my cousin's girlfriend and i went shopping so when we came to the store she direspectfully put her goods in my trolley and expected me to pay for it then later asked me to loan her money so i did days later I expected her to pay back she pretended she was busy and did'nt have time so now she gets angry when i asked her my money back and creates problems with my family how should i handle this situation was it wrong to ask for my money back
2006-11-05 23:51:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You def weren't wrong for asking for ur money back, this girl obivisoly is rude and totally out of line. First of all you do not put ur stuff in some one else's cart and makes the person pay for it, that is just total disrespect. You should get your money back and if she has a problem well then tough luck. You should talk to someone in your family about this problem, bring it out to everyone's attention. The sooner the better. You should not be taken advantage of like that. I say screw her!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-06 00:02:14 · answer #1 · answered by Christina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're in a touchy situation. if i was you, i would go to her boyfriend since it didn't work when you asked her for the money. tell him this, "i paid for some stuff your gf bought the other day, the thing is she might not have enough to pay me, i wouldn't ask if i wasn't going to use the money immediately..."
See what he says and take it from there. I know its difficult when it comes to family but sometime you got to have your stand. If he cares about you as a family, then he wouldn't say much.. he'll just pay you :)
Good luck!
2006-11-06 07:59:13 · answer #2 · answered by j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not wrong to ask for your money back. There is a golden rule....never lend money to friends as it often causes conflict! I would always lend to my best friend but not other friends because I've often heard the excuses 'sorry i haven't got it' or 'oops I forgot' which often leads to me never seeing the money again. I often think 'Ok I'm not gonna lower myself to beg for my money back but I'll never lend it to you again' and I dont...even if I have hundreds and they only want a fiver.....it's not being mean, its ur money do what you like with it. Just never go shopping with her again!
2006-11-06 07:57:31 · answer #3 · answered by lauralou3000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've been had.
Explain what happened to your cousin. Maybe he will repay you. Otherwise, you've learned an important lesson. Just be sure not to repeat the same mistake twice.
2006-11-06 07:58:30 · answer #4 · answered by Rox 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you weren't wrong, she was. A tough lesson to learn, but she isn't your friend; she's only using you. Time to find a new friends, and consider the incident as a lesson learned.
2006-11-06 07:55:06 · answer #5 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
god no its not wrong for u to ask for your money back id do the same i would have a stern word with her and say u want your money back now u tight fisted cow
2006-11-06 07:57:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not wrong to ask for your money back if it was me id tell her where she can shove her additude and tell her to pay you back or you gonna take her to small claims court just make sure you have your reciepts for what you bought for her and everything i hate users like she is and if others dont see it that is thier problems
2006-11-06 07:55:26 · answer #7 · answered by jazieyez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never lend friends money and if you do don't expect to get it back. Money and friends don't mix.
2006-11-06 10:07:57 · answer #8 · answered by cassie12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it was not wrong to ask for your money back.I would keep bugging the crap out of her until she paid up.Let your family know your story.And don't go shopping with her again.
2006-11-06 12:34:00 · answer #9 · answered by smile 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chalk it up to a lesson learned!
2006-11-06 07:55:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋