Family - November 2006

Me and my boyfriend are living in his dads house right now and we don't have to pay any bills or anything besides groceries.His dad moved in with his girlfriend and were still living here for free, until his girlfriends son and his girlfriend move in with us, then we have to pay 2,000$ a mth plus groceries...what is going to be the biggest problem with having room mates? I've never done this before..

2006-11-06 05:45:45 · 10 answers · asked by jmt4127 3

2006-11-06 05:27:36 · 41 answers · asked by A True Gentleman 5

To my son and his family (insert whatever holiday here)?
I always take this as an insult, although I don't think it's meant to be one. More like insensitivity I think.
I mean, it's like I'm really only sending this card to my wonderful son but you other people live there with him too so I guess I better throw you guys (his wife and children) in there too so noone gets pissed. Almost like an afterthought. Am I being overly sensitive? Should I even give a rats behind?

2006-11-06 05:23:54 · 23 answers · asked by Kel 2

2006-11-06 05:21:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am only single child of my parent.my father is an army personal?i am not good in medical line but their are lots of opputunity in other field also.i am in interested in private jobs in comuter field? i

2006-11-06 05:12:13 · 4 answers · asked by richa_roy94 1

my mom used to verbally and physically abuse me
and now all we get is into arguments. its been this
way for three years now. she's called counsellors
and meetings.. but they don't help.

all i want to do is to leave for a boarding school
or something. but she won't agree to it. i can't
stop thinking of leaving... even running away
i can't rent an apartment or anything. i'm only 15

what should i do?!

2006-11-06 05:06:41 · 17 answers · asked by highschoolgal789 1

I don't have too much to spend... just need some gift ideas!! Any recommendations...

2006-11-06 05:06:14 · 13 answers · asked by brienna 1

i have qualifications but cant find work my family put me down alot and dont help the only person i care bout is my child can i jus leave with nothin and start all over again

2006-11-06 05:03:47 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

are you close with your family? now i dont mean close in a physical way as if whether u guys live near each other or not...i mean close in a personal way as in....do you share secrets w/ each other and tell each other of ur personal lives and so on....etc.
i am just curious, because it seems that nowaydays...even people who live w/ their parents and/or their family members do not really have a close bond w/ them...is this normal???

2006-11-06 05:02:14 · 10 answers · asked by eliza M 1

I tend to atick with my dad because he's so much quiter than my mum & he doesn't stick up for himself.

My parents split up 12 years ago so its not like I'm interfering in an argument in the same house.

I feel that when my mum argues with my dad she argues with me too,anyone else feel like that?

2006-11-06 04:58:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My man told his son, who told my son-in-law, who told my daughter about our arguement last week. Now I am getting 20 questions about it.
Why did he have to tell our business?
Should I be (I am) upset about it?
What should I say to him?

2006-11-06 04:55:20 · 8 answers · asked by wwjd 2

Do you think you get treated differently to your siblings?
Do you act any differently to your siblings?
Do any of you stick together more than the others?
Are you an only child? Does it make a difference?

I'm the eldest of 4 & I think I carry more responsibility than the rest of them (1 brother & 2 sisters).

Just out of interest!

2006-11-06 04:46:30 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok i can forget about what happened but i am having difficulty getting on with life normally because of lack of confidence/ poor social skills. every time i try + enjoy myself i do something "wrong" because i was kept locked i a room much of my childhood and i just don't seem to know what is "normal" behavoiur around people

2006-11-06 04:44:44 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to move out to another state and live on my own with a roomate, can my parents do anything about it if I move out 10 days earlier before I turn 18...

2006-11-06 04:38:38 · 16 answers · asked by valerie s 1

My parents recently decided to get a divorce. I live on my own, but they both want me to visit them for thanksgiving, in two different states. My mom is going to spend thanksgiving with her mother and grandmother (my grandmother and great grandmother) and my sisters are going to be spending thanksgiving with my dad. I don't want to hurt either of their feelings...but I do want to spend thanksgiving with at least half of my family...Opinions and advice from parents who are divorced would be great. Would you be offended if your child spent a major holiday with your ex-spouse instead of you?

2006-11-06 04:35:58 · 7 answers · asked by Mom of Marley 5

I tried to post this question earlier but Yahoo deleted it. I'm not sure why but I guess I have to rephrase it. As your kids get older and you have to discuss things with them: Fact of Life or what I am trying to get at THE BIRDS AND THE BEES..Would you

A) Talk to them about safe $ex

Or

B) No $ex??.

I had to put it with dollar signs for S because for some reason I think they are thinking I am being dirty when I am not. I would like to just know your opinion...Thank you!!

2006-11-06 04:28:01 · 18 answers · asked by Rican Princess 5

Okay...heres the deal, my parents and I and my sisters all moved to the united states from Mississaga, Ontario and we're better off here becuase we are making money here (we weren't making a lot over there in canada) and my moms dad (my granfather) wants $5000 from us! He boguth some peice of land with a partner and his so called "partner" wont give him any shares so my grandfathers gonna take him to court but to do that, he needs $5000 and he doesn't have it and he's asking my dad for it. But, when we had no money...NO ONE helped us....my dad came all the way to the U.S to make money and give his family a good life...do you think my dad should give him $5000 or not?

2006-11-06 04:25:26 · 16 answers · asked by xoxoxo 2

I am 18 going to be 19 on wed 11-08-2006 and i am thinking of moving out

2006-11-06 04:21:54 · 12 answers · asked by elizabeth v 1

I am in a situation where I have to live with family and I am grateful, but there is a family member who just got married later in life and she gets everything. Her everyday china is lenox, her furniture is ALL brand new, her and her husband make more in 3 months than my husband and I do in a year she is a christian but she has never really had to suffer for the Lord.

My husband and I on the other hand struggle we are obedient to God, we have no furniture at this point to call our own, we have been persecuted and stepped on even in our own church. Money is very tight even with budgeting and giving when we can.

We are married 13 years and in many ways are like stuggling newlwedys my realtive as a home that could be placed in a home interior magazine.

I prayed many years for this person to get married and I am happy she found a nice man who also loves the Lord, but I am tired of struggling. How do I deal with the envy and go on? I dont even want to talk to her that much anymore

2006-11-06 04:13:25 · 4 answers · asked by encourager4God 5

my bro gets mad when i d ate his friends hes really over protected and he gets mad and stops talking to his friends when i talk to him he found out me and one of his friends where together and he didnt talk to him for 3 months wouldnt he rather me date one of his friends so he can come over and hangout with both of and we can do stuff together me and my bro are some what close mostly when it comes to partying together

2006-11-06 04:02:15 · 4 answers · asked by lost_in_love_still 3

When we were younger-we had some really bad things happen which forced my brother to quit school. I was already out. He finally took his test and now has his GED.
I know that may not seem like much to some of you, but I'd like to celebrate it somehow.
I am very proud of him and now he wants to start going to a community college.
The other thing is - the bad thing that happened years ago is not over, how can we keep ourselves emotinoally fit not to let it screw up our lives again?

2006-11-06 03:55:18 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I overheard my brother last night talking to his friends about me. What he said was not only negative, but highly critical and sarcastic. He obviously has a very low opinion of me. Yet he never says this to my face nor does he tell me how he's feeling. How do I reconsile my relationship with my brother if he thinks so utterly poorly of me? I'm not very happy with him at the moment and probably won't speak to him again for a long while.

Paul

2006-11-06 03:49:05 · 9 answers · asked by dunric 1

I have a brother that is 17 years old, he is living with my mother now and she seems to have no control over him, if he dosnt want to go to school he dosnt go to school, if he dosnt want to do his homework he dosnt do his homework. He dosnt do any house work to help my mom out and pritty much bosses her around. So i feel like he isnt going anywhere in life. And he is setting a bad exsample for the two younger siblings in our family. Also he is showing intrest in this girl he use to work with, the only problem is that she is 26. I am worried about him for the futer, I guess i want more for him, and want to beable to help in some way what do i do?

2006-11-06 03:37:50 · 12 answers · asked by girl 1

I wish I could help her see the positive in things and life. Things in her past have caused her much pain, I know. I try to be a good person and positive if I can. It hurts me to see my mom live her life like this. I really love her and want her to be happy. For instance, regarding Christmas. I love the Christmas season. Yes it is stressful and expensive. But my mother just complains and says "I hate Christmas". I am so sad for her. I wish I could help her be happy.

2006-11-06 03:28:53 · 5 answers · asked by Amber 2

If it’s truth that education begins at home, what values, beliefs, hobbies, skills, etc will you teach?

2006-11-06 03:21:20 · 12 answers · asked by Carmen R 3

Mine is christmases at my Grandparents house. what is yours?

2006-11-06 03:08:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I lost my dad over a year ago now in September 2005. I do find it easier to get on with everyday life but some days are still hard.
I did have to deal with everything at once soon afterwards though, you know: my first birthday without him in the October, then my mams birthday in November, then Christmas, then his brithday which is few days after Christmas. then before you know it, it's new years and fathers day, then the dates com round all over again. It hasn't been long since the one year anniversary of his death and found that hard. I also had my 23rd birthday whcih I found hard. I do get on with my life and i like my life, friends and family.. but sometimes feel bad after having alot of fun thinking 'is this too much fun?' and 'is it disrespectful?'
I'm not somone who likes to steal to be centre of attention but sometimes feel I am when people talk to me about it. Should I still be feeling like this or should I be feeling bad that it's stilll an issue in my life?

2006-11-06 03:02:39 · 34 answers · asked by *BURNY* 5

So, His parents dont like me. and its pretty ridiculous why, the rest of his family does and im pretty sure the mother only dislikes me because of some jealousy reasons. But we've moved in together and are so happy and in love, and want to get married, but.. becuase of the parents feelings is that possible? ethical?
should we wait till things are resolved, or hopw that when the time comes that they will respecttheir sons wishes?

2006-11-06 02:58:11 · 9 answers · asked by ? 2

The only thing that my stepkids (aged 16-21) could hold against us is that their dad married me. He is happy with me but they have almost nothing to do with us, barely giving us the time of day anymore. (i.e. returning 1 phone call for about every 4 made and message left for them)

2006-11-06 02:44:43 · 10 answers · asked by OOO! I know! I know! 5

I know there should be a shared responsibility, but shouldn't it be more of a mom to teach the girl, and a dad to teach the boys. What about single moms raising boys or single dad raising girls, how does the "Talk" happen, what can they explain?

2006-11-06 02:43:10 · 6 answers · asked by Abused Tampon 1