im 13 and,My sister is 16 and shes always obssesing about her weight and after she eats, she goes up to her room,sometimes I hear her throwing up.What should I do? She's not skinny so I dont think she could die or anything,and she will be mad at me if I tell on her...
2006-11-02 05:54:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
This could hurt her more than you realize. It can and will rot her teeth, cause stomach problems and more. You must tell your parents and I am sure that they can keep the fact that you told them out of it. Your sister needs couselling and the sooner the better. She can die from this!!
2006-11-02 05:58:54 · answer #1 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter if she isn't thin, she could still die. If your body does not get the nutrition it needs then it will slowly die. My mother was bulimic and slowly all of her organs in her body started to fail. My mother could not stop throwing up, eventually it becomes an automatic reaction and your body will throw up immediately after eating, it will tear up her esophogus and she will throw up blood, the acid from the stomach comes up and will make your teeth rot and if you do recover your throat may never be the same again, you will always have problems swallowing. You should read up on this, you need to confront her and tell her to tell your parents or tell her that you will tell them because you love her.
2006-11-02 06:04:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesnt matter if shes skinny yet, its a serious health problem. Causing yourself to vomit can cause permanant damage. Yes she will probably be upset if you tell on her, but it will be ok. You need to bring this to your parents attention and tell them that you're worried about her. I promise she wont be mad at you forever. She may even thank you once everything is over. Just make sure you dont delay. The longer this lasts the harder it will be for her.
2006-11-02 05:59:50 · answer #3 · answered by Hatchette 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You absolutely need to tell someone! Your parents, a teacher, somebody! Bullemia is a serious condition. She may not be skinny enought to die, but she's destroying the lining of her esophogus not to mention her teeth.
She needs help! She may be mad at you at first, but she'll come to unerstand that you only told because you love her.
2006-11-02 06:00:35 · answer #4 · answered by Cindy S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love her, talk to her right away, this is a serious matter. Get help, but always tell her how much you love her.
This is in most cases a cause for those that have very low self-esteem. If she is reminded of how much love she has from family members she will allow you to help her.
2006-11-02 06:47:12 · answer #5 · answered by Letty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who cares if she'll get mad if you tell on her. it took my BF to tell on me. and yeah i was mad but i got over it because i was going to die. she needs help. and she needs to be in a support group with others that have the same disorder. goood luck and tell your parents
2006-11-02 06:05:46 · answer #6 · answered by AnneeMoon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents.
2006-11-02 06:04:59 · answer #7 · answered by miss m. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell your parents she needs to get help before it gets to bad and needs to be hospitalized.
2006-11-02 06:11:04 · answer #8 · answered by Eyes of Green 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just take more food up to her... she will love you for it in the end
2006-11-05 18:20:10 · answer #9 · answered by joe h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋