Okay, I'm talking to this guy online and we totally love each other and don't worry, he's safe. He lives in England and I live in New York! So I was thinking for the christmas holidays, I should take a trip down to England and get the chance to meet him because it's so hard not seeing him becuase I realllly love him! But, my parents are being very difficult about it. My parents don't know if they want to send me. And, at the moment, Im working for my dad and going to school(getting good grades) and taking care of my house...all to earn this trip...is there anything you guys know of that I could do to stilll persuade my parents to let me go to England??
2006-11-02 04:19:09 · 9 answers · asked by xoxoxo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
And oh yea...he can't come over here...
2006-11-02 04:22:58 · update #1
why not invite him over
2006-11-02 04:21:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait and ask the guy to visit you and also I would investigate him as much as possible on line. You will need to be on your own turf if you are meeting a strange man, with your parents around.
You are setting yourself up for a terrible let down. A lot of times these Internet affairs are really bad trips into cyberland and the guys are really sexual predators.
Sometimes an Internet love can work out but usually they end in disaster. I am sure your parents want to protect you from heart break and possibly being physically harmed.
2006-11-02 04:30:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I do not think this is a very good idea, but aside from that, the only thing I can think of is if you would have an adult friend of the family go with you, or perhaps mom might want to go on a short vacation with you. I'm sure she would feel alot better about it if she was with you, or at least another responsible adult. You did not say how old you or this guy are, but I am assuming that you are underage, so I would be very careful about what you plan.
2006-11-02 12:53:38 · answer #3 · answered by lildragonlexi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you said he can't come here but why can't he? I mean the guys got to have some vacation time sometime doesn't he? I can understand your parents concern and you might feel you really know this guy and all but if he really loves you as well he'll find a way to come visit you and meet the parents.
2006-11-02 04:53:12 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For crying out loud girl . Don't do it . If he loves you as much as you say he does . Make him come to you . Don't be a fool and fall for going over to see him . You don't know what really is over there . He can say anything he wants to you over the net . But he might be Jack The Ripper for all you know . You might go and never come back . Great your TCB and getting good grades . But use your head . Don't go . Ask him to come and see you . Don't put your family through something that can be avoided . I know this is not what you want to hear . But remember you asked what we all think in here .
2006-11-02 04:31:06 · answer #5 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, that is really hard though. I still cannot convince my parents to go places. They are so strict on me still that they don't want me to go 45 minutes in distance away from them. I'm the only girl so they are over-protected of me. When you have found a way, let me know kay, so I can use that method to convince my parents to let me go far. Thank you, and good luck to you!
2006-11-02 04:25:22 · answer #6 · answered by leazngurl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I met my husband online and KNEW 100% that he was the right man for me..we've been together for over 5 yrs and married for 4...Maybe invite him here...that way you're parents won't have to worry about you and they'll get to see what YOU see in him...GOOD LUCK!
2006-11-02 04:32:09 · answer #7 · answered by just me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how can you love somebody you dont no but only online and are you 100 % sure hes safe even though you don't know him if you were my daughter i would not send you to somebody house neither of us no
2006-11-02 04:25:14 · answer #8 · answered by angeleyes12181@sbcglobal.net 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell your dad to go with you.
2006-11-02 04:48:57 · answer #9 · answered by atahsina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋