Family - November 2006

my sis and i went to my crush's house. (he lives across the street from us) and they my cruch and my sis had their cell phones with them. they were looking at each other's pics and my sis took at a picture of me in my underware (a long time ago) and he saw it. (it was a HUGE close up by the way!!) and now i have no idea what to do!! help me!! I'm sooo embarrassed, you have no idea !

2006-11-05 16:59:18 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Help! My little brother is saying the "N Word" like its common talk and I can't seem to make him understand that by saying it he could get seriously hurt. I really hate him but still he needs to know he can't say that.

2006-11-05 16:51:07 · 11 answers · asked by Phillip D 1

when they see me and my sister , we remind them that our father cheated with another woman, and they are giving us a hard time, i am hurt and i cry a lot whenever i remember my father is not married to my mom, and that i am considered as an illigitimate child and sometimes because of this i have problems with men i dont want to love because maybe he will cheat one me too, and my children will suffer this once again, i am affected, its so hard to move on, my father is already dead but i still feel defenseless and worse i have to ask my older siblings for money for my edu

2006-11-05 16:49:04 · 8 answers · asked by haringmarumo 6

when they see me and my sister , we remind them that our father cheated with another woman, and they are giving us a hard time, i am hurt and i cry a lot whenever i remember my father is not married to my mom, and that i am considered as an illigitimate child and sometimes because of this i have problems with men i dont want to love because maybe he will cheat one me too, and my children will suffer this once again, i am affected, its so hard to move on, my father is already dead but i still feel defenseless and worse i have to ask my older siblings for money for my education

2006-11-05 16:42:52 · 3 answers · asked by haringmarumo 6

My boyfriend won't help me with my child who is only 11 months old or any house work cause he works and i don't know what to do. I tried talking to him but it only leads to a fight. I'm 19 and he is 25. I am also returning to school in 2 weeks cause i dropped out. should i leave him??? what should i do??. I should also mention i am under depression I am on Prozacs but i still feel like crying all the time.

2006-11-05 16:30:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

And I reeeeeallyyyyyy don't know how to act at school today...I mean, should I even tell my classmates?Because it's hard to talk about him...I cry if I talk about him and I don't know if I will stand it, to cry in school to everyone that will ask me what's wrong...I'm 15...And since I really don't know neither how to act neither what to say....please help!!

2006-11-05 16:24:05 · 27 answers · asked by Tina Shh 2

2006-11-05 16:23:01 · 11 answers · asked by lovnajah 1

When he is drunk my family hates him, he swears at me, my sister, and my mother. He breaks things and just freaks out. But when he is sober, i love him more than anything in the world. What should i do?

2006-11-05 15:56:03 · 9 answers · asked by Jimmy R 1

2006-11-05 15:11:35 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

i come home thinking to have fun with my family and instead end up with a fight , what to do about it?

2006-11-05 14:53:19 · 18 answers · asked by b. spears 1

Ever since her mom passed away 10 years ago my daughter has had to take on all the wifely and motherly duties of the household. Well, she was cleaning my room the other day. After she made my bed she said she started vacuuming and a rat or mouse scurried across the room and she jumped back and knocked over my glass lamp. This was over 100 dollars..I mean it was nice. Well, I had been drinking some and when i found out I just about lost it and made her bend over the bed while I spanked her with a wooden paint stick (the usual thing, because it usually doesn't hurt as much as a belt or hairbrush in my opinion) Well she ended up crying and then after I became more sober, I felt like maybe I went overboard. I didn't apologize but I did let her go see some movie she had been wanting to go see...do you think this made up for it or should I apologize?

2006-11-05 14:26:43 · 31 answers · asked by Sandstorm222 2

My mom and i have been growing apart im a freshmen in high school and i have met this guy we have been really close now for about over half a year. and every night i always stay up late talking to him, im talking like 3,4, sometimes 5 in the morning. sneeking on the computer and sneeking to get the phone. we came to an agreement that i could stay up till 11:30 on weekdays. but yet again 2 days after that i broke that agreement and stayed up until 3. and then stayed home the next day because i was so tired and just feeling under the weather. then that day i also stayed up until like 330 talking to him. and the day after i went to bed on time. but my mom found out about one of the nights i stayed up until 3. and she says i have lost her trust and i need to gain it back. i have NO idea how to do this. and she has given me 2 days to think about it. any advice? please keep in mind how i seem to always! be breaking the rules and nothing really seems to be working. thanks

2006-11-05 14:24:07 · 6 answers · asked by Susan D 2

this is the first time i've dealt with death, my dad died of a stroke today, November 5, 2006
i was in the hospital with him for 6 hours, telling him i love him but i dont know if he was able to hear me..

sigh, how do i deal with this

2006-11-05 14:15:06 · 25 answers · asked by twiztedweb 2

i was wondering since my parents are divoreced and i have a step dad but will there be any long-term effects.like i live with my mom but i see my dad often..will there be any effects relating to relationships,insecurity or any of that without a dad being around all the time?

2006-11-05 13:54:33 · 8 answers · asked by beachcrunkxxx 1

I'm 15. Okay, Like I went to Disney World with my family two weeks ago, And I was having a lot of fun until my lil sister spotted Snow White and wanted to have her picture taken with her, And out of nowhere these big-headed mascots the Seven Dwarfs walked up to us, And my hands started to sweat...I felt my heart beat faster......I--I was getting scraed I cried real loud and totally embarrassed myself in front millions of people! my uncle looked at me wrong and told me that was ashamed of me! OMG! I felt horrible! I felt like cralwing to a hole! I don't know what to do!

2006-11-05 13:46:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

my little sister (14) told me that my friend who is suppose to be a preacher was on the computer showing her porn and telling her sex stories. should i talk to her myself or let my parents do it and should i confront him

2006-11-05 13:45:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

my friend recently died, and i would really like you to pray for me and my friends and his family. dakota died in a car accident.....because they were driving really stupid and he wasnt wearing his seatbelt. plz let that be a sign for all of you who dont wear seatbelts. its a really stupid thing not to wear it. we all miss dakota very much. he will remain in our hearts forever. our whole school will probably be grieving tomorrow. please do us a favor and pray for us. it would help alot.

and bubba....if your reading this right now...no that we love you, and miss you soooooooooooo much. why do the good always die young? just wanted to say i love you. and miss you. and i.....kinda used to have a ... crush on you...i wish now i would have told you. it will be really weird not seeing you at school tomorrow...and know you wont be coming back. its like that saying "you dont know what you've got will its gone". we all miss you. there will NEVER NEVER EVER be another boy like you dakota! ily

2006-11-05 13:40:03 · 3 answers · asked by britt 1

2006-11-05 13:27:42 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was going to just sign me and my husband's name on the card. Should I write something else? I was close when I was a child but not as an adult. Also, what is the proper way to sign my name and my huband's name and include my maiden name? I was going to do it this way:

Mr and Mrs John and Jennifer (Smith) Jones

Is that correct?

2006-11-05 13:26:41 · 5 answers · asked by sunflowers 4

My grandaughter is pretty responsible and wants to move out of state to be with her boyfriend. She will continue her college there. She hasn't got a good home life. What do you think?

2006-11-05 13:23:18 · 6 answers · asked by ALICE B 3

Is it harder being a parent today than in our parents' generation? If so, how? If not, why not?

2006-11-05 13:11:49 · 14 answers · asked by extraordinareality 3

I have 3 sons ages...24,22,and 19. My 24 and 22 year old does nothing around the house or contrbutes in any way monetarily! I love them but have trouble confronting them about either moving or paying something! I am Divorced and have raised them myself for the past 13 years. I guess I don't know how to confront them without alienating them from me. My 19 year old helps me with everthing.

2006-11-05 13:11:39 · 11 answers · asked by RAINER G 1

My son throws our kitten around, kicks the dog, and recently he killed our rabbit by throwing her down the stairs. What can ANYONE suggest to help us help him. I am terrified that this will get worse. I have also heard that when children abuse animals as children they are more likely to be violent as adults. Is that true. Please HELP!!!

2006-11-05 13:09:44 · 27 answers · asked by chrissy 2

2006-11-05 13:08:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband has a son from a previous relationshipand we have 2 sons also..my hubby has always been in his sons life and we all enjoy him when he comes over but recently he hasnt wanted to come over unless we are doing something fun for example our yearly vacation or hunting trips or fishing trips..otherwise he doesnt want anything to do with us..is this normal??i told my husband that i think it is normal for a teenager to not want to hang out with his parents..but he is really hurt by his sons attitude about things..all of these problems really started when we found out that my husbands name was not on his sons birth certificate..we were all shocked about this...my husband has paid child support for the last 16 years and now not only is his son treating him like crap but his name isnt on the birth certificate..can anyone tell me their thoughts on this...

2006-11-05 12:59:36 · 6 answers · asked by nuttsrus2005 1

Will I ever get over it & just let it go?

How can I do this when it bothers me so much?

My own mother hates me,to be quite frank I don't feel too great about her either (see past questions).

My mother is turning my brother & sisters against me.

I feel constantly let down.Is it normal to only want to depend on yourself for fear of disappointment?

The whole lot of them upset my dad today for acting like they didn't even want to know him & its all my mothers fault.He's the best dad in the world & they are so cruel to him.

I know I'm rambling a bit but I'm so annoyed,I need to get all the frustration out before I explode!

2006-11-05 12:52:43 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

not come back or wat??

2006-11-05 12:51:13 · 9 answers · asked by blair w 1

My father died when I was young b/c of.. well we'll say complications from surgery (The Dr's ****** up). And my mom has been sick all my life, and is never well enough nor financially fit enough to go anywhere.. I just had a baby and my husbands mother is healthy and able to come up and see her grandkid, and I just get so mad at him b/c he's always been able to do things with his family, no one's ever been sick or anything, and I never can... We live states away from my family, we're saving now to go see her next yr, but she may not be alive next yr... And I still hear my mother-in-law complaining that she doesn't get enough time with her grandson and she never gets to do this or that... etc.. She was here when he was born!! How can I get over this, it just breaks my heart...

2006-11-05 12:46:43 · 10 answers · asked by Me... 1

do we haft to go to court for my dad to get custody or can i just go with my dad and not come back??

2006-11-05 12:38:17 · 16 answers · asked by blair w 1

i need 2 names
liek things that go like candyman with something else
things like that would help thanx

2006-11-05 12:32:14 · 5 answers · asked by hayhay 2