My man told his son, who told my son-in-law, who told my daughter about our arguement last week. Now I am getting 20 questions about it.
Why did he have to tell our business?
Should I be (I am) upset about it?
What should I say to him?
2006-11-06 04:55:20 · 8 answers · asked by wwjd 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I think it all depends. He may have been trying to get advice on the argument unless of course this was an argument that was resolved. If it was just to get advice, you will just have to deal with the nosiness around you until the next gossip comes along then yours will be forgotten. If he was just blabbing your business for no good reason, than you may need to have a talk with him about keeping things just between the two of you.
2006-11-06 04:58:18 · answer #1 · answered by Green Eyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many possibilities as to why he told your son about the arguement. I think you should stop being so petty and just let it go, so your family knows you had an agruement, big deal.
2006-11-06 04:57:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you should be upset...It's your personal business, not the entire families. Spouses should not air dirty laundry to anyone in their families. How rude.
Tell him that you will not tolerate that garbage and if he does it again, you won't cook/sex/whatever he likes for a whole month. You will have to treat him like a child and put him on restriction if he is going to act like one being a tattletale.
2006-11-06 05:19:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's okay to be indignant via this. A courting could have some privateness. i think of perhaps she is in basic terms letting out her thoughts to make herself sense greater desirable, yet she desires to admire you and shop the privateness for you men. attempt chatting together with her and telling her the way it makes you sense. perhaps she will quiet down.
2016-10-03 08:32:11 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was probably just needing someone to talk to about it, and once one person is told, it just turns into a chain reaction. You should express your feelings to him, but you can't blame him for having to let it out to someone. Everyone needs an outside party to talk to.
2006-11-06 04:58:32 · answer #5 · answered by cause0im0broken 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did he tell? Is he just a blabbermouth? If so, you can tell them that was supposed to be private and you're not answering any questions about it. But if he feels you abused him and he wanted someone to know, then it's up to you to address that.
2006-11-06 04:57:00 · answer #6 · answered by Kacky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him(your man) how you feel about the situation. Maybe he'll understand and stop his little gossiping....Understanding is the best policy.
2006-11-06 04:57:52 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is this reason to be upset
this happens in all family
forget same now and be cautious for next time
2006-11-06 04:59:11 · answer #8 · answered by ashishmulye 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋