it's been a good month sinse she's told us she joined...she's 20yrs..old.... she's tried different jobs, had good paying jobs,
but just wanted something different... can't blame her....she
did good in school- built a 7ft. airplane for senior project...
she's head strong and I know she will be o.k... the problem
I have is letting go.......she's my babygirl and going to
miss her dearly......our talks, were always alone from 3:00-
until7:00 that was always our time....what will I do now??????
I cry right now about it alot.... just know I'm going to miss
her dearly........
2006-11-06 15:35:43 · 6 answers · asked by jojo 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
enjoy the time you have with her while she is still home. there will be plenty of time to cry when she is gone. you can stay in touch with long letters, email, and phone calls. ltell your daughter that you are proud of her and know she will do wonderful things for the world. her spirit is alive, she is smart, and she is strong. she will be fine. you will too. a good time for personal growth for everyone. i wish you happy thoughts of peace, love and light.
annie
2006-11-06 15:39:51 · answer #1 · answered by annie - rainbow goddess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can not even imagine what you are feeling. My middle son wanted to join also, a few yrs back, and I almost had a break down, but he could not join for medical reasons. Not life threatening reasons, thank God, but to tell the truth I was happy about those reasons, I do not think I could have handled him actualy leaving.. may sound selfish and all that, but it is the truth.... all I can say to you is to put her in Gods hands and leave her there. If she is as you say she is, she will be just fine. Keep communication open with her, letters, phone calls when you can, always let her know and feel you are always there, in spirit if not in person. God bless
2006-11-06 15:42:42 · answer #2 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh hun how hard this will be for you but you deserve a medal for allowing her to find her path through life .Be proud of her and her achievements .Organise regular contact through phone,email etc....Hey how about a scrapbook for you too build for her while she is gone...starting from little days right though to the present and her achievements while she is gone? Make a great b'day or christmas present for her when you are done. Sad but i bet you are so proud of her!
2006-11-06 15:42:56 · answer #3 · answered by blue_eyed_woman_of_3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My heart goes out to you. I remember when my baby left home. I thought i was going to die. I couldnt sleep, couldnt eat, worried all the time. Finally i just reasoned with myself and got myself occupied with other things and learned to accept the fact that my baby was grown. Of course his promise to call me once a week helped out a lot too as well as asking God to keep him safe. Hope this helps.
2006-11-06 15:42:48 · answer #4 · answered by classy&sassy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say daughter i am going to miss you like crazy and i will worry about you i would tell her she is a strong woman and tell her how very proud i am of her ,There are so many daughters going this route these days and so many moms crying we are with you and please tell her that and very proud of her to
2006-11-06 16:14:24 · answer #5 · answered by just_me_1955 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be proud of the strong independent young woman you have created, rather than mourning the child she was.
2006-11-06 22:16:47 · answer #6 · answered by mhm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋