Family - January 2007

My parents fight all the time, it's like my mom is paranoid he is messing around and it's like she tries to plant stuff on him so it looks like he is but he isn't. So they constantly fight and I, being the oldest of 2 kids, gets in trouble for it. After a fight, my mom throws stuff at me, hits me sometimes, tells me that I can't do anything right, and blames me for everything. I could be sitting somewhere minding my own business and all the sudden she comes out screaming about how I'm sitting or something. I'm so fed up with it, I'm 15, so I can't leave. I can't take it anymore, so much I have started to cut myself and have thought that if I just was gone forever, and killed myself, everything would end and I wouldn't have to deal with all this. I need help, what can I do?

2007-01-17 20:13:16 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

im 22 and i would like to know how it feels to have snow fights and snow in my hair

I live in South Africa and the last time it snowed here was the year before i was born.....

please describe it to me

2007-01-17 20:02:04 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-17 19:54:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

honestly now, do you think that at the age of 30 you would be happy if you had no parents, siblings, husband or children? Cos i dont and im not sure how to feel..................

2007-01-17 19:30:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

im 36, 21 years ago I was raped by three black boys.To make matters worse I got pregnate,and because of my parents religious beliefs abortion was not an option.Well 3 months ago I get a call from my sons adoptive parents to let me know he wants to meet me,wow And get this he just found out that hes half white.When his parent called they asked me not to tell him what happend.On his pappers it shows his father to be unknown and therefore I think he thinks I gave him up because I was loose and didnt want a black baby which is furthest from the truth.I've always had a void in my life hopeing and praying he was happy and well taken care of.And he was, He became a police officer and I could'nt be prouder.But I feel its important he knows that i was put in a position that I had know control over. What do you think?

2007-01-17 19:19:15 · 40 answers · asked by Ms.Pickle 3

I recently gave birth and we named our son Damian James. My father and uncle say that his name is "Evil" and he will be picked on a lot in school for this also he refuses to call my son by his name almost seems as though he wants nothing to do with him... he is not a religious person but recenlty he referred to my son as "the boy"... should I let this irritate me? How do I get my father to accept his Grandson?? I have two other children and he seems to love them and treats them normal...

2007-01-17 19:13:39 · 17 answers · asked by h32honey32 1

Listen to rap songs with explicit lyrics { ex. i wanna f*** you, I wanna lick your ***y ect..} and he blast them in his room and she does not care and she lets him watch R movies. She tries not to be strict, but I'm getting fed up with all of it. Is there any way I can tell her that its inappropriate without sounding like a whiny , selfish cry baby? We're a normal family, we live in a good neighborhood and stuff, so we're not disfunctional or anything..

2007-01-17 19:12:14 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 22 years old.
Wanting to accept financial help from parents (not paying it back), is this greedy, selfish, time to grow up?
I have a friend at work who says she's been out on her own (financially) since she was 13 years old.
Should I feel guilty or should I just be very grateful I have such great parents?

2007-01-17 18:39:31 · 11 answers · asked by Kate B 1

But i love my friend's family a lot. I love being with them all the time. I sometimes feel that i should have born in that family.I m avoiding talking with my parent and relatives.They too care me but i could not accept them. I hate my family, finding faults with them all the time. My friend's family gives me lot of happiness,but thats missing in my family. I m 24 now. what should i do? should i consult a psychiatrist?

2007-01-17 18:31:52 · 19 answers · asked by !!Love Is GOD!! 1

2007-01-17 18:29:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

well im 17 ,18 in 2 months 3 years ago my parents got a divorce my mom left my dad was with another man for 2 years i was doing better and getting over it then one day my mom deceided she had a enough and wanted back and my dad said yes i said f no but it didnt matter when she came back she also had 60,00 dollars in debt and to this day we are still in debt and they cant help me pay for collage, ever since she came back my mom tries to control me i cant have a myspace up until 3 months ago i couldnt have a girlfriend when i go hang out with my friends she follows me and has people spy on me, when i go to the store i see her behind me seing where im going she hates my friends and wont letthem come over when my parents got divorced i went to school b4 that i was homeschooled wen she came bk she made me be homeschooled
this year i get 2 go 2 a christian school bc im a senior but i have to pay for it myself im just upset with all this and want to know if i am justified at all and wt 2 do

2007-01-17 18:25:26 · 7 answers · asked by zoch13 2

2007-01-17 18:21:33 · 12 answers · asked by anthony f 1

2007-01-17 18:11:37 · 17 answers · asked by deirdrefaith 4

ur parents stopped hitting u?

2007-01-17 18:08:19 · 14 answers · asked by ♥BabyGirl♥ 2

my husband was adopted when he was 3years old, we just recently had a son and he is having MAJOR problems and the doctors all say it may be hereditary and nothing like this has ever happend to my side of the family and we need to find her ASAP... we dont really know how to start looking for her... all the information we have is what hospital he was born... his adoptive mother isnt helping us, because she feels she is his mother and it hurts her... but we SeRiOuSlY need to find out... thank you for your help!

2007-01-17 17:53:56 · 9 answers · asked by tiffany 2

2007-01-17 17:47:55 · 4 answers · asked by john t 4

my sister is hot-headed .its unfortunate but in 23 yrs. of her s' she hasn't made any frnds.
she misbehaves with everyone including my parents & me !
i don't know what to do ? since we live in the same house , not talking to each other is also not a solution. please help ! its urgent !

2007-01-17 17:46:28 · 13 answers · asked by ali 1

Whose lost a loveone and blamed God or themselves. Yet know now they didn't have anything to do with it. It just happen! Sincere help please?

2007-01-17 17:46:04 · 7 answers · asked by powers4jesus 1

My mother is so religous... I love her to bits, but can't trust her cause she thinks I'm going to hell... as does my aunt and all that side.

I love my dad, but he is emotionally closed.

My brother has relatively little to do with family. When I do see him he tries to be the fun guy by making fun of me and roughing my kids up, then I am the witch when I tell him to be more gentle.

I really want a close family.. I miss my mom, but I can't trust her with my secrets anymore. I am expecting my second child and so far my own family is really close.. and I hope that lasts.. that I am doing ok as a mom... that they will want more to do with family then my brother does...

Do you ever wish you had a closer family that could accept you? A close relationship with your only sibling? Sometimes it makes me sad... like right now.. I am kinda meloncoly about it all.

2007-01-17 17:41:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I work fulltime and don't have the time for myself. My son is starting to tell me I am selfish. What's up with that?

2007-01-17 17:37:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

A friend of mine brought her neighbor over recently to visit and we all started talking. Now this was the first time I had met her neighbor keep this in mind. Anyways the woman goes on to tell me (a perfect stranger!) about ALL of her medical conditions. Epilepsy, diabetes, bipolar, you name it she has it. Plus my friend tells me she is a drug addict. Long story short the woman had 6 children (three were taken by the state). Anyways she was telling me about how wonderful her six year old son is while she's having a seizure. Now me and my friend are arguing about her. I say, knowing she had all these terrible diseases/conditions and still having children is irresponsible and selfish. She says it's not. She says people have mistakes, I say endangering and traumatizing SIX innocent children is no mistake. I know she didn't ask for any of the sickness but still... In your opinion who is right?

2007-01-17 17:08:34 · 12 answers · asked by korngoddess1027 5

Growing up I didnt have the greatest childhood. My mother and father were always fighting(more of my moms fault i believe). They split when I was 10 years old. On a side note though I know they both love me very much. Especially my father, and my mom as well under her depression/anxieties. Today I live on my own, while I attend school. I consider myself to be a very kind, and caring person under my social anxiety. But, sometimes I question how truley I love my family and friends. Like I dont know how devastated I would be if they died. Maybe because we have just grown apart? I mean I have great respect for them and what not. I was just wondering this when I was contemplating finding a true love. Maybe my childhood made has made it hard for me to love. Whatever love is. I mean I tell my family I love them when I see them, but I dont know if it is real. I am considering seeking a professionals help. Any advice or wisdom in regards to this. Thanks alot- MIke

2007-01-17 16:59:46 · 8 answers · asked by michael b 1

i am very beautiful 26 yrs old juvenile diabetic girl.

but my inlaws dont know about my diabetic problem and the guy also dont know.
i am scared if they knows ..........

2007-01-17 16:40:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

MORE AND MORE GROWN MEN LIVING WITH THEIR MOTHERS AND MORE AND MORE MOTHERS REFUSING TO LET GO OF THIER GROWN SONS. I HAVE BEEN IN A 9 YEAR RELATIONSHIP HOPING THAT THIS PERSON WOULD EVENTUALLY GROW UP.....THE OTHER DAY HIS MOM SAYS THAT THEY ARE MOVING INTO A SMALLER HOUSE BECAUSE IT WAS JUST THE TWO OF THEM AND THEY DIDNT NEED THAT MUCH ROOM!!!!! IM LIKE ???!!!! WTF? ME AND THIS GUY HAVE A 7 YEAR OLD CHILD! IM DONE WITH THAT MONKEY BUSINESS....I JUST WANT TO KNOW IF I AM THE ONLY ONE WHO NOTICES THIS. ALL OF HIS FRIENDS (SOME EVEN 40 YEARS OLD) STILL LIVE AT HOME......IN THE ROOM EVEN!!!!!

2007-01-17 16:11:46 · 12 answers · asked by goldie 4

after marriage what's inlows creat problen.why give drory gorls parents.i they will not give drory after that what will happen.

2007-01-17 16:00:58 · 5 answers · asked by leestar_1 2

I have sole legal and physical custody of my son can i change his last name to mine even if the mother says no

2007-01-17 16:00:34 · 15 answers · asked by ? 1

my mum was a nasty person all her life, now she is in her late fifties, she told me if i behave i 'might' get inheritance, but i ''might not'', everytime i see her i feel stress, she is such a toxic person.

2007-01-17 15:44:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mom is the meanest person. she gets mad at everything! i lost total respect for her. she lies, is two faced, shes fake, closed minded. she"ll hear something and take it the wrong way and change what i said. she is too close with her side of the family and she tells them EVERYTHING WE DO! she doesnt work, and whenever she gets mad she just LEAVES to her family for a couple days and doesnt answer her phone! shes call me every bad name u can ever think of and she acts like that with my older brother too! its a whole different story with my 7 year old brother though, shes like in love with him and tells him bad things like " u have to love your mother more than ur dad '' and she gets jealous of my dad because my older brother and i get along with so well him so well, we talk to him about everything. and my mom says that we're closer to him because he " buys our love" how Ridiculous is that!? i just cannot stand her. i got in a fight with her and now i want NOTHING TO DO WITH HER EVER!

2007-01-17 15:44:03 · 11 answers · asked by N 4

Why is she getting away with it? I'm tired of this?
Pops passed away a few years ago and mom bought a new house.Mom, my grand mother(who is bedrideen and blind),me, my brother and my sister in law live in the same house.Mom allowed me to move in the meantime until i find myself an apartment since im new in the area.Cant wait to move out!!! My sister in law fakes alot,she prenteds to faint, be weak, be very sick.We took her to the hospital numerous times & doctors said she had nothing. But she keeps faking it. She also doesn't want to help out around the house. All we ask his that she cleans the kitchen and dishes. She rarely does it. She claims to do all the work, when in reality i am. I take care of mom, granny( wash and change her and feed her). I cook souper for mom, granny and I. I clean half of the house.The top part were we are.I take out the garbage,look after mom since she has health problem and cant do much work with her knees and back probls. Why is my sister in law getting

2007-01-17 15:43:41 · 5 answers · asked by ? 1

you want to be with them, but they dón't excise, only eats fatty crap, is it ok to divorce them later if they fall ill because they didn't care?

2007-01-17 15:42:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous