How many of you have decided not to reproduce?
I haven't made a firm decision yet, but I leaning very strongly towards not having any children.
What are your opinons and reasons?
2006-11-02 06:37:54 · 7 answers · asked by Existentialist_Guru 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
well,good question.I use to say that if I had life to do over again I would not have kids.the reasons varied when they were young from too much trouble to too much loved.it's difficult to be in love with people you will love for ever and pretty much unconditionally.people that you worry about forever,the love and concern never ceases.now that they are grown and my best friends I guess I am glad for them,especially since who would care for me in the event I can't care for myself?my daughters will.
2006-11-02 06:45:31 · answer #1 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am a parent, and i am also a firm believer that parenthood is NOT for everyone. some people just don't have the patience for it, some are too involved with a high demanding career, some just plain don't like kids. for whatever the reason, if you feel like you don't want to have kids, then there's nothing wrong with that. i love my daughters dearly, and i am a better person because of them, they are my world. being a parent is right for me, but what's right for me isn't necessarily right for everyone else. as long as your partner feels the same way that you do, there's no problem.
2006-11-02 14:46:00 · answer #2 · answered by LoriBeth 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well we live in a crazy world, and parenting is not an easy road at times. I have two children, however they are in their 30's now, but today I would choose not to have them if I was younger.
2006-11-02 14:41:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well everyone has there reasons why. and you probably have your reason why you dont want any children.
but if the time does come and you choose to have kids than i think it will be great.
good luck
2006-11-02 14:40:54 · answer #4 · answered by SHORTY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can decide both of you maybe your parter want somemore kids so its something to be discused by the two of you
2006-11-02 15:32:07 · answer #5 · answered by 2luksat2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I HAVE DECIDED i MAY OR MAYNOT HAVE THEM.
DO whats appropriate for you.
children do not equal happiness.
2006-11-02 14:39:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not me!
2006-11-02 14:40:31 · answer #7 · answered by Jerdy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋