Moved out of town to be with this really good guy so I thought,yup you know what happened next,he's a f'in *** hole!When he's nice he's really nice.When he's mean he's really an azz!Not abusive at all.He's has one of those damn mouths were you almost prefer for him to hit you than to say what's on his mind.My thing is I jhave'nt found a job they stole my truck and shi@ just can't get no worse so I say but it is,they did find my truck 3 days ago they are working on it.But I want to leave and he knows it,but he's doing everything to keep me here,let's go and pick out a puppy,let's go and buy you a ring.My gf said that's becuz he don't wanna here me.The only thing is I have my 10 yr old with me and don't want her caught up in my shi$!Yes I have plenty of family and I still kept my apt in Va,Beach.But should I leave when he's here or at work?No he's not violent but can be veeery nasty with his mouth verbally!
2006-11-02 08:22:48 · 11 answers · asked by dccuttie75 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I would leave as soon as I got a chance.You don't have to put up with it.
2006-11-02 08:52:07 · answer #1 · answered by berta222003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if theres a child in this you should deffantly get them out of the house becuase if he has a mouth that will make her really sad and probally cry explain to your daughter y u both have to leave. but i think u should bring her to a relatives house after he goes to work and then pack up but stay nere the front door and when he gets home then tell him your leaving because no one just deserves to get left no matter what he did u should tell him other wise he might file a missing persons report or some stuff like that so leave right after he comes home because no one deserves to get talkin to with out respect.
2006-11-02 16:29:32 · answer #2 · answered by nodaybuttoday 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and your son should not have to put up with that. Yes leave when he's not home or if your planning on leaving when he is home have a male familly member with you. He could get very violent. Verbal turns into Phyical believe me i know my ex started out like your current boyfriend then beat me. Protect yourself and your son.
2006-11-02 16:26:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are being abused, just not physically!!! Mental abuse can be just as damaging to someone as physical abuse- especially if you got a kid that you want to keep away from it!! Definately get away if you at all can!! Because most of the time verbal abusers WILL turn into physical abusers.
2006-11-02 16:27:47 · answer #4 · answered by Earthy Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave when hes at work and leave him a note about his nasty mouth or leave him nothing. Then you dont have to deal with him!
Good Luck!!
2006-11-02 16:26:02 · answer #5 · answered by SummerLovin' 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave the first chance you get,when hes not there, start thinking about your kid not him.
2006-11-02 16:26:28 · answer #6 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just leave whenever you get a chance. this is not a good situation for you or your child.
2006-11-02 16:27:10 · answer #7 · answered by Rum_Punch_Girlie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
..your child will be talking like him if you stay.. leave ..go to your apt.and forget him. verbal abuse is not a good thing...
2006-11-02 16:27:31 · answer #8 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
should I stay or should I go?
thats part of a song you know.
2006-11-02 16:24:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave when he isn't there.
2006-11-02 19:10:23 · answer #10 · answered by Deerrunner 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋