My biological mother is a compulsive lier and so is her husband. She abandoned me when I was little and knowingly left my and my brother with an abusive father. She had choose to tell me she was in an accident and lost her memory so she wouldn't have to answer for the past. which I caught her countless times lying and try to back peddle. I tried several times until I had enough and told her I wanted nothing more to do with her and him. They are trying to ruin my life,reputation and family. I have 4 small children and they are harrassing me. Have called CPS and reported me. They came to my home and found the report unfounded and I have a copy of the report but they won't be happy until they have ruined my life. These are truly psychotic people who are evil and I believe won't stop at anything. I told them if they continued I would get a restraining order. There is just no reasoning with them they are both seriousley off their rockers. That is why I cut off communication.
2007-05-14 16:24:04 · 8 answers · asked by tigger46161 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I would most definitely keep all records of all the things that they have done and try not to answer the phone and let them leave you messages that you can record and keep. Go and get that restraining order for future use if it arises. Make sure that you keep in touch with CPS and tell them that you want to know what you can do when you know that someone is trying to cause you problems like this ask them is there anyway to charge them with harassment? keep a diary of everything they say or do and if you can take pictures of anything that you can and try to have people with you at all times so that they can serve as your witness if the need arises.
2007-05-14 16:52:18 · answer #1 · answered by LittleDaisy. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh honey what a horrible thing to have happen to you. You may have to see a lawyer if you can afford it and see what you can do to stop them once and for all. The least a lawyer can do is speak for you to CPS so that they know what is going on. Get the restraining order ASAP. Show these freaks that you are not going to let them mess with you and your children.
Good luck to you.
2007-05-14 17:38:30 · answer #2 · answered by Patti C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Even though it is driving you nuts, do everything you can to not let her know how much it gets to you. Hold your head up high and take the high road here. Don't respond to her - she is trying to get on your nerves in a major way and damage your relationship by making you question it - and it is working! She is jealous of the relationship you have with him and it gives her great satisfaction to know that it bothers you when she does this. If she bothers you she gets his attention again and that is very pleasing to her. Even the negative attention she gets is better than being ignored by your partner. Stay strong for those babies and act classy - don't let her see how much she unnerves you. It might take a while, but she will give it up when she sees it is a waste of her life to continue to be so hateful. good luck!
2016-05-18 04:02:08 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a restraining order. You feel resentment, i dont blame you, but you need to move on. You are a good mom and protect your kids from such destructive people. If the local authorites and CPS faill you, build a fence and get a really big dog!
2007-05-15 05:07:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep all papers !! you'll need it one day! I Ithink I would speak to them on one more phone call and tell her if she calls again you'll have phone harrassment charges pressed, Don't let them come to your house, if they do, don't open the door, call the law, get as much as you can behind you, you'll probally need it one day for that restrainning order, But don't let them know their getting to you, that's what they are wanting
2007-05-14 16:33:17 · answer #5 · answered by patsy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get that restraining order, change your number-- call social services and alert them that you may be reported by these people again-- and tell them why... and NEVER answer them again!
2007-05-14 16:33:35 · answer #6 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sue them for slander and for causing you emotional distress. Let them know this is a costly mistake on their part.
2007-05-14 18:13:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
restraining order. no one has the right to harass anyone
2007-05-14 16:48:58 · answer #8 · answered by thirdeye67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋