I get along with most of my in-laws but I can't stand being around my husband's younger sister. She got pregnant in high school because everyone else was and now she's 19 and has two kids. She's made it clear she doesn't want her brother and I to have anything to do with them. We went 4-wheeler riding one day and we sat the oldest one which is 2 on it with me. It wasn't running, it was in park, and I was hanging on to him. She flipped out! Ten minutes later she put him on a horse that hasn't been rode for six years and the horse hates kids and she knows it. How is that safer? But anyway, we didn't buy him anything for his b-day because everything we buy him she gives away or tosses it in the trash. Now she is totally pissed off because we did get him anything. She's telling people we don't want anything to do with him and that is not true! I've tried everything to get along with her but I will not resort to *** kissing, like the rest of her family does.
2006-11-02 06:23:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Why do you care what a girl, who has such poor judgment that she had two kids by nineteen, thinks or says about you? And, she will flip out over many things, that is what drama queens do, and what more dramatic show can she display but that of an outraged mother protecting her young?
She's pathetic and you should make it clear to her that as long as she insists on acting like a child, throwing tantrums, telling tales, and actually commenting on your gifts or the lack of them (very tacky, even among the most lowly) you cannot interact with her on a personal level, though you will tolerate her behaviour for the sake of family peace.
Then, ignore her. She sounds like a lowclass tramp to me.
2006-11-02 06:36:13 · answer #1 · answered by Liligirl 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your sister-in-law is a drama queen, who has not grown up. So you have to be the mature one. Do not play into hand, you can speak, if she is around, but ignore her, do not talk about her, forget her. The next time it is one of the kids Birthdays, a gift card to the toy store works great, and not for a whole lot of money. So when people say stuff, she has said, just say we love our whole family. Don't give them anything to go with! Don't you lose any sleep over her, Love her from a distance. ( smile)
2006-11-02 14:53:22 · answer #2 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her how you feel and if you don't have the nerve have your husband do it.Maybe she'll stop and think about how much of a B**** shes being and consider your point of view. If that don't work just ignore her, who cares about what crazy little girls think anyways, she'll grow up one day and be sorry for the way she treated you and all will be well.
2006-11-02 14:38:35 · answer #3 · answered by just me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
only thing you can do is go on with your life she is not going to change she will not be kind to you or anyone else until she grows up
growing up for her is many years down the road sorry but she is your bad apple
2006-11-02 14:46:59 · answer #4 · answered by cbrwyrn 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She has a problem in the head..she much be jealousy of you two. You need to tell her off!!!
2006-11-02 14:53:51 · answer #5 · answered by SUN FLOWER 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋