I'm in a relationship with a person who is having Rheumatoid Arthritis since 2 years... I'm thinking of marriage now... Am I thinking right?
2007-12-28 15:59:32 · 14 answers · asked by Steve b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'd HOPE you'd love someone regardless of their health issues.
2007-12-28 16:02:51 · answer #1 · answered by kiki 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Imagine for a moment your arthritis completely vanishing right now.
If, in a moment, your pain and stiffness melted away. And your joints all of a sudden functioned like a well-oiled machine.
Like a magic wand was waived, you'd be able to jump up from your chair and run around the room like a kid.
And imagine that you'd never have to suffer as much as a pinch of arthritis stiffness or pain ever again.
I know this sounds impossible right now, but bear with me, because sometimes miracles happen.
It was a gift from a woman on the other side of the world. From the kindness of her heart, she took pity on my suffering and taught me how to completely reverse my arthritis.
Today, I want to do the same for you!
2016-05-14 22:17:22 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love the person, their health problems shouldn't be an obstacle. You'll get used to something like arthritis. If you guys stay married, dealing with it will be a part of everyday life.
2016-04-01 23:30:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love this person to the fullest it really wouldn't matter what health issues they have. If you are not willing to be able to put up with this then you better ask yourself if you want to marry this person or not.
2007-12-28 16:03:50 · answer #4 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
now if the tables were turned how would you feel if someone wondered if they should marry you because of medical issues. If you seriously are wondering let that person go find someone who will love them with their medical issues.
2007-12-28 16:27:22 · answer #5 · answered by blondie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have ther perceverance and the patience to deal with this disease they have, sure. If you love them with all your heart, go for it. But if you can't deal with helping them out 24/7 and deal with their constant pain and agony, it would be good to cut loose.
2007-12-28 16:04:04 · answer #6 · answered by drarkane 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you love them and are willing to make a commiment in sickness and health them yes. But, if you are not get out now, don't continue to lead them on.
2007-12-28 16:07:10 · answer #7 · answered by baglady75 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My dad has had both hips replaced & goes for walks every day & exercises. Enjoy a healthy lifestyle together-lots of greens helps R.A
2007-12-28 16:05:22 · answer #8 · answered by whisperer 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What does that have to do with being in love with her? I mean so what if she has a medical condtion. I mean that is not what love is all about. If your in love with her marry her regardless. If you don't then let her go.
2007-12-28 16:04:18 · answer #9 · answered by conny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she'll be in alot of pain alot of times, but having someone with you when your hurting, helps alot!
I have it along with fibromyalgia. Their both killing me, and I'm affrad I won't get a man to love me either. But I can still walk, have sex, cook, enjoy somethings. good luck
2007-12-28 16:04:09 · answer #10 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋