shes jealous of me cuz now her son has a wife(me) and a baby(our kid) shes jealous of the fact that he has his own family she still wants him to be her little boy she told me straight out that she hates my guts cus i use him to buy baby dipers and baby milk i told the beyatch the baby has to drink milk and hes ur sons baby not some kid off the street so ofcourse hes got all right to support me and his baby wtf, then shes all up on how i buy new dresses and how her sons paying for it, she has made an extra key for our room she comes in when im not home and steals my things and plants things in the room and takes whatever she pleases, i have seen the keys with my own eyes and also heard her come out of my room once when i came home early not to mention once i opened my door it was unlocked i asked her why she was like HOW SHOULD I KNOW and made a big sh***t about how i disrespected her, as soon as my husband comes home from work he doesnt even see me he sits with his mom for mad long
2007-01-17 07:49:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
you need to move away!!!
2007-01-17 07:58:03 · answer #1 · answered by kez 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ok. The problem here from what you are saying, is your Mother-in-law. If she is doing everything that you are saying and you are doing nothing wrong, then she is a mad jealous woman. But, of course, we here at answers don't know her side of the story. But in any case, sounds like you and your husband are young and sounds like you might not have a job. I would suggest this: You need to find a job, find a baby sitter for the baby and put your money with your husbands money (who is hopefully working) and get a place of your own. It might not be what you want to do right now,....but...hey, I don't want to work either...who does? If you want this to work out then you have to get out of this woman's house. And by the way....if you find a job...keep it even after you get on your feet. At least part time. It is hard for a young man to support a baby and a woman by himself, especially if his young wife wants new dresses very much! Good luck.
2007-01-17 16:17:43 · answer #2 · answered by sugarbud 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am a mother in law ; from my point of view; I know that my sons are now married and have children but as much as you love your children, I still love mine; it is hard to sever the heart; I try not to over step my ground ; my 30 yr old son just went through a medical emergency and told me that he doesn't need a Mommy anymore ; to fear losing your child no matter how old ; he is still a child; I don't put down my daughters in law; I don't invite myself etc; It hasn't been easy to let go of children that you tried to protect from day one; some of us are a little better than others ; someday you will be in our shoes and you will find it isn't easy ; be patient with her and guide her to a better place; she doesn't have to lose a son to gain a daughter. Placing him between you and his Mom is a losing spot for both
2007-01-17 16:01:06 · answer #3 · answered by sml 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think taht you should cope with the situation. You´ll be with your husband for good (we hope), so the best thing is to solve the situation. You must tell your husband about all it´s happening (be careful on what u say because he may get upset and angry) and he should explain to her mother all the problem carefully, and try to visit her every day so she gets to think he is still her son.
That´s may be a good solution.
2007-01-17 16:00:58 · answer #4 · answered by Mugricienta 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nightmare! Do you really have to live with her? If I were you I'd be making alternative arrangements for accommodation.
But I understand that it's not always an option. Can you ask your hubby to put another lock on the door? Also, ask your hubby to speak to his crazy mother!
Hope you manage to sort things out. Best wishes to you.
2007-01-17 15:57:32 · answer #5 · answered by GoldieMeg 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is very simple....instead of buying dresses with that money you two need to start saving it. You two need to move out of that environment. It is important to put yourselves aside and focus on what is important and that is that baby. Do you think that it is fair that your child is brought up with the adults always bickering and fighting. I do agree with you that she (in-law) has over-stepped her boundries but it is time for you and your husband to grow up and get out.
2007-01-17 15:59:25 · answer #6 · answered by LaReyna 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Change the locks and tell her your husband bought them for you. If your husband has a problem with you saying that, boot them both out.
2007-01-17 16:40:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You and your family need to get out of this womans house and get your own place so you can set your own rules. meanwhile...change the locks on your door and work on getting out NOW.
2007-01-17 16:00:08 · answer #8 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you really need to move far away and cut off all communication. that's not the sort of person you want around your kid.
2007-01-17 15:59:35 · answer #9 · answered by Jae Lynn 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear lord! My Ma-in-law is weird, but honey sounds to me like YOU have major issues....
2007-01-17 15:57:41 · answer #10 · answered by Flossie 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yeah, Ithink you and your hubby, not to mentio your little one need a bit of your own space, like pronto
2007-01-17 16:14:36 · answer #11 · answered by lj 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋