my sister is hot-headed .its unfortunate but in 23 yrs. of her s' she hasn't made any frnds.
she misbehaves with everyone including my parents & me !
i don't know what to do ? since we live in the same house , not talking to each other is also not a solution. please help ! its urgent !
2007-01-17 17:46:28 · 13 answers · asked by ali 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
WHY DON'T YOU TALK TO YOUR PARENTS ABOUT THIS.
2007-01-18 03:51:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
She is your sister. U need to talk 2 her. Maybe she is depressed as she is not able to make any friends all these years. Try to take her into your confidence n make friendship with her. U can start a talk with her like " I am in trouble n need your advice". Tell her any type of problem like U had a fight with one of your friends n want her opinion on it. N if u don't want 2 say lie then ask her how was her day. May be she reply rudely but don't panic n tell abt ur day. Continue this process for few days. I am sure she will respond positively. Then friendship with her n talk 2 her. Also include your parents n boost them to talk 2 her if possible. Hope this help. Good luck.
2007-01-17 21:26:06 · answer #2 · answered by Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is your sister, be kind to her. Whatever may happen do not get angry over her and shout at her. Take care of her.
"Love everyone like your child" Dalai Lama.
Off course you know the choice is yours and you alone face the consequences.
You will be influenced by lover, friend, relative, neighbours and even strangers but end of the day choice is yours. You make the choice and you face the consequences.
2007-01-17 19:09:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she like this from very young age, then it is too late for family members to deal with her.Please take her to a phycologist who will advise you people more than her because all she needs is love ,unconditional love.Stop comparing her with anyone and dont blame her for others faults without trusting her.You just say you dont like what she does but like her a lot and want only the best for her and that you are willing to help her to solve any of her problems and to keep it confidential.Best of luck.
2007-01-18 17:10:46 · answer #4 · answered by filly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she is hurt a lot right from her childhood.Try to be friendly with her. May be ur kind ,friendly appraoch may make her think . First of all,ur family members should speak out frankly. Not speaking - wont give any solution.Try to find out her feelings.Find out what she want and what she is thinking about you all. May be she is looking for true love and care. Make her realize, how much u care and having affection with her.soon,she will change her approach .Dont worry !
2007-01-17 19:03:01 · answer #5 · answered by !!Love Is GOD!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her. Be polite and approach with humor. Don't bully her. As she is a bit hot tempered she would definitely respond rudely to your aproach. But stick on be to your attitude towards her.
When it comes to 2 different mentallities, the one that changes its attitude towards other turns out to be weaker. There lies the problem and the solution. You guys have tried out different ways to change her. You were proven weak. She stuck to her attitude. Now its your turn. you guys stick to your polite, humorous and loving attitude. I bet her attitude will change too. She just needs to realize that life is a lot more fun if you look at it with a different perspective.
2007-01-19 05:50:53 · answer #6 · answered by plato's ghost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hiey ali.
many things happen in life that we dont seem to be able to correct on a fast pace, you should make time and try to get her to talk to you, and tell her how important she is in your life and , by your name i am guessing you are muslim, tell her about how muslims or infact every other religion says that respect for parents in nessecary, and convince her that she is so worth the time and respect but she needs to return in as well, because life is short god forbid if something ever happens to anyone in the family she will always hold a guilt, hope i helped
take care anum
2007-01-18 13:41:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
See, please leave this head ache to your parents. Don't poke your nose into this because she will not relish your intrusion because she might probably have an ego that girls are cursed tobe suppressed by male as this opinion is common among the women folk recently. Kindly arrange for counselling from a psychologist and not from a psychiatrist
2007-01-17 21:25:08 · answer #8 · answered by vijayakumar n 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ignore her, move out, tell her she's childish, I don't know what to tell ya.... Sounds to me like she needs to grow up. Maybe ask your parents to talk to her because obviously this disrupts everyone in your household.
2007-01-17 17:51:00 · answer #9 · answered by ?only?me? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she picks up a fight, dont retaliate.Be gentle towards her.She has no friends. Try being her friend.She will change.
2007-01-17 17:51:11 · answer #10 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Refer her to a psychatarist who will be able to advice her better.
2007-01-20 03:52:59 · answer #11 · answered by Smriti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋