2006-11-02 06:22:09 · 18 answers · asked by dar 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
That's a wierd question. Because if they were younger you wouldn't make them pay rent, but they would be under limitations, but usually if they are that grown living at home and if they paying rent, then you really can't put any limitations on them. And if you do, how good do you think they're gonna follow the rules? In a way they're a roommate, so only thing would be just to respect the house as far as the noise, and keeping it clean, there's not too much you could say.
2006-11-02 06:29:07 · answer #1 · answered by Dr. PHILlis (in training) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you can put limitations on someone living in your household that is paying rent. If there were not paying rent then thats one thing, but if they do then they are paying for the right to do what they want in there place. If you want to limit what they do, they need to move out and pay rent somewhere else. The tension and stress will build up and eventually blow up.
2006-11-02 06:36:53 · answer #2 · answered by roxie2k3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be hard to put limits on an adult, only because, they're an adult, & don't feel the should have any & more than likely will buck the system. I think it's reasonable to ask them to be conciderate of the family's house rules... ie: curfews, bathroom times etc. You need to concider what is included with their rent. If they were out on their own, they would have certain bills & food costs, that way if the bills are included but not food, then they need to provide they're own food. Give them some space in the fridge or get them a smaller one. Other than that, if you wanted them out of your house sooner, then put all the limits on them you want. lol If you're just helping them to get on their feet, just concider what limits you would be able to live with if it were you.
2006-11-02 06:31:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd put alot more than just rent. When you rent your own place, is that all u pay for? Do you not cook, and wash up your dishes? Do you dump your garbage? Do you do your own laundry? Do you clean house?
YES should be the answer to all of that if your out on your own, so why not live that way at home too?
2006-11-02 06:25:55 · answer #4 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, this kid should get a job, pay half of all bills,go to college if not already,share half of all the housework. I mean you should have been done raising him/her four years ago, if you let your kid live off of you now, when do you think anyone esp. your kid is going to decide is a good time for him/her to grow up? By the way, I'm 22, I have lived on my own for four years and it's a great feeling to be independent and I'm doing just fine.
2006-11-02 06:29:29 · answer #5 · answered by just me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing is respecting your home. And I am sure that you know all the rules that go along with that. Also I do not see any problem with your child staying at home, as long as everyone gets along, as adults, and do what ever they have to do, to keep the household, clean, respecting each others space!
2006-11-02 06:31:43 · answer #6 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-21 03:56:33 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No members of the opposite sex spending the night, or doing anything in your house. No drinking, no drugs. Being in at a decent hour as not to disturb those who are sleeping. Helping out with household chores, helping with yardwork....
2006-11-02 06:25:11 · answer #8 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well if there are other "ultimate rules of the house" then they should abide by them
- no smoking?
- no drugs?
- no drinking?
- no parties?
- no sex in the front room?
- no sex in the bedroom?
- clean up their own messes (dishes, clothes)
- be considerate of others when coming in late
Also they should be responsible for any long distance calls as well and should pay for their portion of the utilities and food each month.
2006-11-02 06:25:29 · answer #9 · answered by .... 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They should still have to help out with chores around the house, do their own laundry, no late phone calls, and have to stay working.
2006-11-02 06:25:49 · answer #10 · answered by wish I were 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋