Family - January 2007

how can i get my mom to not make me go to school tomorrow cuz i am SO tired.

2007-01-17 09:28:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

m 16 right know and my birthday is in october. my mom said that if i was to be able to take care of myself then i could move out when i turn 17. But anyways i have a friend who said that her cousin lives in apartments and only has to pay like 50.00! but there nice apartments and she went through social services or something like that were she would only have to pay a little amount like that at the end of the month. i was wondering how do u do that

2007-01-17 09:22:45 · 6 answers · asked by the one and only 1

I'm the father and i don't want my child living with another guy that isn't married to the mother.

2007-01-17 09:12:19 · 45 answers · asked by dustin s 1

I live in a home owned by my mother. Another sister lives next door. Years ago I decided that the boys will be able to see their mom once their 18. Right now they're 9 and 7. My mother agreed at the time but changed her mind. (Sister has lost 4 kids I have 2). 3yrs ago she threatened to take me out of the will if I did'nt let her have supervised visits. I said do what you do. Recently, mom had sister over her house (sister lives in independent living for alcohol/drug abuse and emotional issues-she was taken from her own biological mother because of abuse and the fact that she started a fire that killed her grandmother) to celebrate her birthday. My mom called me to let me know and I took over a gift - minus the boys. Now, she says that my sister will be moving next door (living w/another sister and her boyfriend) to get her GED. I don't want her next door. When she used to visit, the boys exhibited problems everytime she left. I live in Detroit, MI., legal advice? Help

2007-01-17 09:12:10 · 9 answers · asked by Emerald Jones 5

My Brother is 28 and has never had a job. never paid rent. never had a relationship. and just sponges off my dad and the state. me and my two sisters are worried that when my dad is too old to pay his way anymore we will have to look after my brother. he is not disabled and i dont want to call him lazy but he is. he wont go to councelling, cant keep a job for more then 2 minutes and stays in doors playing video games all day. My dad wont chuck him out of the house because he doesnt want him to be homeless. how can we help him to get a life and not ruin ours?

2007-01-17 08:57:12 · 19 answers · asked by mongoose29 2

I'm looking for a man named Scott Schrott, he lived in Arizona in 1985 and dated a woman named Shirl, I really need to find him, please help!

2007-01-17 08:50:48 · 1 answers · asked by Heavenly Bunny (VT) 2

NEED A MAN'S PERSPECTIVE ON THIS 1 - We're young, 26. Married very much in love and commited to each other. Never really got him a nice gift for Valentine's other than candy. So need help what would a man really like for Val. day - be creative and honest. For Val. Day what would be a good nice gift?

2007-01-17 08:49:40 · 9 answers · asked by michelle_3angels 1

She doesnt value me, she just doesnt trust me, I have never done anything to hurt her, actually I was always there for here, I was always caring for her (now I know this was a way of abuse from her), she is judgamental, controlling, and cruel towards me.
I am about to have a daughter. She is happy about the baby, but she never asks about me, she asks about my husband, and how much I am caring for him, but she never asks if he is caring for me.
My relationship with her affected my self-esteem, I am feeling so insecure about my capabilites, about being a mom.
I am going to therapy to get better, but it hurts me I have to deal with a situaiton like this, I wish I could call mom and ask her for guidance, to get support from her, to know that she enjoys knowing what is going on in my life, to be happy to see her each Christmas, to be happy to buy her mother day's gifts, but she is so distant and cold that I feel anger and resntment towards her.

2007-01-17 08:41:21 · 12 answers · asked by Alejandra 1

2007-01-17 08:32:29 · 6 answers · asked by Monkie-mamma 1

if you got really mad at your family because you did something that they didn't like...would you move out when you are able to...

2007-01-17 08:31:22 · 7 answers · asked by babii gurl 1

my father is a very selfish person on earth the only thing he cares about is himself, he don't give a dame about his 4 kids, he is in his old ages and he drinks and smokes alot , and when ever he drinks he acts very stupid and dull, what hurts me the most, when he insults my poor mother, the only reason she is with him is because of her kids, she is always sad and can't do anything what she likes to do. he has no respect for her, and because of that I hate him so much, I don't even wanna see his face, and I want to tell him this but I'm scared that he might hit me. what shall I do, I love my mom,

2007-01-17 08:25:41 · 24 answers · asked by haime 1

My family currently resides in the Bay Area, Ca, and we are thinking about moving to a small town in the mid-atlantic area. Is Charlottesville a good place to be if only one parent is able to work (she's a nurse)? And how's the schools in the area? Are there any towns that are similar to C-ville but a slightly cheaper? ( I heard the cost of living in C-ville is pretty high.) I'll appreciate some opinions.

2007-01-17 08:25:12 · 3 answers · asked by Jaime 1

I am 16 and my brother is 14. We usually get along but as kids we would fight a lot. Now it seems like we fight over something everyday. When we were younger we never physically fought becasue I was big for my age and he was small for his. Right now we are about the same height. Sometimes we might wrestle over something. I thought as teens you get along more. What I am going through, is that normal and will we stop fighting about stupid things soon?

2007-01-17 08:24:04 · 12 answers · asked by Meaghan 2

my mother is 66, I am 45. I have 2 children, my daughter is 23, married with a baby girl, and my son is 12.
My husband, me, and my son moved in to help when my father became ill. He passes away 3 years ago.
My husband took over all of the house payments and all of the bills
of living expenses. I also work 2 jobs.
My mother does nothing but complain about everything.
When my husband is around, she acts like an angel, and starts
sighing, putting things away as if she has been doing all the cleaning! She tells my son and daughter that I am lazy, when I am the one who does the cleaning, cooking, and everything!
She doesn't do anything"! Only watches TV until she hears my husbands car pull in the driveway, then she starts the act!
As I said, I work 2 jobs,, and she keeps telling me to give her money for this and that, when my husband has already payed everything! I found out that she has been doing slot machines! She is telling my kids I am lazy and dont give her anything!

2007-01-17 08:15:59 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband's(been married 3 mons) son from his 1st marrage lives with us half the time and the other half time with his mom.when he comes over he expects my husband to drop everything and play with him the whole time he is with us.if my husband does not he makes my husband feel guilty by saying things like its my day to be with you so you need to play with me.he also gets very jealous if my husband turns his attention to me if only for a minute.we both spend a great deal of time with him but its just not practical for my husband to spend all his time with him playing.he has always been a only child and has a hard time not being the center of attention.also i'm not new to him i have been with his dad since he was small and he does not remember his parents together.the older he is getting the worse he is getting too.how can i get my hus to not feel guilty when he can't play with his son 24/7.plus what can we do to make him behave when my hus has to do something the son does not like?

2007-01-17 08:13:41 · 4 answers · asked by linda7paulean 1

My mom gave me & my brother up when we were 4 & 5; she chose a man who did awful, unthinkable things over us. Our grandparents took us in and raised us wonderfully. Now, 15 years later, she is trying to re-build relationships with everyone. However, she's STILL with this awful man. I've noticed her e-mail address on forwards from the family and she sends gifts to my son from "grammy" which just pisses me off - she doesn't deserve to be a part of my son's life and never will. Being that my other family members are obviously communicating with her, I haven't brought up my concerns because they come off selfish and controlling. Am I wrong for being upset about this? Am I being childish? My brother & I don't have a good relationship and rarely speak. He's in the Army and overseas a lot which doesn't help, so I haven't asked him about his opinion. This sucks b/c he's really the only person who was there and went though all that bad stuff with me. Taking serious suggestions!!

2007-01-17 08:11:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-17 08:01:06 · 6 answers · asked by z-j 1

She yells when it's not nessesary. Shes been hurting me extensively when it comes to "fat meat is greasy". She's seen me trying to improve (grades)but, she takes it as if I don't care anymore.

2007-01-17 07:58:53 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

These people stomp and shout and argue day after day. Then they tell the landlord they don't yell at their kids! Today the landlord said they told her that they weren't even home that day that I complained! They were and I heard them, there was 2 of them home and then later on more.. The landlord told me to stop complaining, she wouldn't listen to anymore of it and it is frustrating for her!! What about me? She said that they told her that they lived in their last place for 10 years! I can't stop crying, maybe cause I'm pregnant, but it is hard to not be believed when you are being honest. And it is hard to be expected to live with other people screaming in your house for hours upon end on an almost daily basis.

I guess I have to start calling the police for domestic disturbance.. and now I am crying more at that thought, because I don't want to be that person that is the b-i-t-c-h-y person downstairs... what can I do?

2007-01-17 07:55:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have a problem with my father ...
i have GF , and he prevent me from that ....
what should i do...

2007-01-17 07:55:13 · 4 answers · asked by momo 1

shes jealous of me cuz now her son has a wife(me) and a baby(our kid) shes jealous of the fact that he has his own family she still wants him to be her little boy she told me straight out that she hates my guts cus i use him to buy baby dipers and baby milk i told the beyatch the baby has to drink milk and hes ur sons baby not some kid off the street so ofcourse hes got all right to support me and his baby wtf, then shes all up on how i buy new dresses and how her sons paying for it, she has made an extra key for our room she comes in when im not home and steals my things and plants things in the room and takes whatever she pleases, i have seen the keys with my own eyes and also heard her come out of my room once when i came home early not to mention once i opened my door it was unlocked i asked her why she was like HOW SHOULD I KNOW and made a big sh***t about how i disrespected her, as soon as my husband comes home from work he doesnt even see me he sits with his mom for mad long

2007-01-17 07:49:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mother is bitter and lonely. She raised my sisters and I alone after my father's death, I was 9, my other sister 8 and my middle sister 15.
Before my father's death she was very loving towards us, then after a while she became distant, unforgiving, manipulative & controlling. She guilt me into working for her in a small buisness we had and treated me really bad there, I couldnt go cause she made me feel responsible for the economy of our home, she completly denied my needs as an adolescent, she would also appear weak and I was so scared for her health and she would reinforce it by telling me that I was her "right hand" and that she needed me.
She treated me so bad I decided for mental and emotional health to leave her cause living with her was toxic for me, I was becoming suicidal from all the stress at home and the lack of love and guidance.
I am in theraphy right now and have realized that my mother didnt parent me after my father's death, and that she abused me emotionally.

2007-01-17 07:48:19 · 5 answers · asked by Alejandra 1

my mum and dad split up when i was liitle and to be honest my dad was a complete git! he is not a nice man at all, i have not seen him for bout 10 years and he just got in contact with me at christmas completely out of the blue! says that he has changed and seems desperate to become a part of my life.im 24 now and my dad did some really horrible things to my mum and me.....and i just cant seem to let things go but at the time im thinking i should give him another try, my mum is hurt that he has been in contact as when i was little he never gave her any money to help her with finances (he could afford it) and he never wanted anything to do with me. i just dont know..............

2007-01-17 07:48:13 · 12 answers · asked by kez 2

My step dad is out of a job at the moment and does his own thing during the day. Today I went round to theirs when mum had finished work and my daughter who is 1 went over to his side of the sofa which is where he keeps his laptop and paper work and accidently pulled out a bit of toilet paper. I smelt something a bit funky and sniffed the toilet paper which smelt of semen. He was caught out a few years ago with naughty things on his laptop which caused a massive arguement but he's obviously been looking at porn again, he never has any items in his drop down bar either. Should I tell mum what I found of just be disgusted and keep it to myself?

2007-01-17 07:40:12 · 22 answers · asked by suckaslug 4

guys shes in pakistan i got married and we all live together and its her house and her only son she keeps beyatching about how i took her son away when in fact shes the one who hooked us up and was in a rush for us to get married, and yes he believes her cuz she cries so much she looks like shes about to pass out how can i TOP that DRAMA??????? i tried crying as her but it didnt work he was like stop ur drama. do u believe this crap?

2007-01-17 07:27:51 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-17 07:24:15 · 5 answers · asked by stephaniewoods82 1

2007-01-17 07:20:12 · 4 answers · asked by michelle.crowder@sbcglobal.net 1

i cant stand her for the reason shes so nice but stabs me right in the back as soon as im not around, she would kiss me and dance right before calling her son and telling him a bunch of lies about me to start a fight between us. she would sit and talk to me and try to make me understand shes my best friend then she would go and talk about me to the servents and pay them to tell her what i do while she's out. she slapped me and tried to kill me then told her son that i bit her and attacked her and she was helpless can someone plz help me give me some sorta advice, this lady is a serious hazard and i dont want to lose my husband,

2007-01-17 07:16:32 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

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2007-01-17 06:49:41 · 1 answers · asked by tuttipole 2

Y is it so ez to lie for.My rents r so dumb and I can get away with every thing.They r really strick but somehow I am not a good kid at all.

2007-01-17 06:46:11 · 8 answers · asked by this_home_dawg 1