i am very beautiful 26 yrs old juvenile diabetic girl.
but my inlaws dont know about my diabetic problem and the guy also dont know.
i am scared if they knows ..........
2007-01-17 16:40:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
If they like you, they like you for YOU, diabetes should not be a factor. If they are that shallow and worried for what ever reason, such as a grand kid will inherit it from you, you don't need them Diabetes can be controlled.
I'd worry if I had an uncontrollable mental illness where I liked to abuse animals and small kids.
2007-01-17 17:07:26 · answer #1 · answered by Mt ~^^~~^^~ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't be silly.
Why would you hid a part of who you are? There is nothing wrong with being diabetic.
You shouldn't be scared about telling him. If he doesn't like you anymore because you have diabetes, then he wasn't worth it in the first place.
He might be upset that you hid this from him, but in that he has reason.
2007-01-17 18:27:41 · answer #2 · answered by Samantha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you know him well enough to tell him?
It's not fair to marry somebody without telling him about an important health problem like this.
He is the one you would be marrying, not the rest of the family so it is his feelings that are important. I don't care whether you tell the in-laws. If he will not accept you as you are, better not marry him.
2007-01-17 16:53:00 · answer #3 · answered by The First Dragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His family doesn't need to know your health issues, but certainly before you marry him he should know these things.
2007-01-17 16:53:58 · answer #4 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋