Family - November 2006

when parents are not married why is it that the mother has more rights than the father.

2006-11-02 08:23:02 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

Moved out of town to be with this really good guy so I thought,yup you know what happened next,he's a f'in *** hole!When he's nice he's really nice.When he's mean he's really an azz!Not abusive at all.He's has one of those damn mouths were you almost prefer for him to hit you than to say what's on his mind.My thing is I jhave'nt found a job they stole my truck and shi@ just can't get no worse so I say but it is,they did find my truck 3 days ago they are working on it.But I want to leave and he knows it,but he's doing everything to keep me here,let's go and pick out a puppy,let's go and buy you a ring.My gf said that's becuz he don't wanna here me.The only thing is I have my 10 yr old with me and don't want her caught up in my shi$!Yes I have plenty of family and I still kept my apt in Va,Beach.But should I leave when he's here or at work?No he's not violent but can be veeery nasty with his mouth verbally!

2006-11-02 08:22:48 · 11 answers · asked by dccuttie75 6

My 3 girls still give me no privacy what-so-ever!! My girls are 13,10 and 6. I guess that's a thing of the past. The doors would be banged down if I kept them shut for too long.

2006-11-02 08:21:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so my boyfriends sister who is a little younger than i has a baby and i see how my boyfriend gives her attention i mean of course he's the uncle right. Well the daddy isnt in the picture and i feel that the baby is seeing my boyfriend as a dad. I feel jealous because i want a baby and he always tells me were too young and we have to get our career started and this and that but i wish he would give the attention he gives to the baby to our own. I dont know its driving me crazy and i feel horrible for being jealous. Is it right what im feeling?

2006-11-02 08:19:26 · 6 answers · asked by H0T_SAUZE 3

Am I the ONLY one that had wonderful parents, have no animosity or anger towards my adopted OR birthparents and don't feel the need to go "look" for something?

2006-11-02 08:17:20 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 23 very resposible and motivated but it's hard when you have no help and you are alone. My husband and children mean the world to me, but i can't help them if i can't help myself. I live with my grandmother but it's literally 5 adults 2 teenagers and my two babies in a three bedroom apartment. I am searching for shelter and assistance but it seems like if i'm not in a abusive relationship i can't get any real help.

2006-11-02 08:07:26 · 5 answers · asked by Mrsface 1

HE SHOULD BE IN HIS LATE 40'S EARLY 50'S HE USE TO LIVE IN CHICAGO HE HAS 8 SISTER'S AND BROTHER'S

2006-11-02 07:59:49 · 1 answers · asked by GEORGE B 1

like i havent seen my dad for a long time but im not that bothered to be fair other people in a similar situation want one.
admitidly i liked moms b/f but he was kinda cool

2006-11-02 07:58:00 · 13 answers · asked by bitter sweet 2

okey. My dad and my mum have been married for 14 years and today when my dad was on the computer but then he left to get a drink i looked what website he was on and it was sexy pictures of women. it said speed dating. i was shocked. he tells me he loves my mum since this marriege. he was the one who looked after our familly and i belieave that he loves my mum. what do u think i should do tell my mum or my dad. when i tell my mum she tells my dad then i get in trouble .if i tell my dad he says why are you going my personal staff becouse ones i did

2006-11-02 07:53:30 · 10 answers · asked by baby faced satan woman 3

I am going thru a divorce, although it is not "nasty", I feel uncomfortable around my "soon to be ex" and his parents. I never met "Grandma" because she does not know who anyone is and tends to start yelling and screaming. Am I horrible if I choose not to attend the wake, she past away yesterday in her sleep?

2006-11-02 07:52:24 · 10 answers · asked by jac44129 2

My dad abandoned us with all the money. He didn't leave us anything. My mom is disabled and can't work, and now me and my brothers have to come home and stop going to school and help our mom and pay the bills. I don't mind helping my mom, but I hate the fact that my dad did this to us.

I know I shouldn't hate him, but that's just how I feel about him...

2006-11-02 07:44:22 · 6 answers · asked by Tiny 2

My husband and I have been together for 13 years. My mother-in-law has been been to my family's homes for holiday dinners, birthdays, anniversary parties, etc. She has also attended two weddings in my family. When her other son married three years ago she didn't bother to invite ANYONE in my family but managed to invite neighbors of hers. Not once has she invited any of my family members to her house though she's been to theirs countless times. I say it is extremely rude to me and my parents. What do you think?

2006-11-02 07:39:30 · 17 answers · asked by Kimmy 4

I have sponsored a girl from Malawi. I am quite excited about it.

What is your experience of sponsoring?

2006-11-02 07:36:13 · 3 answers · asked by Josephine 1

Ok, mt ex husband still lives in my house with myself and our children. He doesn't work, I cannot throw him out as there are complications. His daughter from his first marriage has started to stay evey weekend but the problem is the girl has severe issues, eg; set fire to the school, is cruel to our children when alone with them, steals from us, lies, manipulative and generally a nasty piece of work, until I discovered these things i always got on with her and thought she was a sweet girl. Now, I'm afraid to have her in the house as I feel my children are in danger. I've tried talking to my ex about this, and suggeted therapy. I've said until she is mentally balanced she can't stay as I'm afraid for my young children. He won't listen. What can I do?

2006-11-02 07:17:27 · 22 answers · asked by gerry78 1

are parents losing control of their children (esp. when they are teenage). iv noticd the sudden increase in kids on the street drinkin l8 at night!! when ten years ago the streets were empty when people knew to go to a bar/club

2006-11-02 07:16:14 · 28 answers · asked by e1-ferrari 2

I'm a 23 yaers old girl, I dont have any luck!
I come from an Arabic country, I life with my family of 5 unmarried girls ages between 30 & 42, we have lots of conflicts and we dont get along with each other, my mum is a housewife and my father is a retired 70 yo man.
I also have 3 brothers, they just care about their own matters, one of them just cares about his wife and family, the other one living abroad and we rarely hear from him and the last one is another burden on the family.
I havent been lucky with my studies, I didnt reach the 3rd Grade.
I need new ideas, because my life is sad and boring, I need something to do, I cant stay like that.
I think that marriage can resolve my problem, but I cant find anyone who cares about me.
We all know that we live just once, so we should take advantage of our life. But i cant do this on my own.
Thanks for your answers

2006-11-02 07:10:31 · 12 answers · asked by Noor 1

Iam having trouble with both family's .the baby's dad's family has caused me alot of trouble and know my family has turned they backs on me . They want to believe them and not me . so know i don't know what to do. i feel like i am the only one who is fighting for my child.The baby's dad and and grand mother are trying to take my baby know and it is not even here yet. so what should i do stay or leave.

2006-11-02 07:09:05 · 8 answers · asked by SKEETER M 1

Am I the only one out there that does not like their step-child? I have tried to be friends with him but to no avail. I've spent money I don't have on the little ungrateful brat. My hubby and I fight because of lies being told by my step-child and even when proved he lied, I am still in crap with hubby because I'm supposed to be the mature one. This happens with my bio child too.

We eat what the kid wants, go where the kid wants, watch TV programs that the kid wants and the kid "Is the best in the world" while my own child gets picked on, can't watch her own shows, spends majority of her time in her room (with me) mad about the step-kid, plus has no say in what we eat, etc.

My child has a bedtime, and goes when I say so. His kid stays up 1/2 the night, blatting from being overtired, and again he's the best and just a little kid (he is 9, not a baby).

I love my hubby. But this kid is making me regret marrying a second time. Anyone else disliking their step-child/ren

2006-11-02 07:07:10 · 8 answers · asked by GirlinNB 6

My exhusband took my daughters and moved out of state about 10 years ago and it took me years to find out they had ended up in Memphis. I have not seen them or heard from them in all this time. All I want to do is hear from them and know they are doing well,let them know I am alive and love & miss them. I have lost so much of their lives and I will never be whole until I hear something of them.

2006-11-02 07:07:02 · 3 answers · asked by Kathy L 1

In the beginning of this year, two beautiful girls were placed in my care. The girls were at the age where they start to loose their teeth. The youngest of the two lost her first and her second tooth while she was in my care.(Her older sister also lost a tooth) The girls were place back at home recently and now the mother wants the teeth. I grew a huge bond with the children throughout the months we shared and it was devastating to loose them. Since the girls were with me when they lost their teeth, would it be wrong to keep them? I have three teeth. I feel the mother has a valid point but its all I have left of them. I need some advice. Am I being a baby about this? Should I give the mother their teeth? Do I even have the right to keep them?

2006-11-02 07:00:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-02 06:57:16 · 57 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-02 06:54:04 · 6 answers · asked by durhkm 2

She has this really cool box that she keeps her magazines in. I like to stare at it. So what?

2006-11-02 06:48:42 · 17 answers · asked by JIMBO 4

There are a plethora of programs for single moms. Not much for single dads. It seems as though women wear this "single mom" thing for attention, sympathy, etc.

2006-11-02 06:47:32 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok I have gotten some good ideas in the past but nothing has really grabbed my attention or appetite .....I need some ideas for dinner it cant have any fish, dumplings,spaghetti, lasanga, or soups.....I always make them and need some new ideas...something that doesnt take to long to make and please dont just list a web site to go to for recipes!

2006-11-02 06:47:07 · 11 answers · asked by Cassey L 2

My parents gt divorced a long time ago an thy ave both got re maried, the only problem is i dont get on wit eithr of my step parents. I dont want to tell my parents bcuz i dont want 2 hurt there feelings. As any1 got any advice thy can giv me????

2006-11-02 06:42:20 · 8 answers · asked by xxhurting_insidexx 1

How many of you have decided not to reproduce?

I haven't made a firm decision yet, but I leaning very strongly towards not having any children.

What are your opinons and reasons?

2006-11-02 06:37:54 · 7 answers · asked by Existentialist_Guru 5

I get along with most of my in-laws but I can't stand being around my husband's younger sister. She got pregnant in high school because everyone else was and now she's 19 and has two kids. She's made it clear she doesn't want her brother and I to have anything to do with them. We went 4-wheeler riding one day and we sat the oldest one which is 2 on it with me. It wasn't running, it was in park, and I was hanging on to him. She flipped out! Ten minutes later she put him on a horse that hasn't been rode for six years and the horse hates kids and she knows it. How is that safer? But anyway, we didn't buy him anything for his b-day because everything we buy him she gives away or tosses it in the trash. Now she is totally pissed off because we did get him anything. She's telling people we don't want anything to do with him and that is not true! I've tried everything to get along with her but I will not resort to *** kissing, like the rest of her family does.

2006-11-02 06:23:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-02 06:22:09 · 18 answers · asked by dar 3

I am having problems with my daughter, i have been for 10yrs now and i keep trying to do the right thing and keep her with me and my other 3 daughters, but the other day she went to school and told the officer there that i was burning her with cigarettes, the officer knew it was not true, but i am now afraid of her....i would never tell her that, once before when she was 8 she did the same thing and i lost all of my kids for 2yrs...because they believed her.....this time i am thinking of relinquishing my rights to her and i am feeling bad...but if i don't the way she is going i could loose my kids again and i don't want to go threw that again. I love my daughter but as each day goes on i do not believe that she feels the same way. I have had DCF to my house more times then i can count...when i was a single parent now i have married a wonderful man whom cares for them all...but i am afraid she will use him for her next plot....i don't want that to happen, i could use some help

please

2006-11-02 06:21:53 · 11 answers · asked by firstladik02 1