i come home thinking to have fun with my family and instead end up with a fight , what to do about it?
2006-11-05 14:53:19 · 18 answers · asked by b. spears 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
IT IS ALSO PART OF LIFE TRY TO SOLVE MISUNDERSTANDING AND ENJOY THE LIFE
2006-11-07 04:16:07 · answer #1 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi There,
I wish u would give us more details as in the reasons why the fights start and who do you live with. But either ways home is the only place where you have to be at peace so here is what you can do. Call a family meeting, sit with them and tell them how you feel when you come home and they start fighting. The next time an argument comes up insted of fighthting why don't you try and solve it. Never raise your voice believe me that brings out more anger just be calm as calm as possible. Think why all this is happening and what will be best solution to you problem. Are you married and is the fight happening with your wife than i suggest that you take a break and go out for a vacation with her. There you both can talk and solve your problems. But if you are not married and you are getting into fights with your siblings and parents than i suggest you move out. This way they will understand your importance in the house and at the same time your relationship will be better with all. Just tell them your moving out is in the interest of all.
Hope you find peace. Good luck and god bless.
2006-11-06 00:39:01 · answer #2 · answered by Blueberry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to understand that your parents might deal with problems at their work, and your brothers and sisters at their school too. Life is not easy and you need to struggle sometimes to get what you want. Try to think before you say anything that can hurt them.
I recommend you just stay cool and be positive and optimistic as much as you can when you're around them. Don't sub estimate your family, instead thank God for them.
2006-11-05 23:44:17 · answer #3 · answered by AmAr A ciegAs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There must be some reason for the fight. Find out why and settle your differences. Nothing can replace success in the home - not even success in career.
2006-11-06 05:44:20 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow the policy 'Live and let live'.
Also take a printout of the above in big font and tack it in your room.
Have fun ONLY when in house. Do not bother.
Or as someone said, get your own private accommodation.
Also do some introspection, just in case... ;-)
2006-11-09 19:15:04 · answer #5 · answered by lonely_searching_preet(i) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi
fight is also fun dear i also fight with everyone so that i can have fun with my brother and sister. it also another form of love.
but yes dear you cannot change others,it is better you change yourself.
TRY TO BE MORE OPEN WITH YOUR LOVE ONCE. tell them what you are feeling when their is a fight in your home. tel them what you want.
see some time when we express our feeling than only others understands.
by and take care
2006-11-06 08:04:23 · answer #6 · answered by priya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a family meeting and tell them how u feel. i would say move out if ur like a 18 yr old but i don't know if ur like a mom, then u gotta work things out, u just have to
2006-11-05 23:05:20 · answer #7 · answered by •°iiFia1125°• 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well , first of all, who's fault was it? then why you were fighting for? if it was something that is going on for quiet some time, then everyone needs to set and talk not fight...then make sure that you stay out of someone else personal problems unless you are invited into it
2006-11-05 23:37:25 · answer #8 · answered by Rosie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens! Its due to over expectations & misunderstandings.
Clear it all once & forever.
If it does'nt help, be quiet when things are going wrong.
Always be cheerful & stay positive. Love can conquer all enimity & anger.
All the best.
2006-11-05 23:45:49 · answer #9 · answered by Kanchi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a family meeting and get to the root cause of why everyone is upset. Are there issues they have with you, someone else or themselves?
2006-11-05 22:57:34 · answer #10 · answered by teashy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be obedient or be according to them other wise keep quite. even though you are bugged ask what is their problem if u can give what they want you give. You can solve it just understand what they want from you.
2006-11-05 23:04:23 · answer #11 · answered by The Prince of Egypt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋