ok so say that you live with your bio. mom and dad. but you have a godmother.
[this is pretty much for moms and godmothers....]
how would you feel if your goddaughter asked you to buy B.C or condoms for her? would you do it? would you tell her mom? what if she said it was just incase something happened but she dont plan on it happeneing, what would you think? would you buy them for her lets say if she was 16. and you set her up with her current bf.
plz answer. i want to ask my godmother, who will keep my secrets and dont tell on me for prety much anythign i dont think, and she wuld do nething for me. but im kinda scared. and what are some good convo starters to ask her?
plz plz plz help me!!!!!?????
2007-05-16 14:14:58 · 5 answers · asked by youdontneedtoknome 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i forgot to tell the part: IF I ASK MY MOM [OR DAD] I WILL DIE. im serious. i wuldnt be allowed out of the hosue at all unless they were with me at all times. they are so unbulieveably unprotective. i mean YEA! so unless you want me dead [if you do go away!!!] then stick wit the 'how can i talk to my godmother about this' question. lol.
2007-05-16 14:26:03 · update #1
If I were you, I would decide not to have sex until marriage. Think about it -- why do you HAVE to lose your virginity now? Birth control in any form can always falter and you might end up pregnant. You would then be held down for life with a child that needs you. You're just a kid yourself and you already are wanting to do very mature things. I understand the desire teenagers have, but there are other ways. Do a little research if you don't catch my drift...I'm not recommending, I'm just suggesting you think things over thoroughly. You will regret it later on.
2007-05-16 18:45:18 · answer #1 · answered by MW 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay as a godmother, if my god daughter were to tell me this I would actually encourage her to talk to her mother about it. Believe it or not Mothers know that sex is inevitable and just hope that their daughter is responsible in they she handles herself. Not telling something to your mother and going to someone else other than your mother can really hurt her. Try talking to your mother first. But godmothers are always there to help. Try not to stick them into this predicament cause its a tricky one.
2007-05-16 21:23:00 · answer #2 · answered by 123-123-123 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you are great for planning ahead, and if you can trust her, ask away!!
Maybe just say you would like to have bc, or condoms, for just in case, because you are starting to feel strongly about your bf, and you think you should be prepared,
This is a really adult thing to do. Good For You
2007-05-16 21:19:08 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ ♥ ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it isn't fair to put your godmother in that position. as a godmother, the church say's her responsibility is to help your parents raise you in the faith you were baptized into or in there absence, see to it that you are raised in the faith by herself. does your faith allow for this? i doubt it. i'm not preaching but, just b/c she is your godmother, doesn't mean you should expect her to do this. your parents intrusted you to her. it's there hope that she will do the same as they would. don't put her in a position were she'll have to keep a secret or lie to your parents. if they find out, you'll ruin their friendship and your ability to see her. you're too young for sex anyway.
2007-05-16 23:37:00 · answer #4 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Id try TO TELL you don't want her coming home witha baby belly
2007-05-16 21:20:13 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋