Family - November 2006

My daughters dad died in a terrible accident and was killed. Now his mother is trying to fight me for custody. What are the chances she will get her?

2006-11-02 06:13:39 · 19 answers · asked by meesha_112 2

Hey everyone my name is gaby and i want to get your guysand gals opinions. When my mom, sisters and i where down in mexico for a year my dad cheated on my mom and now she is with onother women my mom whent on and in one month she got a boyfriend which i hate and she is now pregnant. I think this was to soon to happend but im not over what my dad did and now im suffering. What do you guys think i should do????

2006-11-02 06:01:44 · 9 answers · asked by Gaby 3

The mother of my grandaughter is now keeping us from our grandaughter because she hates my son. She says he is a dead beat dad and shows no caring on his part. He does love my grandaughter but hates to deal with the Mother. She is afraid the if my grandaughter is visiting us my son will come over. How can I choose between my son or grandaughter? I love them both so much. When we ask to spend time with our grandaughter it has always just been for us, not my son. please tell me how to go on????

2006-11-02 06:01:27 · 17 answers · asked by Reajeanne B 1

was wondering if there is any moms out there i can email , so to talk about some guy stuff, cause i think my mom is concerned about my guy development stuff, and dont know how to open up ! I think its easier over the computer to get advise to talk to her with!

2006-11-02 06:01:16 · 12 answers · asked by Bobby W 1

im 13 and,My sister is 16 and shes always obssesing about her weight and after she eats, she goes up to her room,sometimes I hear her throwing up.What should I do? She's not skinny so I dont think she could die or anything,and she will be mad at me if I tell on her...

2006-11-02 05:54:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

my daughter has not seen her father since she was two years old and she wants to meet him. my last information on him was that he was living in north mrytle beach s.c. owns his own house and business but i dont know what type of business or the names of it i was also told he has a son

2006-11-02 05:28:26 · 1 answers · asked by monkey29_1976 1

I am the mother of two little girls aged 4 and 1. I am also a full time student and have recently returned to work after two years. I have a very supportive husband and family but I find i have overwhelming feelings of guilt because I spend so much time away from my family. My four year old and I went through a lot when she was younger and I feel bad especially for her because she gets passed back and forth between her father and I. How can I find a better way of coping than breaking down in tears and how can I make it easier for my children? I want to make this all work but sometimes it feels hopeless. Anyone in my situation any advice would be great.

2006-11-02 04:49:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ankle has been broke for 4 months now I am totally inmobile and on bed rest before this i was working 40 hrs. a week and in college full time so i am not use to just seating around doing nothing durning this time my fiance has be working every day of these 4 months I only have one friend and I have 4 siblings that don't even call to see how i'm doing or my mom she does not care about me only when i can give her money on top of all these things i just lost my insurance and have two more surgerys to go thru I have no income disabilty sends me a check when they feel like it basically I am chronically depressed and everyday just seems the same how would you feel?

2006-11-02 04:36:15 · 6 answers · asked by I'm Married!!!! 3

im 19 from manchester and my boy friend is 28 can u help plz

2006-11-02 04:34:23 · 4 answers · asked by nicola m 1

I have spent almost all my life being nasty to people as a defense mechanism to prevent from being hurt and also as a revenge if they have hurt me. How can I start being nicer especially to my boyfriend and son? I always feel selfish too. I am good at empathizing but also always feel like I experience something bad from whatever their problems are so I need to feel better too. I know its bad but I really dont want to be so selfish anymore and i really want to be kind. Many of these things come from being ignored when i was a kid i think. i want to grow up! i am going to get to the counselor soon but in the mean time, any suggestions? the golden rule works sometimes but i do get distracted and cant bite my tougue if someone says something i disagree with. its like i always want to be heard. sound so immature when i write it. thanks.

2006-11-02 04:20:46 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, I'm talking to this guy online and we totally love each other and don't worry, he's safe. He lives in England and I live in New York! So I was thinking for the christmas holidays, I should take a trip down to England and get the chance to meet him because it's so hard not seeing him becuase I realllly love him! But, my parents are being very difficult about it. My parents don't know if they want to send me. And, at the moment, Im working for my dad and going to school(getting good grades) and taking care of my house...all to earn this trip...is there anything you guys know of that I could do to stilll persuade my parents to let me go to England??

2006-11-02 04:19:09 · 9 answers · asked by xoxoxo 2

I know it's from the show Super Nanny, but I don't watch television and I can't seem to find a good description of what she means by this.

2006-11-02 04:18:17 · 5 answers · asked by drama4mama247 2

My MIL called last night and abused me. When I fought back and told her that if she cant be nice to me there is no reason to call, she told me to put my husband back on. I did and before she could say anything he told her if she couldnt be nice to me then she could f&*^ off. She called back a minute later trying to say that I am telling him not to see her (if you read a previous question, I am tryign to keep the peace!) he told ehr that it wasnt me it was him so she called back again and kicked him out of the will (which i dotn think he cared one way or the other about) but then his brother called saying how she was trying to be sweet to me and how I was pretending that she wasnt as a smear campaign against her to make her look bad! (i dont need to, she does it well enough herself!) but now I am beating myself up about it. This happens so often between me and her, but my husband has never gotten this involved. I feel like its my fault. I am not sure what to do now.

2006-11-02 04:05:28 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

When I was a kid I was TERRIFIED of and HATED clowns. I can't explain it but they freaked me out. I also read Calvin and Hobbes a lot and Calvin always had a fear of monsters under his bed, a common fear for kids with highly active imaginations. I also watched creepy kids shows and Unsolved Mysteries and this didn't help because it put scary thoughts into my head and gave me nightmares. Of course I've outgrown all that but was wondering what scary things you used to conjure up as a child.

2006-11-02 03:52:27 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mom is CRAZY and does this thing like twice a month where she decides to bill me for everythinggg..rent for living here, insurance, school, health insurance, etc..its ridiculous. She always says she wants me to move out but if I actually did she would freak out..Im sick of living with this, Im a college student so I work part time..can i take out a loan to move out, move into my own place??

2006-11-02 03:45:54 · 13 answers · asked by RubiaBonita 2

i'm getting a financial aid check for $2,025 soon. My mom is ALWAYS asking me "when are you getting it?" and "how much do you think you owe me?" and "have you made out a list of the things that you need?" WHY? she makes PLENTY of money, why is she always trying to take mine? I don't have a job right now, and I need money just like the next person. I don't think I'm being greedy, I think my mom is, because she always does this: she tries to guilt me and manipulate me into giving her my money, and then yells and screams at me when i don't give her all of it. Is she evil or what? i'm not even excited about getting my check b/c i know it will be a big a)ss deal. do you think this is fair? it seems like whenever i get money, even like $5 dollars, my mom will tell me how i should spend it. what is her problem ? she is also constantly coming up with new things that I owe her, like gas money, food money, and all other type of s(hit that she is just trying to claim so she can takemy $

2006-11-02 03:38:37 · 6 answers · asked by Yvette S 1

im living with my aunt and uncle.

2006-11-02 03:28:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My next door nabor beats his dog. Ive seen threw my high rise window. He goes out there aleast once a week that i know of and beats his dog with sticks kicks him. What should i do. AND WHY would somebody do such hate things to a poor animal

2006-11-02 03:12:39 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

Would it be bad for me to move on so quickly with someone new after my husband was killed in a bad accident. HE died July 14 06 and now I am seeing someone is that ok... ?

2006-11-02 03:12:08 · 33 answers · asked by Karen H 1

My nine year old sister has always had trouble with touching herself and she is always smelling her fingers.I know disgusting.IM 20 years old and live on my own married with two little girls that are 3 and 1. So last night I was at my mothers house and ate dinner.After we came home, I asked my little girl if she wanted to get in the bath tub with me. We started the bath and as we was getting in I pulled down her panties and I smelt the worst smell..I knew in my heart what it was.I said Maddie why do you stink? She said my little sisters name and said *c**l* did it. She did it like this and maddie touched herself. She was red and inflamed down there. I took her a bath, called my mom and started crying. I said mom i dont want you to be mad at me but i have to tell you i think that *a**y is dooing something to my baby,....My mom said that she thinks we should not be around each other and madisson is 3 and is probably lying.What do i do? She is getting ready to go to the doctor? But still

2006-11-02 02:57:18 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know mine was when I went back home to South Africa a couple years ago after 16 years of not seeing my family. It was very emotional because I saw so much family that i hadn't seen in SO long. When I moved i was 3 so for me to go back and finally see what everyone is about was great. Nobody really came to visit up where I live so i really didn't know anyone maybe an uncle and some aunts and a few cousins but thats just a couple out of the great big bunch. I did find it hard to adjust to everyone at first because i do have a very large family on both my father and mothers side of the family. But we are really close with my dads side though. But i did find though I had an instant conection with everyone. Thats just a bit of what happend when i went back. now I'm glad that I got a chance to see my family. Has anything like this happen to you or what was the best thingthat ever happened to you? :-)

2006-11-02 02:54:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 6 years. Our 6 year anniversary is in 1 month. We have 2 kids and im 3 months pregnant with twins. What should i give him for our anniversary?

2006-11-02 02:39:38 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I miss him I've never called any1 dad,I'd like that experience.the only father figure I had was my bestfriend's dad he was a pastor and he died 3yrs ago. i need help

2006-11-02 02:31:24 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

my father had a lover whom I never met. I was a little child when it happened. My father and mother were never happy together. My mother and my brothers have always neglected me because I have always spoken the truth. So, I must say that I have no family at all. And then, I wonder if I might have a sister somewhere. I live in Brazil but I teach English and have been many times to the USA, that's why most of my questions are posted in English. I am not young anymore, I am on my 50ths but I have been thru a LOT in my life and I wonder if there might be a way that God shows me that I have someone else that has my blood. My father passed away and my family does not talk to me. What should I do? Thanks a lot. I love making new friends too because most of the time I am all by myself besides my job, which I love and my friends there.

2006-11-02 02:29:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have found my birthfamily. So far the reunion has been real nice. My siblings are so embracing but my bithmother is kinda distanced. I'm wondering if she could feel guilty cuz they took me from her. I don't want her to be sad or feel embrassed I don't blame her at all. how do I help her get over this? Also Friday the 3rd is my bithday. i would love to spend it with her but I'm afraid on how she'll react. Anyone go threw this?

2006-11-02 02:24:29 · 2 answers · asked by Karen K 3

2006-11-02 02:05:36 · 14 answers · asked by cubsnrs 1

Alright- I'm going to try and make a long story short...

I was with my 18 month old sons 'father' for 2 years, We were friends for 5 years before that, We had our fair share of ups and downs, Including quite a bit of domestic violence (him abusing me), As well as cheating..Anyway- I got pregnant, And 5 months into it, He decided to go back to an ex gf, Who had just given birth to his child. Afterwards, He claims he still wants to be involved in my childs life, That he will help w/what he can etc...I called him the night before I was to go in and be induced with my son, All he could do was yell and scream at me, And tell me what a horrid person I was etc..So he wasn't there for the birth of my son, As a matter of fact, After I had my son, I realized, I wasn't going to deal with all of the drama that would be if I were to let the 'SD(sperm donor) be involved in his life, So, I told him, I didn't want any contact with him what so ever, As far as I was concerned, he was dead to me...

2006-11-02 02:00:18 · 13 answers · asked by ? 3

I love my daughter but, she has lie, to get her way. Even to the point were her father was accused of rape, just so she didn't have to come home. Now she will be turning 18 this month and I'm afraid she will sign her self out. She has little to no social skills. Has finished high school. Has no Job. And wil have no place to go.
Her father and I would welcome her home but it has gotten to the point were she will have to ask to come home. To many lies and to many. Hurt feelings.

2006-11-02 01:41:58 · 15 answers · asked by sick and tired 1

I'm a working mum of 2yr old daughter+6yr old step-daughter. Me+my partner have fully supported my step-daughter forever.
Fair do's, I really don't get on with his ex.This is mainly because I don't agree with her lifestyle(claims to be a single parent-she's not,never worked, benefit fraud,etc.. basic social scum).
As she has had another baby with(yet another) partner, she was cont by CSA. And we must now start paying money to the government(this money is to cover the income support she receives each month).
My grievance is NOT with paying the money. BUT with the fact that if she worked this would not be an issue+we would be able to carry on the way we were doing it before(we supply all her clothes,shoes,school uniform+other stuff). We now are paying money, so we can't afford to buy these things for her. But neither can her mother as she is getting the same as she was before from her benefits.
Basically, why should we all pay for the mothers simple choice of not working?

2006-11-02 01:32:21 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Anyone else here lost there mom?

2006-11-02 01:30:27 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous