Family - November 2006

hey my daughter has a bf and the other night we tryed to shoke her to death but she dont let the cops no .she is 21 should i say out of it or not i mean it is my daughter

2006-11-06 21:47:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-06 21:32:24 · 16 answers · asked by Casho 2

My dad comes home every night from work and get stressed out for no reason. How can i help him? I keep telling him that he needs to calm down but he just tells me to shut up

2006-11-06 21:26:36 · 12 answers · asked by Randall 1

I am a 15 year old boy and my dad is in the army. He does not alow me to stay out later than 8.30 on a friday night and does not like me having girlfriends so i have to sneek around and lie to him. What do i do?

2006-11-06 21:24:00 · 11 answers · asked by Randall 1

Twenty-three years ago I eloped with a magnificient woman. Unfortunately, her family wanted her to marry a professional of their choice. My father-in-law eventually accepted me but he passed on. My mother-in-law has since become more and more bitter - even after all these years. I cannot seem to make a connection at all. We're happily married. I don't some; don't drink and I work hard to support my family. I've been polite with her and let her know she's more than welcome anytime. All she does is spill venom about me and Canadians (she's British). I get along with every other member of the family, including those still in England. Is there anything I might do that I may have missed?

2006-11-06 20:43:24 · 12 answers · asked by redcoat7121 4

2006-11-06 20:09:05 · 13 answers · asked by Jenster 1

My father has been convicted for a crime which the administration wooed him to commit and later the same admin sued him. My grandma is ill to her death which adds to my father's grief further. I see my father crying as a small child whom i used to think a very tough man. My mother remains ill and keeps on crying over all the matters. My brother's business is not giving any returns and he is suffering hell lot of losses. I am doing a 12hrs shift at the office and am the sole person to look after the family of 7 per financial needs. Working 12 hrs doesnt even give me time for connecting with the Almighty leave alone myself. i am doubtful about my girlfirend that she doesnt like me after all. Is she double crossing me? I m skeptical.
I feel like living in a hell and all demons are after me. I cant see my family in grief. Wot shud I do? Pls help.

2006-11-06 20:06:09 · 10 answers · asked by Edwin 2

2006-11-06 19:52:46 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 23 years old (female) and my brother is 25. I feel so immature and stupid bc we fight like we always have. I thought by now we would have a good relationship. I long to be one of those people with a great relationship with their sibling! He is ALWAYS trying to show my parents he is better than me, and my mother adores him. She and I don't have a very good r/ship and everytime my bro and I fight, she defends him. Even without knowing what the fight is! I have to explain it to her before she ever sees my reason, and she rarely listens to me anyway. What can I do? I still live at home and there is no option for me moving out because I am still studying. My dad is more understanding of me, but doesn't do much to break up tension at home.

How can I avoid going nuts? Please help.

2006-11-06 19:51:03 · 9 answers · asked by Qrious 1

he always hurt me by saying bad things about my dad though in front of him he is good.when i tell him that this attitude of his hurts me ,he says he is joking,but when the matter of his parents or brothers come,he gets really angry if i say something.though his younger bro had created a huge mess in my inlaws house about me and my parents.my marriage was almost at the verge of breaking but didnt.though my husby knew i was right he didnot support,this was 3yrs back.now i guess he has realized but never tells me openly.but i can understand by his behaiviour.i speak to my brotherinlaws wife but not him.even now after 5 yrs of marriage my inlaws and his family i am not comfortable.they always one or the other way hurt me.but my huby never support me.always says to think about myself him and my daughterand be happy.but i want his family to love me understand me .we live in seperate country .when ever we go 4 vaccation while comin back a new story .now we r leavin 4 vaccation i am scared.

2006-11-06 19:48:59 · 2 answers · asked by reena 1

it drives me nuts sometimes i just wanna holler at her to shutup or tell the truth.its not only family things its many different things.why do they do that? if i had to lie to people all the time it would be an effort as you always have to remember what you said and who you said it to. holly crap that would land aperson in the nut house.but she doesn't femember as many times i have been with her when she tells it to someone else and it's compleatly different. then she looks at me aand gets a weird look on her face because she must remember what she told me, so she does screws up sometimes in front of me. what can i say to her about it and yet i really like her i just don't like her lying?

2006-11-06 19:13:57 · 7 answers · asked by dulla mae 2

Hello,
my stepmother in law, whom I don't see very often, was very mean on my last visit. She constantly put me down with phrases such as ' you are out of shape, you can't even get up the stairs'(I am fat but also 6 months pregnant), 'don't think only about yourself', 'I am not stupid, I am 53', 'you are borgeois raised and ignorant to women's issues'... And I guarantee you, I was not being selfish or ignorant. She just seems to lash these comments explosively and in an overblown way. Could she be on the way to becoming like her own bipolar mother? I just sat and said nothing after such yells, what would you do instead?

2006-11-06 19:04:00 · 14 answers · asked by gnogni 2

my dad invited me and my bf to go to jamaica this past march.we had to pay $1000 each.and we did.it paid for all airfare,hoteland food expenses.we had to meet at my bf's parent house because we all lived fairly far away and that was the closest place to the airport.so we did..i was there nice and early and so was my bf.but my dad and his gf were late because his gf wasnt ready to go.we ended up missing our plane by 5 mins so we had to get new plane tickets which were $280 a piece...we didnt bring any credit cards or other ways of paying so my dads gf charged them to her credit card and we said we'd pay her back.well about 2 weeks after the vacation my dad and hisgf broke up and she wont talk to him, wont return his calls.before they broke up she asked for my phonenumber so we could pay her and she got it.she hasnt called me yet but my dadmisses her and thinks she wont talk to him because we and i owe her the money for the tickets.she hasnt called me. wouldnt she call if she wanted it?

2006-11-06 18:55:19 · 34 answers · asked by tinkerbell20 1

He is grounded for 2 weeks from the phone and the computer, which he is 15 with a girlfriend and his life right now is the phone and computer. My question is, he mainly stays in his room and watches t.v. while he is grounded. I try talking to him about normal every day things when he comes out, but he talks to me like he doesn't like me, which I can understand right now, so is it wrong for me to just let him stay in his room and not speak to him? I don't want to give him the chance to be mean to me, but I don't want to think I am ignoring him either. It's like when he gets punished/grounded, I am the one that is made to suffer for it.

2006-11-06 18:51:33 · 21 answers · asked by Corona 5

2006-11-06 18:29:58 · 7 answers · asked by Lyss 1

2 great nieces and nephew was sent to my Nov. 16, 2005 because their father is in prison and mother is a drug addict with numerous other problems. Public Aid gives $202 cash and no food allowance. I have tried to get additional help to no avail. Does anyone know where I can get additional help, especially doing the holidays. Help, please

2006-11-06 18:01:09 · 7 answers · asked by getquik 1

she is dying she has cancer and now i am so broken up i can barley get out of bed anymore but my brothers hate her and my dad doesnt talk to her anymore so i have to take care of her and i love her so i dont mind it really i just dont know how to act i need to be strong for her but im breaking down! and im only 17

any advise?

2006-11-06 17:56:12 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend is a single dad with full custody of 2 kids, 6 and 4. Their mom is hardly in their life, she gave him full cutstody after the divorce and doesn't pay child support and maybe see's them once a month. They're not well taken care of when they go vist her, they come home at 9pm on sunday and say they haven't eaten supper yet and when asked what they did, they say "nothing". He wants to take her to court for payments but he still owes money to his lawyer for the divorce and doesn't qualify for legal aid. To make matter's worse, his daughter (6) requires special attention. He's up at 6am to get them going and half the time he leaves late because of chassing a 3 y/o and dealing with his daughter. He's had to go back to working at the bar on the weekends to make ends meet. His mom takes care of the kids when he can't. I work evenings and can't change my schedual to help more. One morning he said he felt like he was having chest pain cuz of the stress. I'm really worried.

2006-11-06 17:43:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

ever just sat down and started to cry. there's no particular reason why u did but just fell apart cuz ur either stressed, tired, sick of the world,..ect? cuz this hurts like crazy. n im furious with school, mad at my ex-bf, broken hearted, my friends are mad at me, im fighting with my family. life sucks for me.

2006-11-06 17:31:13 · 6 answers · asked by CANDACE h 1

Me and my sister in law were really close before the seperation. She is younger. Her mom had a lot of problems while she was growing up, so I helped raise her. My husband and I were seperated for a few months. Now back together. What can I do to get her to let it go? It didn't involve her and my husband is over it too.

2006-11-06 17:26:39 · 11 answers · asked by MomOfThreeBoys 3

My 15 year old daughter has discovered myspace, I have concerns about this, however I do not want to over react (something I am prone to doing anyway!). Please give me your views on this.

2006-11-06 17:12:09 · 13 answers · asked by angelover 2

ok heres the deal all of my moms expensive jewelry is being taken and my mom and every one else thinks its her bf's the only thing is we cant catch him if u have any ideas please help

2006-11-06 16:58:44 · 10 answers · asked by sc2linkfan2k5 1

ok found out today that my sisterinlaws new boyfriend has hit her little girl (7)across the face BUT the sisterinlaw told myself & husband to stay out of her life.we are great mates with her first husband(father of the children) who is away truck driving all the time.We tried to warn her about this guy but we were told to @#$%^&** wat should i do???????????????????????

2006-11-06 16:46:21 · 10 answers · asked by Jo-anne 1

2006-11-06 16:39:24 · 11 answers · asked by thong thong 1

im turning 18 in a week and my parents said that if i take my cloths,pics,cd's/dvd's,stuff i payed for they will call the cops and get me arested for theft. csn they do that?

2006-11-06 16:30:00 · 9 answers · asked by saslinkinpark 1

Ok so I quit my job nearly a year ago to stay home with our son who is now 14. My job was stressful and taking away from my family life so I decided to be a stay at home mom so that I can be more attentive to my husband and son. So now nearly a year later I find myself constantly worrying about things all the way from my health to our bills (and we hardly have ANY). I feel like I constantly have to be doing something. I don't know how to relax. I don't know what to do with myself. My husband says if I want to go back to work that's fine and if I don't well that's fine too. A part of me feels guilty and I don't even know for what. I've worked my whole life since I was 17 (I'm now 30) and it's like I don't know how to handle life without a job. Is that weird?

2006-11-06 16:29:26 · 14 answers · asked by SoCalGal75 3

2006-11-06 16:28:29 · 6 answers · asked by Tiffy 1

As she is in love. She n her all relatives means my boyfrnds relative want him to marry her but we love each other very truly. she is telling if my boyfrnd doesn’t marry her she will commit suicide n her mom is also. His parents are against our love bcoz of her this attitude. Wat to do already my parents are searching a guy for me. How can I explain her that we are in love. Bcoz of my love if she die’s then how can I call I got victory in my love life. And I m not sure whether she is aware of our love or not. Shall I talk to her or wat can I do other than that. any better solutions my frnds

2006-11-06 16:09:13 · 17 answers · asked by Janu 2

his kids are 20 and 18 they wont except me at all ,but they easily excepted their mothers knew husband.his ex sent word 3 yrs ago when we 1st dated that her kids would never except me and they hate me ive always been respectful to her and them and we are married now 1 yr and they have made it clear my son and i arent good enough to except.they are nasty to my son and me, i dont know what to do sometimes i want to blow up and tell them what selfesh little, spoiled rotten ,ugly brats they are.for 1 yr they wouldnt even have anything to do with there father because he was with me.any help out there....any advice is welcome,please be nice..we started dating 1 yr after his divorce.the son 20 said he wants me gone that me being dead would be good for him.

2006-11-06 15:58:08 · 10 answers · asked by susan w 2

it's been a good month sinse she's told us she joined...she's 20yrs..old.... she's tried different jobs, had good paying jobs,
but just wanted something different... can't blame her....she
did good in school- built a 7ft. airplane for senior project...
she's head strong and I know she will be o.k... the problem
I have is letting go.......she's my babygirl and going to
miss her dearly......our talks, were always alone from 3:00-
until7:00 that was always our time....what will I do now??????
I cry right now about it alot.... just know I'm going to miss
her dearly........

2006-11-06 15:35:43 · 6 answers · asked by jojo 3