I'm a 23 yaers old girl, I dont have any luck!
I come from an Arabic country, I life with my family of 5 unmarried girls ages between 30 & 42, we have lots of conflicts and we dont get along with each other, my mum is a housewife and my father is a retired 70 yo man.
I also have 3 brothers, they just care about their own matters, one of them just cares about his wife and family, the other one living abroad and we rarely hear from him and the last one is another burden on the family.
I havent been lucky with my studies, I didnt reach the 3rd Grade.
I need new ideas, because my life is sad and boring, I need something to do, I cant stay like that.
I think that marriage can resolve my problem, but I cant find anyone who cares about me.
We all know that we live just once, so we should take advantage of our life. But i cant do this on my own.
Thanks for your answers
2006-11-02 07:10:31 · 12 answers · asked by Noor 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You're only 23. You have your whole life ahead of you. Don't give up. Try making yourself look more attractive. Maybe it'll make guys more interested in you. First impressions count a lot.
2006-11-02 07:16:10 · answer #1 · answered by Jeanne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't make it to the 3rd grade? You write well for someone who's education is low. I think you need to give school another shot. I'm assuming you still live in an Arabic country? I don't know the rules in said country but try creating a life for yourself. Don't think about getting a boyfriend (or a husband) just do things that make you happy and that you like. Once you find something that appeals to you pursue it and see where it goes, maybe that'll take your mind of family troubles.
2006-11-02 15:14:24 · answer #2 · answered by aeseeke 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, you are still young and probably a very beautiful person both inside and out.
My suggestion to you would be to go out and look for a little job doing something, like maybe you could go and work in McDonald’s or one of the fast food restaurants that are always looking for new people to hire. Save up some money, so that you can get yourself an apartment to call your own. You do that, then you go sign yourself up in a GED course first. If you find difficulty in doing that, there are always people who can help you get through the testing part of it, as well as studying what it entails. Once success is made of the GED, you go enroll into a college of your choice, with the career of your choice and accomplish that, then honey you are on your way to independent freedom. I can almost guarantee you, that you will be overwhelmed with guys trying to be with you, because they will see a successful young woman who knows what she wants and will not ALLOW!!!……anyone stand in her way to get what she wants out of life.
Good luck to you, and only you can decide how your life will be.OH! And you do not have a sad life, it’s just not very busy right now. Trust
Me enjoy it while it lasts. J
2006-11-02 15:25:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would advise you to try to continue with your education. You said you come from an Arabic country, are you still living there. No man is going to make your life any better. He might make it worse. Try not to be sad, I know that's hard because I try to be happy every day. You could say, I have a great life but there are things in my life that aren't so great. Pray, and keep hoping.
2006-11-02 15:17:47 · answer #4 · answered by Kim B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is what you put into it, Remember you can have heaven or hell, right here on earth. You need to change your thoughts, Look for the good in things. Feel good about yourself, Marriage is not everything, you will meet Mr. Right, one day, but right now you need to get yourself together. Not everyone finished school, that is why they have trade schools, or job training. You need to read books on self-esteem, this will help you! Love yourself, and then you can love others, smile, and the world will smile with you!
2006-11-02 15:21:39 · answer #5 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe that no one is unlucky in life.. its just that we are caught up in certain instances that can be difficult for us to handle.. but always remember that in every storm, there is a beautiful rainbow waiting when it finishes... it is darkest before dawn right? your life is not bound to be an unhappy life forever.. you'll see, things will turn out just fine for you... you just have to think positive in life... dont lose hope and dont sulk.. good things come to those people with positive attitude towards life.... good luck and i dont think marriage is the answer.. you'll only get more frustrated if you start a family and you're not ready for one... just explore being single and find ways to be busy and happy... remember: only you yourself can make yourself happy... you are the one who holds your happiness..
2006-11-02 15:42:29 · answer #6 · answered by yuki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately no one has to care about us (except God), so that is why we start by caring for ourselves. Usually when we do, we find more people start to care, its funny how that works. I guess its because its eaiser to care for someone who already cares for themselves. (less maintanence) Do not settle for anything less that what you really want in life. Marriage is settling. Dream big, remember that you are worth it. Love God.
2006-11-02 15:28:45 · answer #7 · answered by blueskys 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know nothing about your Country so I really don't know what to tell you other than get out and meet more people .
2006-11-02 15:16:21 · answer #8 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi send me an email and we can chat
2006-11-02 15:14:46 · answer #9 · answered by nova_av 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
am so sorry to hear your story , where do you live , whats your experience ,,,i think you must give some relevant details to help you out .
2006-11-02 15:17:40 · answer #10 · answered by na 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋