Family - November 2006

HI IM 17 AND I HAVE A BABY GIRL.I HAVE NO RIGHTS WITH MY BABY,MY MOTHER DONT LET ME TAKE HER OUT,DONT LET ME TAKE HER TO MY BOYF HOUSE FOR HE AND HIS PARENTS CAN SPEND TIME WITH HER.THIS IS DRIVING ME CRAZY BECAUSE ITS LIKE I CARRIED THIS BABY FOR 9 MONTHS AND HAD HER FOR MY PARENTS.BUT NO SHES MY BABY AND WHAT I SAY GOES.LAST NIGHT THE BABY WAS CRYING FOR 2 SECONDS AND MY SISTER PICKED HER UP AND I TOLD HER TO PUT MY BABY DOWN AND SHE SAID THAT SHE CAN GRAB THE BABY WHEN SHE WANTS THAT SHE DONT CARE SHES MY BABY CAUSE I DONT HAVE RIGHTS CAUSE IM UNDER MY PARENTS ROOF.THEN SHE SAID THAT SHE WISHES THEY CALL CHILD SERVICES ON ME FOR THEY CAN TAKE HER AWAY FROM ME.SHE DIDNT EVEN WANTED MY BABY IN THIS WORLD SHE WANTED ME TO HAVE A MISSCARAGE.BUT I REALLY NEED HELP! I FEEL LIKE PACKING MY THING AND LEAVING AND NEVER LOOK BACK!

CAN MY PARENTS TELL ME WHAT TO DO?

CAN THEY PREVENT ME FROM TAKING HER TO HER FATHER HOUSE?

DO I HAVE ANY RIGHT AT ALL?

2006-11-06 02:31:07 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

Plese notify me if you or anyone else knows this woman. I am her birth daughter Frances Ann Colvin..... (228) 282-5695

2006-11-06 02:29:57 · 1 answers · asked by frances Colvin 1

My father passed away several years ago and was receiving socil security but his name does not come up in their index. I call the court house in the county where he died and his estate has never been in probate. Could this be another trick on my stepmothers part to keep me from finding out what was in the will? I live in the midwest and they lived in AZ so I have no info as to what they had other than I know that there were several business ventures.

2006-11-06 02:23:26 · 2 answers · asked by arlene c 1

I have two girls (2yrs 8 mo apart) and it seems they spend most of their time annoying the crap out of each other. If one of them is content playing a game etc, the other is compelled to meddle and completely upset their sister. Even when we settle down to read a story or something, they have to fight about sitting in the same square foot of space. I've been losing my patience with this more and more and even though I know it is not helping the situation, I'm at a loss as to what to do. (aside from banishing them to there rooms all the time) Does anyone have any suggestions on how to get them to get along better?? Maybe some games/projects where they need to work together?? They are 3 an 6 yrs old

2006-11-06 02:13:48 · 7 answers · asked by CHRYSTAL I 3

My boyfriend wants to buy our 4 yr old son a real 4-wheeler for his birthday next yr. he will be five.
who agrees that that is just too young?He already has one of those lil power wheels 4-wheelers and he is talking about taking him over sand dumes and stuff.He said I was being too over protective but I don't want to have to bury my son at age 5 or ever really but my god is he nuts???

2006-11-06 02:01:29 · 21 answers · asked by ///\oo/\\\ 4

My parent we always great to me we were like a normal affectinate family. But around the age of 12 i stopped hugging my mother & father and didnt tell them how much I adore both of them.

Now im in my early 30's and my parents aren't getting any younger if you know what i mean.

I don't know why but its too hard for me to tell them how much i appreciate my upbrining and that I love them. Its like feel very uncomfortable and awkward about it.

Just so you all know, I have never been:
. beaten
. molested
or uncared for.

Please help me, seriously need good advise before its too late.

2006-11-06 01:52:39 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-06 01:48:06 · 5 answers · asked by dequanaellison 1

The father had an affair which has caused the breakup of the marriage and the father admits he will not give the woman up.

2006-11-06 01:41:34 · 20 answers · asked by david.letty@btopenworld.com 2

Ok,
The other day ago I met this guy. His last name is the same as my maternal grandmother's maiden name. This guy is from "cajun country" Louisiana, but his dad is from Indiana. My grandmother is from a small town about 30 minutes away from Birmingham, AL. How closely related do you think this guy and me are? The last name is Cox.

2006-11-06 01:30:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

There is a person in the family that, I say, thinks she is better than anyone else. She is always flaunting her car, her money, and the power she has over her husband. Every time there is a Family gathering I get very nervous just being around her. I never let others take control of me or push me around. As a matter of fact, I am usually the first one to tell people off and stand up for the weak ones. I wouldn't let her go as far as pushing me around. I think she knows this. She has seen the damage I do, but for some reason I get extremely nervous and have to stay in the back ground at family gatherings. I need to Know: Is this jealousy?

2006-11-06 01:00:10 · 13 answers · asked by no.#1 Mom 4

My friend owns her own house and her only son lives with her (he is 23). He is mentally abusive to her and can sometimes even get a bit physical. She has asked him to leave on severall occassion as she is scared to go home to to her own house.

He hasnt worked now for 3 months and demands money from her, eating her food and using her electricity etc. She has asked him to move out and and has even said that she will give him some money if he goes. But he wont leave and wont give her the housekeys back. She is at the end of her rope and doesnt know where to turn. He has threatened her, and her property if she kicks him out. Whats are her options?

2006-11-06 00:46:57 · 19 answers · asked by Lottie 2

I've been with this boy for over a year and i am 7 month pregnant with his baby

2006-11-06 00:39:34 · 16 answers · asked by kisskiss78098 1

my cousin, who is also my housemate, is short changing me on groccery shopping money everytime she does the calculating. i know this coz i calculated it a few times before she did the calculating just to check. i dont know how to tell her..

the only solution i thought of was to salculate it before she does next time and ask her for money.

and i'm also always spending my money on her food without asking for money back. sigh.. feel so cheated.

2006-11-06 00:28:46 · 10 answers · asked by charlea 2

She just came about 1 week ago, cuz she was having a lil problems with her husband, and was going through a divorce, which is fine shes over here with me,my mom, and my little brother. She stays in my sisters room, Which has never had one cigarette smoked in there(my sis is moved out but she still comes bak temporarily), and i just quit smoking like 6 months ago and this **** is tempting me, Im getting pissed, and dont wanna yell at her(shes 30sumthin) so what do i say/do?

2006-11-06 00:25:28 · 19 answers · asked by hatexsociety88 1

my cousin's girlfriend and i went shopping so when we came to the store she direspectfully put her goods in my trolley and expected me to pay for it then later asked me to loan her money so i did days later I expected her to pay back she pretended she was busy and did'nt have time so now she gets angry when i asked her my money back and creates problems with my family how should i handle this situation was it wrong to ask for my money back

2006-11-05 23:51:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My sister is 13 years old, and we share a room. For a long time, she was constantly "borrowing" my things and leaving them on the floor. Clothes, CDs, makeup, hair products. Nothing was safe. Then I put a stop to that, and said she could no longer borrow anything of mine. Now she's making me feel guilty and starting fights. There was one this morning, and my mom yelled at both of us. I don't hate her, but I HATE living in the same house with her. I don't even want to go home after school and get her attitude again. HELP!!

2006-11-05 23:39:27 · 11 answers · asked by resistance fighter1 3

this is about my younger sister. i feel the need to help her as an elder sister. i dont want any guys to take advantage of her.
i know some mite say its her life and i should not interfere but how can i not?? shes only 20 and had a lot of problem with guys.

the thing is that she's a type of person who need a boyfriend.one she breaks off she will have another one within days.. i'm not making her out to be a slut or anything.. i find it very worrying that she is too dependant..
her previous relationships are disasterous. a few dated her for money(she was the one paying for everything during the dates, loan from her but never pays back-besides she dont earn much too)..her previous one was quite abusive. not physically but verbally and i believe it mite lead to physical abuse in the long run ..
and now she is back with one of ex-boyfriend(Bob) who cheated on her with another girl. i'm so pissed off when she told me that she is back with (BOB).

2006-11-05 23:23:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just got a new job, but he wants me to stop working and sit at home as a full time house wife

2006-11-05 22:43:31 · 15 answers · asked by florawinnas 1

When i was a kid i was in a foster home and no-one came for me from being about 5-15 so i move into a "half-way house" after years there moved out.now im 28 and thinking of going for a child who no-one wants just like me when i was there...should i go ahead with it all.

2006-11-05 22:26:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-05 22:02:53 · 3 answers · asked by Paolo s 2

I was looking for a new apartment and my parents came to me and asked me to move in with a family friend. He bought a house beyond his means and needed additional rent to pay the bills. My parents offered to help with my rent so that they could help him out without offending his pride. It was a win win situation. I am not starving but the additional money helps. All of a sudden my parents have been harrassing me on how I spend my money. I get weekly phone calls complaining that thay heard I went to a bar or a road trip. Complaining that this is how I spend their money. I don't understand. I thought I was helping out one of their friends. I even turned down the money a number of times until I finally gave in and accepted it, they thought it was their contribution to our family friend. What Gives?

2006-11-05 21:58:54 · 7 answers · asked by 65Cobra 2

we have argued alot of the times about little things and i have had enough had any1 got any advice

2006-11-05 21:20:32 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mums Husbands is a nasty piece of work to say the least, he acts very childish, and petty.
I'm at the stage now where i do not know what to do, i hate argueing with him as it upsets my mum.
He acts like this big hard man, who has to have control over everything, he has only been part of my mum life for about 2 years, i am not the selfish type of person, and i have always wanted my mum to be happy, and have never stood in the way of that.
Has anyone have any Ideas of how i can chill out and calm my temper and anger where he is concerned.
I spend most of my time in my room and only go downstairs to get some food, or do some washing etc...
Please any advise will be much appreciated.
Thank you in advance

2006-11-05 21:14:47 · 24 answers · asked by Angel666 3

Then he checked himself into rehab. My husband, his step-dad won't let him come back because he broke the rules when he lived with us. ??

2006-11-05 20:49:38 · 8 answers · asked by lmjhoosier 1

i got 2 younger brothers and they are always bugging me, i want to know whether or not my brothers r just brats or whether or not it is normal.

have you ever punched them or hurt them in anyway on purpose
i know i have (plenty of times)

2006-11-05 20:35:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, to answer this survey, just copy and paste the question and reply with 'yes' or 'no'. And please say whether you are male or female. Thankyou :)

1. Have you ever been in a fight at school?

2. Has a fight ever continued outside of school?

3. Have you ever witnessed a fight at school?

4. Have you ever gotton in trouble for fighting?

5. Have you ever been in a fight to which the police were involved?

6. Have you ever have a fight end in hospitalization?

7. Have you ever seeked help for a fight?

8. Have you ever stepped in to stop a fight?

9. Would you ever step in to stop a fight?

2006-11-05 19:34:58 · 14 answers · asked by Blurred V 2

What would you get your mother in law she's 45?

2006-11-05 18:06:05 · 20 answers · asked by steffi 2

my grandmother in law wants me and my 6 yr old son to live with her when her husband dies, which will be soon. she feels like she is not well enough to take care of herself but i beg to differ. also i don't feel it is my place to wait hand and foot on a demanding woman who has a perfectly capable daughter and granddaughter. I think the only reason she wants me is because i have helped her before and i am a big pushover and she knows it. So please help me think of a way to tell her no in a polite respectful manner.i don't dislike her i just don't see how it is my place ,i have a mother who is only ten years younger than her and when she is ailing then will be my time to help.

2006-11-05 17:40:07 · 16 answers · asked by kittykat82 1

2006-11-05 17:31:31 · 11 answers · asked by b 4

I lost my Mom to Breast Cancer this summer at the age of 71. I tried hospice where I live but all the wanted to do was send me to a support group. My mom's passing was not a peaceful one due to the Caregiver who took care of her drank on the job and smoked around my mom while she was on an Oxygen machine. No recourse against caregiver hired by Aunt, Private contractor. Nothing i can do now Mom is gone. Still have anger at my Aunt. Part of me wants to let my aunt know how angry I am the other part why bother Aunt is an Alcoholic it will fall on deaf ears.

2006-11-05 17:19:12 · 11 answers · asked by Calibrid 2