Family - January 2007

Yea, at first glance this is a flame-worthy question, but heres the story.

My mom recently got a part-time night job, and she uses it as an excuse to neglect all motherly-duties. She thinks she's the only 40-yr old woman in the work-force and that on the days she's working, doing anything else prior to showing up will make her too tired to work. And thats not just for the big things, she refuses to cook, buy groceries, help me with any task like planning or preperation.

There are 3 kids in this house and so far for the past 7 months-ish I've done every single thing for myself that I wanted.

My mom refuses to do ANYTHING. On work days she sits on a couch, calls her friends until 5 oclock when she goes to work. I know it's not IMPOSSIBLE to be a parent and work, she's making life miserable for me, and I'm a very independant kid, I've done most of the things in life up till now, but now I need her "permission" to do things req. for my future (stupid laws...) what can I do?

2007-01-17 12:52:43 · 42 answers · asked by adklsjfklsdj 6

2007-01-17 12:48:57 · 10 answers · asked by Sweatburn 1

i have lots of friends who are in their 20's and 30's still living with parents, do you think the parents actually enjoying the company? the children pay some bills like electricity or water

2007-01-17 12:45:36 · 14 answers · asked by hwdfoo 1

well 2day my mom found out that her cuz died and they are havin a viewing 2morrow nd my dad wants me nd my bro to go.....but i have to work and its my 1st day and that will be bad if i tell them i cant go......it starts at 6 and takes bout 45 mins so i wud have to leave at 5ish and i start work at 330 and i dont know if i will be off.....so what sould i do? what wud ya do?

2007-01-17 12:34:22 · 8 answers · asked by track_super2006_star 1

2007-01-17 12:33:22 · 10 answers · asked by broadwayaprilandtiffany 3

My daughter is eight and im a single father. Im the only adult thats involved in her life. i was wondering when its innapproprete for me to see her naked anymore? and she going to start her period soon and how do i confront her about this? also how will she learn about what she needs to know about that. her school does not teach on that. i've checked.

help please

2007-01-17 12:30:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-17 12:15:54 · 9 answers · asked by ? 6

sorry I don't really know what catagory this woul go under.

2007-01-17 11:45:34 · 5 answers · asked by angela m 2

She has no public phone line. She has kept my daughter from me for a year and a half

2007-01-17 11:41:34 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I need to have my indepence so have can I tell my parents this without making them feel Im cutting them out of my life? I mean I know Im young and still their child but I need to have a life they will not be there forever I need to make real friends other than them.

2007-01-17 11:39:47 · 7 answers · asked by Ying Yang 2

2007-01-17 11:38:59 · 9 answers · asked by ainsley h 2

My mom will go to the store for my grandma when she asked but not for me when I ask. She said she does it because she feels sorry for her because she can't go out and get it herself. My mom won't let me drive and I have been asking for this certain thing for days. She tells me to look in the freezer and there is plenty of food in there. I don't understand why she takes care of my granny over me? My granny has 6 other kids to take care of her, and I only have one mom.....plus I'm under 18 and have no way to go myself.

2007-01-17 11:36:26 · 12 answers · asked by *~*~*~* 4

my mom takes my money all the time what should i do?

2007-01-17 11:34:26 · 4 answers · asked by amairani a 1

i have 5 older brothers that are nice to me but not to my boyfriends. what should i do to make them stop

2007-01-17 11:26:36 · 9 answers · asked by megan c 1

I was adopted at birth and the LDS social services won't give me any names. Does anyone know how I penetrate their system to get a name or address???

2007-01-17 11:24:45 · 4 answers · asked by Lalangel 2

2007-01-17 11:06:49 · 10 answers · asked by Pancake 7

mine is only 14 year of age...her and i fight about this all the time, ofcouse she think shes ready, but i on the other hand thinks she should wait until shes atleast 16 or 17.
it would be nice to have another mothers input on this.

2007-01-17 11:06:28 · 7 answers · asked by ayummybia 2

If your parents get mad at you and tell you to leave.. and you leave.. then they call the cops.. will you get in trouble??

2007-01-17 10:59:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

no one let you know that one or both had died? Wouldn't it violate your rights as a son or daughter?

2007-01-17 10:51:43 · 20 answers · asked by Pancake 7

we know each other from net .he is living in another countrybut he is originaly rom my country.we ve felt in love with each other and are planing to get married.is ok in your opinion

2007-01-17 10:36:28 · 9 answers · asked by nahal s 1

Most of what she gives me makes me feel like a middle aged dork. Actually she has great taste, but extremely different from what suits me. I don't feel all that guilty about what she spends because I know she always buys things on sale, but it just seems unfortunate to have all those clothes go to waste. Eventually they end up at the thrift store.

2007-01-17 10:35:16 · 21 answers · asked by mj_indigo 5

we know each other from net .he is living in another countrybut he is originaly rom my country.we ve felt in love with each other and are planing to get married.is ok in your opinion

2007-01-17 10:27:37 · 9 answers · asked by nahal s 1

I am looking for my half brother Ricky Perez..
In 1978 he use to live in Chicago around 26Th street.
I think he is now about 48 to 50 years old.
My name is Maritza.
Any information that is not a joke pleas e-mail me thank you.

2007-01-17 10:09:39 · 7 answers · asked by ღ♥ஐcookie1ஐ♥ღ 6

I'm 31 years old and my wife is 24. We have 4 children with twins. Have been married for 6 yrs.

My wife has 3 sisters and a brother. One of the sisters and brother are married. My other two sister in laws are 18 & 16 yrs and they have been living with us for the past six years.
I treat my two sister in laws as my own daughters and they call me dad and I'm fine with that. My wife's parents died when they were 4 & 6 yrs. They've been living with us for 6 yrs and they have called me dad all this time. My wife's happy about it and says I'm great.

I treat them like my own daughters from my heart and have done everything to them including all expenses. I've bought two houses for them, for their marriage. They say that I am like their own dad and kiss me.When I married they were 10 & 12 and from then they have been kissing me Is it okay for them to kiss me in a FATHER DAUGHTER WAY ONLY on the cheek and calling me dad? My wife says she's happy when they kiss me and treat me like a dad

2007-01-17 10:02:00 · 14 answers · asked by Muslim 1

I want to approach her about it, but I'm afraid I'll upset her more. At her job, her bosses barely respect her, and the children she works with could care less for her, even though she's nothing but nice and caring for them. When she comes home, she is put-down and criticized by my dad while making dinner and taking care of things around the house. My brother and I try to help out as much as possibly, but it seems as though every little thing we do annoys her and makes things worse. I want to do something before things get even more serious, but I don't know what to do.

2007-01-17 09:57:49 · 6 answers · asked by Concerned 1

2007-01-17 09:55:41 · 4 answers · asked by conƒused-little-man 2

With Property Prices so high I think it will be impossible for young adults to get on the property market ladder - does this spell misery for both Parents and Children ?

2007-01-17 09:53:18 · 16 answers · asked by John M 2

My son tells me that his daddy has the mother of his other child at his place when he stays the night. Now his daddy and I have been trying to work things out, but everytime my son says this it starts a fight between me and his father. His father says no she was there part of the time because she brought over the other kid so that he could see his brother. I just don't know what to believe anymore. Our daughter says no she is only there when the other kid is there. My son is 6 and my daughter is 4.

2007-01-17 09:36:51 · 3 answers · asked by jessica c 2

My son is an extra smart kid who is dealing with his parents marital break up. My ex is useless on this and my son chooses to ignore me, except to tell me how he will respond to any actions I take

2007-01-17 09:35:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

A: Caylen

B:Caelen

C: Cayllum
Please do not send your answers on a postcard.

2007-01-17 09:34:36 · 43 answers · asked by Jules G 1