Family & Relationships - 28 December 2007

2007-12-28 16:15:35 · 5 answers · asked by Dandi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

*~'Please be honest and helpful'~*

Ok I am a thinker and I tend to think alot, so one day I was thinking how my gf acts when she is around her friends, but I didn't want to be direct so I tricked her into giving me the answer. she said "Friends are supposed to be there for each other" ok that was fine with me and then she said some more " It doesn't matter if they hold hands walking down the streets or lay together holding each other" With more things still to be said I am a nice guy and work hard to give my gf what she wants but after telling me that im concered on the things that she might be doing with her freinds. Because we hold hands and lay togther under blankets, and also she's not honest to me when I know she talks about sexual things to this one dude who i had to find out on my own was her ex bf of 2yrs.

So is there anything that you can help me with.

2007-12-28 16:15:27 · 27 answers · asked by Mitchell 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend have been going out for a while now, and he use to call me everyday. Now, i have to call him every other day and i think it's because we have nothing to talk about on the phone.
please help me with some conversation starters cus i dont want to be known as the boring girlfriend.
ily

2007-12-28 16:12:59 · 20 answers · asked by Laura(<3=]) 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-28 16:11:45 · 5 answers · asked by anni m 1 in Singles & Dating

Thank you all so much for your answers. I prayed with her and talked to her again and she admitted she made it up because she was mad at him. She is in some sort of counceling and own Abilify,Trazodone ,lamical and Concerta.She lives a 150 miles away and is staying with us through the holidays for one more week. My daughter and I became astranged for almost 5 years. My granddaughter stayed with us the first 4 years of her life. After she moved 1500 miles away ,something happened.My daughter called and said they put her in a mental hospital.I started asking questions and our relationship fell apart. I believe my grandaughter was abused or raped then by someone my daughter left her with.Now I,m afraid for her to remain in my home since she will be with her grandfather alone. I,m not worried about him. Should I share with him and the mother and send her home? She doesn,t want to go. I just don,t know which direction to go. I love her so much and don,t want to do further damage.

2007-12-28 16:11:41 · 4 answers · asked by justMe 2 in Family

I got my heart stomped on recently and there's this event where I'm gonna have to see him on January 7th. I don't want to miss it and show I'm afraid to see him. But I do want to lose weight, look fabulous so he'll eat his heart out. What's a quick sure-fire way to lose weight quick and fast by January 7th? (Hopefully something that doesn't include a really strict diet because it's almost New Year and I like to celebrate with loads of food)

2007-12-28 16:10:32 · 6 answers · asked by callieRach 7 in Singles & Dating

My b/f has full costudy of all 4 of his kids. he has the right to tell her when and if she can have them and he also has the right to say if they can talk to her. Christmas eve she was soppose to bring them home and she didn't bring them home until christmas night. Well he call the cops and they couldn't do anything about it. Well tonight she starts to call about 7:30 pm and it didn't end until 8:40 pm almost 60 calls with thin that time. then she started again at 10:00 pm and it didn't stop until we got a knock on the door from the cops because she called them on us because we wouldn't let her talk to them because she is stupid. I just want to know if anyone thinks this is right for them to come for her and not for someone who is the real parent?

2007-12-28 16:08:30 · 9 answers · asked by love_me_not1982 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I think he really likes me.how do get him to ask me out.Or talk to me.

2007-12-28 16:08:20 · 7 answers · asked by Kay K 1 in Singles & Dating

my husband and I have been married for almost five years and we have 2 beautiful children. things between us started changing almost after my second baby was born. he barely talks to me and if he does it's only to tell me how sick he is or how unforutnate he is in his work although he has a great job. I don't even get the occasioanl joke anymore. I have talked with him over and over but he just smiles and drops the whole subject as if i didn't say a word. I feel hurt and above all I feel I would like to criticise him all the time. Is his behavior the cause of this. What can I do?

2007-12-28 16:08:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok so im a girl and im a freshman in high school. so far my luck with guys hasnt been so great. ill be completely honest. im pretty, funny, smart, and athletic. im tall( 5 9 - do you think that intimidates guys?) and im always nice to people and flirt with guys a lot.

so how come NO ONE has asked me out?

i know i sound desperate and its kinda cuz i am lol.

basically, what im asking is how do i get guys to like me enough to ask me out?

any advice?

2007-12-28 16:07:26 · 21 answers · asked by allie 3 in Singles & Dating

after another. I know the problem stems from his homelife. His Mom is my niece, so he is actually my "great nephew". He comes from a broken home and even before they divorced, the kids were allowed to run wild. I have tried so many times to let him come over here to play with my 6 year old son, but he stresses me out so bad I am afraid that this might be the last time. He lives with my sister now (his Nana), so I know he is being cared for, even though it isn't the picture perfect home life with Mom and Dad at home. So far today, he wouldn't listen to me at the store so I had to have him walk with his hand in my pocket so I knew he was with me the whole time. In the check out line, I had to go 2 lanes over to get me a drink and I left him and my son there and when I came back, 30 seconds later, he was ripping stickers out of a sticker book where they have the last minute "gotta have" items. I paid for the book with all the stuff and left. When we were in the car I tried

2007-12-28 16:06:43 · 6 answers · asked by Corona 5 in Family

I own a lawn care business. Last year was my first year in business and I didn't do too well. I had 10 regular customers who I would mow for aout every two weeks.
When I mention being a business owner or having a "business" my wife just laughs or says "I'm sure". She wants me to work for someone else so we'll know how much money is going to be coming in every week.
What's it going to take for her to recognize my dreams and my efforts?

2007-12-28 16:06:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I met this girl during a company orientation in Sept. She and I work for the same company but totally different areas so us possibly dating is not a big deal in our company. Anyways our jobs both have us travel a lot during the week so we really don't get to see each other or hang out that BUT we stay in touch with each other via e-mail or company IM...mostly IM. We rarely call each other...I know..I know ...not good.

So anyways I would like to hang out with her more often with just the two us.......

How do you guys recommend that I do this without being so obvious? Or is obvious good? ....She might think this is weird after 4-5 months of knowing her

Thanks

2007-12-28 16:06:05 · 5 answers · asked by lenz0223 1 in Singles & Dating

I saw some male enhancement commercial on tv so now im curious.

2007-12-28 16:06:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm a 15 year old sophomore. I breakdance, i tag graffiti (don't even try to tell me why i break the law), i love music, i get good grades and everything...But anyway, my mom doesn't seem to like my friends. She says its because i always hang out with them up until a bit before curfew. And she says just because how they look. But she can't understand that they're the ones who can really understand me. My mom is like 60+ (yes i was a very late child) and she use to go straight home from school when she was my age so i don't think she'd understand the concept of cruising. But she doesn't want me to hang out with them anymore, but they are the ones who i can always turn to and i'll be damned if i have to get new friends. What do i do?

2007-12-28 16:05:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-12-28 16:04:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-12-28 16:03:35 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I've been dating my girlfriend for almost two years now. We have lived together for nearly a year. There's no problems in our relationship, but there's something that's just perplexing my mind. Many times when we go out, there's always several nagging guys that go up to her and try to flirt.

The thing is, I don't have a freakin' clue how to handle this. Should I be aggressive and ward them off? Or should I just pull her away? Every time it happens, she doesn't say anything to me about it afterwards -- and I know it aggravates her -- and I don't say anything to her either (I don't know what to say).

So, in hindsight, and prospectively, what the heck should I do when put in these situations?

Thanks

2007-12-28 16:03:25 · 11 answers · asked by Rick 2 in Singles & Dating

Tonight I went out with some friends. All we did was play video games and eat some food. When I came home tonight my Mom accused me of drinking. She has been complaining to me the whole night saying that I am too young to be drinking. That very fact makes me really mad right now. For one I did not drink anything and also I do not even know what would cause her to accuse me of drinking. I am really starting to get tired of them saying stuff like this to me. I have tried to be respectable to them in every way that I can and even come back at decent times. I am 19 years old and I think that it is time for them to trust me more. My parents have it in there head that I am wild. What should I do?

2007-12-28 16:02:06 · 11 answers · asked by ~~dodgers~~ 3 in Family

My husband and I have been stressed and fighting lately.
Now that the fighting's finally over, I want to make it up to him.
What can I do for him, emotionally to be affectionate and show him I still love him strongly?
Please no sexual answers.

2007-12-28 16:00:41 · 9 answers · asked by Ryuu 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm in a relationship with a person who is having Rheumatoid Arthritis since 2 years... I'm thinking of marriage now... Am I thinking right?

2007-12-28 15:59:32 · 14 answers · asked by Steve b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

people say time is the cure for getting over heartbreak...which is true but its so hard when you through you were going to be with that person forever! he told me he wanted to marry me and i seem to not be getting over it any time soon! its been like 3 months and it hurts still just the same as day one..i mean i cope with it better when i see him with the 'new girl' but i still cant get passed seeing life without him forever. i keep thinking he will come back one day...even though i know he might not...what shall i do in this time? ugh

2007-12-28 15:59:15 · 18 answers · asked by kamdgal 1 in Singles & Dating

Im 21. Ive been seeing a girl for almost three months. She has serious trust issues b/c she has been hurt in the past. I got her a hoodie for christmas. She texted me tonight saying that she was cuddling up in the hoodie i got her. I reponded a half hour later b/c my phone was upstairs and I was downstairs and i didnt get the text for a half hour. She got very angry and asked what took so long to respond. She hasnt talked to me in days because i took a half hour to respond to her text. Is she overreacting. Do all girls act like this??

2007-12-28 15:59:15 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Her name was Darlene Maxwell ans she passed in TX, we believe one of my sister in laws got the money and never told her brothers which one of them is my husband, Darren Zebrowski and his brother Eugene Zebrowski WE want to know what I have to do to find out if she received anything b.c we dont care about the money we care that she is selfish and if anything we were putting it away for our childrens college funds. Please help

2007-12-28 15:58:11 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

only kinda short.
like 2 inches above the shoulders in a cute style

2007-12-28 15:57:44 · 6 answers · asked by french fry 2 in Singles & Dating

i had sex a couple times and everyone says it feels so good but when i did it i dint feel anytin dat good was it because the guy wasnt doing it rite or what??

2007-12-28 15:57:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

because i have a crush on one of my closes friends. and im scared you know maybe its wrong so should i forget about him?

2007-12-28 15:56:40 · 11 answers · asked by ma_ong82 1 in Singles & Dating

My dad is 51 years old,and from the years i known him,he has been going to goodwills...fleamarkets...and drive a car that costed $700 bucks..but today..he suddenly goes out and buys a 2008 Honda Accord..? Wtf?? what is wrong??

2007-12-28 15:55:37 · 4 answers · asked by dont..trust..me 1 in Family

I am a male who enjoys being a girl. I want to live as a girl for the rest of my life. Im currently 16 years old and its hard to be a girl while living at home with my parents. My girl name is Molly.

2007-12-28 15:54:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i dont want to seem clingy, but i dont want to seem cold either, any advice?

2007-12-28 15:54:03 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating