how do i tell i boy its over without hurting him???

Question

I've been with this boy for over a year and i am 7 month pregnant with his baby

I do love him but he just leaves me all the time on my own.. And he is constantly trying to stress me out and he always talking to me like am dirt... I dont need this while am pregnant and i know i cant bring up a child in this sort of environment, its not fair on her!

Answer 1

Oh dear.

Tell him sooner rather than later, so he isn't looking forward to the birth withyou, and annoying you incessantly with offers to massage your thighs etc.

Just go for, 'we need to talk.' Tell him you are too stressed out with planning for the baby and need some time to yourself to think (don't tell him you need several years). When you've had time to think, you can break it ti him that actually, you rather like not having him around.

And Nicci, if that's you, you're 8 months pregnant. And I will just put my fingers in my ears again.


Good luck with the baby - it's much more important than your X.

Answer 2

Is it possible HE might be dropping YOU hints with his indifferent behaviour that it's over?? Talk it out with him as mature adults. (I assume you are.) Bringing a baby into the world together and then leaving her to be brought up by just one parent doesn't sound fair for the child either. All relationship problems can be sorted out. Don't just give up without trying. Relationships don't come easy. See the future of your child as well. Break ups do hurt no matter how you tell.

Answer 3

Honestly, you shouldn't make judgements like that when you're pregnant. If I were you, you should worry more about having money to raise your child, a home, food for the baby, exc... have that all ready until after you have the baby. Don't break up with him until after a few weeks that you have the baby...

When you break up with him, just tell him that he's not ready to be a parent, tell him the reasons why you're breaking up with him.

Answer 4

If he keeps treating you like dirt, then break up with him. He shouldn't be treating you this way and you don't want your baby mimicing her father's actions and treating other people this way. Talk to your partner about the way you're feeling at the moment. He may not realise that he's upsetting you. If he won't change, break up with him. But still keep in contact for the sake of your baby.

Answer 5

Slowly release the pressure by gradually becoming less responsive to him until he picks that something is wrong. Give subtle hints as well, and be very open if questioned.

Answer 6

Just concentrate on the baby you are carrying .He obviously isn't a BOY if he managed to get you pregnant . If he is a jerk get rid of him!

Answer 7

oh boy...not the time to kick him out....wait until after the baby is born and you go back to work...Then kick him out and sure for child support.

Easiest way is to put all his stuff on the lawn and change all the locks

Answer 8

This is a bit late, are you absolutely sure? Shouldn't you give him a chance to save your relationship, considering he is about to become father?
Is he excited about becoming a father?
If he isn't, then perhaps you can call it a day, nicely and cleanly, and tell him it isn't working for you.

Answer 9

Don't do it. He is the father of the baby and you will need him, though you think you don't right now. Try to see it through.

Answer 10

jus tell him str8 up its over! if he treating u like dirt he deseves to be hurt. i know it will be hard 2 be on your own. but jus be strong so ull make it through