My husbands family is always telling me that my husband will always love his ex girlfriend because she had his first children. He has confronted them and told them where they could go but they stil continue to say this. Is it true a man will always love the woman who had his first child?
2007-05-14 00:24:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
of course he will always love her as the mother of his children. any man that has kids by another woman or vice-versa should love and respect each other and embrace the fact that they need to have that mutual respect for each other in order to raise happy and healthy children.
but look who he married...YOU! you just love and support the fact that he is a good dad and a good person...if he sees you flurish with the relationship with his ex" we all have to get along for the kids" this will add alot self-confidence in your marriage. first child or last child.
2007-05-14 00:59:05 · answer #1 · answered by kimmer 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There can't be a lot of "LOVE" because she wouldn't be "the mother of his kid", she'd be his "WIFE".
No, it's not true that a man always loves the woman who had his first kid. Nor is it true that a woman always loves the man who got her pregnant the first time.
Don't worry about it. Tell them to "Shut the f**k up and mind their own business." My father in law used to bull that crap about this woman my husband dated when he was 16, she never had his kid, but they were very tight. He'd say, "When S dumps you he's gonna go back to her." I'd just reply... "That's quite all right, but he'll go with half his stuff and missing a HUGE chunk of his paycheck."
Don't worry about what they say, they are not your husband.
2007-05-14 01:01:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either one of the below -
1) Your in-laws hate you and blame you for marrying him instead of him marring this ex girlfriend.
2) It's a good way for your husband to get some on the side when he goes and picks up the kids.
2007-05-14 00:56:03 · answer #3 · answered by Carlos G 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it is not true!!.it is far far from the truth.i know many cases like this.in short one was so bad that when the woman who had his first child died he refused to attend her burial or have anything to do with the burial despite all persuasion,and even custom demands that he do certain things cause they were once married.still the man defied this custom and said NO.
2007-05-14 01:38:42 · answer #4 · answered by bestofyou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of it’s actual even though it’s additionally complicated to declare by fact our concern grow to be annoying to handle too so it’s complicated to declare quite yet I’ll attempt. My husband found out, an quite nasty way could I upload, that he had a a million ½ year previous daughter. He had to take a DNA try to until eventually our courtroom date, if he had to verify his youngster, be on the beckon call of her evil mom. They have been on no account married. They have been a month long booty call. She’s a great individual now, yet grow to be VERY bitter in direction of my husband for many motives. It’s harm his relationship along with his daughter being that he on no account had a relationship along with her to start with. We the two quite love this little lady. He loves her lots it hurts sometimes. yet her mom makes our existence very complicated and on an identical time as he doesn’t take it out on his daughter, it does impression his relationship along with her. by fact think of roughly it, this mom took away his probability at being there for the being pregnant, being there for the delivery, seeing the youngster be born and cry and all the joys of milestones that oldsters appreciate seeing with their young ones. He on no account found out that it grow to be hurtful/bothersome to him until eventually we had our very own infant. He grow to be with me interior the path of the whole time. He observed my abdomen strengthen, he felt the child kick, he observed the ultrasound photos, heard the heart beat. Then whilst the child grow to be born, he grow to be there for the delivery, has seen our son strengthen up. He’s now 18 months previous that's sort of the comparable time we found out approximately my stepdaughter. It easily is a lot from intentional on my husband’s area. And that's unhappy. yet we on no account in a million years will ever blame that little lady. whilst the time comes for why we don’t have photos human beings jointly as a infant along with her like we've along with her brother…we’ll merely enable her mom clarify that one.
2016-10-15 22:31:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There definitely seems to be a connection of sorts, but I don't believe it is love. They just share something that they both love, their children.
2007-05-14 00:29:52 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men feel this way. My husband hates his children's mother.
2007-05-14 03:00:23 · answer #7 · answered by Coop's Wife 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
those feeling are not gone for ever ,but u can ask him if u want to ,but he will lie to u .its true .
2007-05-14 00:30:01 · answer #8 · answered by luvuyo s 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋