My husband and I have been stressed and fighting lately.
Now that the fighting's finally over, I want to make it up to him.
What can I do for him, emotionally to be affectionate and show him I still love him strongly?
Please no sexual answers.
2007-12-28 16:00:41 · 9 answers · asked by Ryuu 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
During the fighting, I am guessing that you with held things from him in some aspects. I suggest that you give those things back to him.
Not to bore you with dtails, but my wife and I had harbored bad feelings for quite a while once in the past and we both held back them emotional intamacy as well as physical.
When this happens you have to re-introduce it to the marriage or else the other person still feels like the fight hasn't ended.
2007-12-28 16:10:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As one poster stated,, “what else is there besides food and sex?”
Well there is spontaneity !!!
Do all of the Above on the “spur of the moment when he’s NOT expecting it!” Don’t get arrested for indecent exposure or the sort, but doing something “wild and crazy” will spark things up considerably between you !! “Affection” is an ACTION WORD be ACTIVE!!
2007-12-28 18:22:37 · answer #2 · answered by logicalanswer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might let him know that you really care, and would like to talk calmly and caringly with each other from now on.
Marriage is a lot of work, sometimes, isn't it? If we agree to discuss our problems and try to come to a solution, that is better. We also have to understand that there are times when we won't agree, so must compromise. It's ok to agree to disagree too!
Just let him know you love him, and that you want to try to work out problems in a better, more caring way next time. and give him a big hug and thank him !!
take care!
2007-12-28 16:07:02 · answer #3 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cook a favorite dish, watch a movie or favorite show, play games. Spending quality time with him will show your love.
2007-12-28 16:06:57 · answer #4 · answered by Amber B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and tell him how much you love him. Tell him why you fell in love with him and tell him all the qualities that he has that made you fall in love with him. Give him little love pats and call him his little love names that you have for him. He will get the hint and hopefully return the favor as well.
2007-12-28 16:05:40 · answer #5 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are the best one to answer that. What does he like doing? What does he wish you would do more often? Think about it, and then do those things for him.
2007-12-28 16:05:23 · answer #6 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Food is the way to a man's heart... listen to y0 momma... lol
2007-12-28 16:05:01 · answer #7 · answered by drarkane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does your face look blue in your pix?
2007-12-28 16:41:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
What else is there besides sex and food?
2007-12-28 16:15:13 · answer #9 · answered by Time To Go 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋