My boyfrnd’s aunty’s doughter is in love with him. What to do ???

Question

As she is in love. She n her all relatives means my boyfrnds relative want him to marry her but we love each other very truly. she is telling if my boyfrnd doesn’t marry her she will commit suicide n her mom is also. His parents are against our love bcoz of her this attitude. Wat to do already my parents are searching a guy for me. How can I explain her that we are in love. Bcoz of my love if she die’s then how can I call I got victory in my love life. And I m not sure whether she is aware of our love or not. Shall I talk to her or wat can I do other than that. any better solutions my frnds

Answer 1

ur boyfriend is the one who has to take the steps. be on his side, and you will be victorious.

Answer 2

Ask your bf to invite her to meet one of his good friends. When you meet her, act formal with your bf. Ask the girl about her and that your friend (bf) has told you a lot about her. Befriend her and ask her whether she will go with you for shopping. Once you get her a.lone, then ask questions like trying to move closer to target, "Do you really love him so much?", "Since when you first felt so close to him?", "How come her mother came to know about it first?". Then, ask her whether she thinks that your friend loves her so much too and will she be able to live happily with her all her life. Try to be casual and smile. Let her talk about her love life until she is very comfortable with you. When she feels easy, tell her that you know for fact that your friend has another gf too. Did she know that and she should talk about her to her beloved? Tell her that you don't want to hurt her but she better talks about it with her intended spouse rather than feeling betrayed later on. Tell her that he seemed very committed to the girl and perhaps, she may be the reason, he doesn't want to marry her. If you can get another girl to befriend her and tell her that, that will be best. It may become difficult for you. Naturally, she will talk about it in the family and either show hysterics and be dramatic or may be feel hurt but is mature enough to understand that she may be ruining three lives in the process. Your bf will have to take a stand from there and be true to her and the family when he is questioned. I think that should solve the problem. Your bf should say that he will marry her if she wants and certainly wouldn't want her or her mom to take such a drastic step for him, but she has to know that she is ruining his, his gf's and may be her happiness in the meanwhile. Now that he has been true to her, she cannot blame him with it later on and that she si welcome to marry him but she can only have his body and not his heart ebcause you have no control over it. Perhaps that will be end of all the drama.

Answer 3

Dear Friend,

It is not you who should do the talking but it is your boyfriend who has to do it. This girl who is in love with your boyfriend is just threatening don't worry. What does your boyfriend want ? The truth is that he has to stick by your side and tell all that he will marry only you and no one else. Than nothing will matter this girl her mom or any one else. If he is ready all will work fine. So first speak to your boyfriend ask him is he ready to go against his family for you. If he is ready than nothing else matters. And don't bother about that girl she has to deal with her problem. She is not in love she is obsessed with you boyfriend. So its better you both take a step soon before she creates more problems in your life.

All the best
Good luck & God Bless

Answer 4

ok, you're in love such as your aunts daughter and also you a lady and also you're saying she is a he. i will list the failings incorrect the following. a million. You question is sorta complicated.. possibly attempt modifying next time? 2. How do you imagine you are able to get away with marrying that close a relative? in basic terms ignore the following... or perhaps see a therapist who can help type this out. There are persons accessible to love, not in basic terms him. do not tell him you want him, because he will imagine you're quite strange. If he says he loves you, not in basic terms is it a criminal offense in spite of the indisputable fact that it really is likewise risky as a lot as now/marry a cousin. also, possibly he loves you in basic terms like the way you want your brother/sister.

Answer 5

i can understand wat u facing,y don't u tell ur boyfriend to speak to his parents,if parents r convince then need not to worry abt that stupid girl,i don't understand how someone forcefully marry n live life with him.i think u both r mature enough to take discussion of ur life.parents always want there children to be happy.just relax n talk to ur mom with whom ur close.forcefully no one can get marry .if Ur bf is strong n really loves u he will convince his parents.don't worry dear.

Answer 6

They're cousins. It's against the law and geneticaly unsafe.

Answer 7

if u r in love common grow up and b bold ask ur b'frnd to talk to that girl.y the way that girl is supposed to be his cousin then how can they marry.........?

Answer 8

what ur bf want does he love her if not then ask ur bf to tell his aunty's doughter "i don't love u i love my girlfriend n i will marry my girl friend" see what ur bf says....just ask him that.

Answer 9

I would expect that it means they are related and that's not good ...Tell her its not your fault if something happens to her ..life sucks and she will have to deal with it

Answer 10

Thats hot. Cousins having sex is great. Almost as great as me and my sister having sex all the time.