Iam having trouble with both family's .the baby's dad's family has caused me alot of trouble and know my family has turned they backs on me . They want to believe them and not me . so know i don't know what to do. i feel like i am the only one who is fighting for my child.The baby's dad and and grand mother are trying to take my baby know and it is not even here yet. so what should i do stay or leave.
2006-11-02 07:09:05 · 8 answers · asked by SKEETER M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
It is all depends on your age. If the baby is not born yet, you can start all over again at another town. Play your cards right first. Scout around different areas if you have time to do so. Research about baby sitting (only if you are willing to work after the baby is born). Think things through carefully before you put yourself into a deeper hole.
2006-11-02 07:37:46 · answer #1 · answered by smilelyt38 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing you need to do is get an attorney. Then you need to establish paternity, even if you know he is the father. They baby's dad can not take your baby away. He can demand visitations but he can not come in and take the baby. Call the lawyer and do as he says. I would tell my family to butt out it's your life and your baby, and you will do what you think is best.
2006-11-02 07:13:53 · answer #2 · answered by jagbeeton 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since it is so much tumult in your life right now, If you are in a position, to leave, then leave as soon as possible. This may be good, to give you peace of mind. When you are pregnant, you do not need no undo stress in your life. so think of yourself and your baby, and do what is best for you! Do not for get to pray!
2006-11-02 07:27:06 · answer #3 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would leave and save yourself a lot of grief in the long run. Just go and live your life and have fun. Enjoy that baby without having to worry about either family.
2006-11-02 07:12:51 · answer #4 · answered by Alessa 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you could't take care of those human beings. whilst human beings say they desire to get alongside with their in-regulations, they mean that they do no longer continually see eye-to-eye with them, yet they have the desire to make the main suitable of it so as that their works out. What you're coping with is a gaggle of psychotic animals who have not any pastime in getting alongside or making their instant relatives paintings properly, much less any additions to it. Your boyfriend is making a stable circulate via coming on your city and leaving all this drama in the back of. yet what is going to he do then? Does he plan on cutting ties with them altogether? Or a minimum of retaining them at a distance, warning them that in the event that they arrive around they'd desire to faux to be human and to tutor admire? Or is this circus going to be tolerated? verify this earlier you're making any added commitments to this guy. He could be a remarkable individual, yet there is not any rationalization why you're able to would desire to submit with human beings like this for the the remainder of your existence.
2016-10-03 05:22:36 · answer #5 · answered by shimp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to leave as soon as you can, and get away from all that negativity, maybe, when they all grow up and cool off, then maybe they would deserve to have you around
2006-11-02 07:23:28 · answer #6 · answered by rae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to get the hell out of there screw them people this is your life and your babys you cant have someone try to run your life like that.
2006-11-02 07:42:13 · answer #7 · answered by howie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I usually say stay and stand your ground. but in your case I would give up all right to your baby - give it up for adoption and leave town and start over.
I would also make sure I got a tubal ligation so that I couldn't have any more kids - ever.
2006-11-02 07:12:28 · answer #8 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 4⤋