I want to approach her about it, but I'm afraid I'll upset her more. At her job, her bosses barely respect her, and the children she works with could care less for her, even though she's nothing but nice and caring for them. When she comes home, she is put-down and criticized by my dad while making dinner and taking care of things around the house. My brother and I try to help out as much as possibly, but it seems as though every little thing we do annoys her and makes things worse. I want to do something before things get even more serious, but I don't know what to do.
2007-01-17 09:57:49 · 6 answers · asked by Concerned 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I think alls you can do is to tell her you love her..and to keep showing it....its understandable that she gets annoyed with so many mean people in her life
2007-01-17 10:06:59 · answer #1 · answered by sea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think for a start you should show your mum this question you've put up here...that'll break the ice to how you feel about the predicament she's in right now & how much you really want to help out.
It won't upset your mum although she may be brought to tears just knowing the extent you'll go to because you clearly love her so much.
I think you're pretty amazing, I'm sure I wasn't so co-operative when I was living with my mother. I thought my mum only got out of bed to have a moan at me...lol
It will help your mum a lot just to know how much you're ready to support her, out of everything she needs that.
Aside from that...just let her know how much you care by telling her often that you love her....make her cups of tea or coffee & ask what she'd like you to do in order to lighten her load a bit, tell her how much you appreciate her, if she refuses your help then think! think about the stuff she has to do each evening after work & start using your head...rather than asking....just go & do what you know needs to be done anyway.
I think though that showing her this question will help her to see that she could un-intentionally push you away.
Most importantly Babe...don't ever change from being the great kid you are right now....that's why your mum loves you so much.
You could always write her a letter explaining how you feel & post it to her, that way she'll have to sit down & read it...
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2007-01-17 18:31:47 · answer #2 · answered by Funky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has any friends that she trust, maybe they would be able to give her some encouraging words. It always helps to know that you are doing a good job, or great job sounds even better. Tell her what ever she cooks taste good. Tell her she looks pretty in her clothes. She really needs to hear some positive feed back. She also needs to know how to get out of the hole of negativity she is in. She needs a good life coach.
2007-01-17 18:23:09 · answer #3 · answered by ricepat2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U are a sweet person to help your mother out..
I am very proud of u even though i don't know u..
I feel u on this one.
1. take her out to the park and maybe she can open up to u.
2. u should tell her she is a wonderful person.. make her feel like she is the greats mother in this world.
Good luck..
I hope she well be happy for the rest of her life..
God bless u..
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2007-01-17 18:08:12 · answer #4 · answered by **2005** 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try givin her day by her self or go on a family
vacation and get away if that doesnt work try
talkin to ure dad about givin her more respect
every mom needs a break
2007-01-17 18:35:46 · answer #5 · answered by cliff g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone it is her life and she is the only one that can straighten it out.Somtimes people just want a scape goat and don't want to face truth.Give her time to figure it out herself.
2007-01-17 18:42:57 · answer #6 · answered by gblue52 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋