ok found out today that my sisterinlaws new boyfriend has hit her little girl (7)across the face BUT the sisterinlaw told myself & husband to stay out of her life.we are great mates with her first husband(father of the children) who is away truck driving all the time.We tried to warn her about this guy but we were told to @#$%^&** wat should i do???????????????????????
2006-11-06 16:46:21 · 10 answers · asked by Jo-anne 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
It takes A LOT to have a child taken from you. So, my advise to you would be to take a picture of this child if he leaves a mark on her. Carry a tape recorder and tape your conversation about him hurting her. Once you have some evidence, go to the police. Or if you're there when it's happening, you can at least be witnesses and call the police.
Otherwise, if you call CPS, they'll investigate, which you can do anonymously. But they'll go out. Ask a few questions and that'll be it. They call before they go over. If they have a nice house, they don't even consider the possibility that she could be abused. Trust me. I've turned in my sister in law and it did me no good.
If there is no physical evidence of abuse, such as bruising, cuts, scratches, etc. You have nothing. My sister in law wasn't feeding her multi-handicapped daughter. She was basically neglecting her. Not feeding or changing her actually. But they never bothered to check to see if she had lost any weight. Never bothered to see if she had any open areas where she was always wet from being in a wet diaper. They don't bother with that stuff. And if they live in a nice house, where it's kept up, it's clean and in good shape. They don't stay long. They ask a few questions and away they go.
Just get some physical evidence of this and turn it in. It's the best you can do. Good luck and sorry to hear about this.
2006-11-06 17:13:03 · answer #1 · answered by Jenna 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a tough one. First of all, you don't want your niece to end up in Foster Care, so please be careful. Obviously your sister in law has major issues. Any woman with half a brain would never tolerate that. If this guy is slapping a little girl, imagine what else he's capable of. I would make sure I was a BIG part of this girls life, and do whatever I could to support her. I wish I could give you better advice but it's hard not knowing all the details and the laws in your country. Best of luck, and don't let this little girl down. At least she has someone to stick up for her. :)
2006-11-06 17:03:15 · answer #2 · answered by munkees81 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Your's sister in regulation likes you too a lot. She is unquestionably jealous and likes a individual such as you. you're making her understand that it's not now a threat as her sister is your spouse. She has been married yet even then she isn't happy along with her husband. in case you may locate the money for and in the experience that your spouse enables, shop your sister in regulation with you and love her. After sometime she will understand that this is of little need to cry over the chop up milk. the choose of intercourse is quite good and one won't be able to administration this choose for indefinite era.
2016-10-15 11:30:47 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call Social Services or the police.
2006-11-06 18:54:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would report her and him,that is not right you should never ever slap a child across the face,no matter what,smack on the bum with an open hand is fine anything other than that is illegal.Good Luck with it all.
2006-11-06 17:15:53 · answer #5 · answered by wizardalli 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Report her before it's to late.
2006-11-06 16:49:36 · answer #6 · answered by marqueefamily 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Call social services. You can do it anonymously. 1-800-4ACHILD
2006-11-06 16:58:35 · answer #7 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
report to police and kids father
2006-11-07 01:20:00 · answer #8 · answered by Eccentric 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is serious. You must do something-document it & tell police. Follow their suggestion. But DON'T do nothing!
2006-11-06 16:51:34 · answer #9 · answered by life coach 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
social service office!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-06 16:53:00 · answer #10 · answered by sandy k 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋