2007-05-13 12:36:17 · 4 answers · asked by jason l 1

are you okay with that?
thanks

2007-05-13 11:45:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

i feel i need to be crying and really sad! but i feel the insane urge to laugh and smile....im sad that they died, i really am...but why do i feel this way? am i just very shocked...? its really weird...i feel like its a good thing cause they're in a better place and it's not a bad thing that they died....

2007-05-13 11:06:40 · 25 answers · asked by kitties! 2

My uncle has been living with us for 6 months now. He was only supposed to live with us for 3. My mom wanted him to make something of himself so she got him a job, yatta yatta yatta. But he's making no effort to find a place of his own considering he has a steady, good paying job. He's a BIG alcoholic. I've never seen a bigger alcoholic ever in my life. He drinks at LEAST a 6 pack every day, most days more than that. I no longer bring friends to the house because who wants to hang out with a drunk alcoholic around all the time? I'm 15 and it's summer now. I want my old life back. He also is staying in our workout room. Our treadmill is now in our living room, an ab lounge in my room, and a set of dumbells in my brothers room. All of which were in our work out room. He's just been nothing but a nuisance. I have to post more details. Sorry so long.

2007-05-13 10:47:23 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous