okey. My dad and my mum have been married for 14 years and today when my dad was on the computer but then he left to get a drink i looked what website he was on and it was sexy pictures of women. it said speed dating. i was shocked. he tells me he loves my mum since this marriege. he was the one who looked after our familly and i belieave that he loves my mum. what do u think i should do tell my mum or my dad. when i tell my mum she tells my dad then i get in trouble .if i tell my dad he says why are you going my personal staff becouse ones i did
2006-11-02 07:53:30 · 10 answers · asked by baby faced satan woman 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
It is not unusual for men to look at pictures of women on the net. That is what makes prom such a lucrative business. My husband looks to and it onlyl causes him to come to bed ready and willing!!!! Your mom may already know so maybe hold off and wait. YOur dad has not done anything wrong yet. He is not calling these women and going on visits with them is he. No so hold off for now.
2006-11-02 08:06:03 · answer #1 · answered by picture 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Allow mum to find out herself as you don't need to get into the centre of this. If you tell your dad you are aware of the sites he is visiting he will only come up with some excuse and/or like you said accuse you of going into his personal stuff. Perhaps he's just fantasizing about some of the women he is viewing and not cheating on your mum. Lots of men view porno and think of it as normal.
2006-11-02 07:58:15 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is really something you should have never seen or even know about, but you do. It is understandable that this bothers you as it would any child. This is an adult problem in which children shouldn't have to worry about, but it's too late. You need to be up front with your dad. Even though you were being nosey he should have made sure that you weren't able to see what he was doing. So you need to tell him that you seen what you did and that it bothers you. In telling him this you will be letting him know that as an adult it is up to him to make sure his children don't find things so personal. Don't worry too much about this as it could really be nothing. Talk with your dad and get this off your chest as this is something you don't need to worry about! Good Luck & God Bless!
2006-11-02 08:13:04 · answer #3 · answered by zero 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is to confront your dad, tell him exactly how you feel, and if he didn't heed you advice, warn him that you'll let your mom know. Every one deserves a second chance, right?
2006-11-02 07:57:36 · answer #4 · answered by dtmc542006 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you mean like porn? If it is ask him to stop! If he doesn't then tell your mom! Either way you're doing the right thing!
Good Luck, Shorti241
2006-11-02 07:59:18 · answer #5 · answered by shorti241 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think I would say nothing, Your mom will find out, mark my words, but if you tell her, You are opening a can of worms as a daughter, just be there for your mother when she finds out.
2006-11-02 07:57:01 · answer #6 · answered by sweetsmile 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
when you go looking for trouble its always there dont worry about it most men look at other women and talk on the net dont get anything started at home
2006-11-02 07:57:08 · answer #7 · answered by groundbrown 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him first. Confront him with it, and then tell him that he should tell your mom. If he doesn't then you tell her. You cannot sweep this issue under the rug.
2006-11-02 07:59:13 · answer #8 · answered by newcovenant0 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell a sister or talk to counselor and get advice how to approach this.
2006-11-02 07:56:20 · answer #9 · answered by jenny 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Firstly, it isn't any of your business... Leave well enough alone and carry on with your life...
2006-11-02 07:57:43 · answer #10 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋