im a dad need help?

Question

plz help me my wife went to TOKYO im stuck with 3 kids one who is 3 years old the other are 15 12 i got to go to work do stay with them or take them to a day care

Answer 1

If you feel the 15 year old is mature enough to babysit the 3 year old I would suggest you ask him/her to babysit. Maybe offer to pay the going rate differs form state but maybe $5.00 per hr. The 12 year really dont need a babysitter but just tell the 15 year old to keep and eye one him/her. But if you dont feel they are mature enough to handle the 3 year old put him in day care. Maybe ask a relative to check on them through out the time you will be gone. If yo have a relative or trustworthly friends close by. This is my sugggestion.

Answer 2

I would think the 15 year old could watch their siblings. How long is your wife going to be gone and why weren't these arrangements made prior to her leaving? Do you have any family that could care for the children while you are at work? Or just take them to daycare, I don't know if the 15 year old would want to go.

Sorry to say this but you should be more involved then you would know what to do.

Answer 3

The 15 and 12 year old should be able to watch them but only you can determine if they are responsible enough for that.

Answer 4

Maybe the 15 yr old can watch the kids till u get home.

Answer 5

you know, people who have children, need to learn how to handle them....

you've had kids for 15 years and don't know what to do with them?

it's never too late for a parenting class.

Answer 6

didn't you and your wife discuss this before she left? do they usually go to day care? what about school?