ok so im a girl and im a freshman in high school. so far my luck with guys hasnt been so great. ill be completely honest. im pretty, funny, smart, and athletic. im tall( 5 9 - do you think that intimidates guys?) and im always nice to people and flirt with guys a lot.
so how come NO ONE has asked me out?
i know i sound desperate and its kinda cuz i am lol.
basically, what im asking is how do i get guys to like me enough to ask me out?
any advice?
2007-12-28 16:07:26 · 21 answers · asked by allie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
youu need to chill
wait it out.
never sound desperate major turn off
dont chase boys let them chase you
2007-12-28 16:12:35 · answer #1 · answered by meg 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hey! I'm a girl, but I think I can help answer your question. My friend is actually 5'10'' and she felt the same way in high school. Everyone of her friends had BF's and she never had any. It was until college when she had a bf. I think you just have to wait until the right guy comes along and ask you out. GUYS do get intimidated by girls who are taller than them. Only the brave ones who really like you would try to ask. Just wait. You're still young and that's a lot of time left to know every single guy and not stick with one! =) Make use of your height. It should be a gift.
2007-12-29 00:10:28 · answer #2 · answered by craz34jason 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Most the time I think girls like you are taken, and the ones that have the confidence to ask you out u really don't want cause they just chase tail... But if you are out in the open maybe you just aren't out where people feel less intimated by you or don't know you as well. Yes is can be intimidating, don't let it change you to be something your not. although it sometimes get's you what you want but in the end it eats what you have built in your life. So desperate u might just wana try asking for yourself then, cause most guys will cheat on their GF for a girl like that/ you. Good Luck
2007-12-29 00:13:31 · answer #3 · answered by Nate B. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't settle for shorter guys, I'm 6'3 and i always hated in high school that most of the taller girls dated the average height guys. surround yourself with a good group of friends and just be yourself, the best guys are the ones that want to be your friends because they actually like you for your personality and you! Don't fall victim to the jerks that will compliment you in attempt to just get in your pants. Find a guy that you like and think you're compatible with and ask him to hang out some time, try to get to know him and see if there is potential for a relationship. Us nice guys can be clueless at times when it comes to woman and how to tell if you're looking for more, some of us just need to be told and I don't think it should be so awkward for a girl to ask a guy out on a date. Good Luck, I hope I can help a little!
2007-12-29 00:18:15 · answer #4 · answered by bharper84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the only reason you want to date is for the sake of saying you're dating someone, then you'll only attract jerks. Save your attention for someone who's worth it.
That being said, if there aren't any worthwhile guys in your school - then wait. There's plenty of fish in the sea. And there's bound to be someone out there who loves you for everything you are. Don't be so anxious to get in a relationship. You seem like a nice girl, and I'd hate for you to get hurt.
I guess my advice is be modest, don't try too hard, and if it means that there isn't anyone worth your attention at the moment, then don't be afraid to wait. Good luck :)
(and by the way, 5'9" is fine. I'm 6'1", and that's about perfect :P)
2007-12-29 00:15:14 · answer #5 · answered by catalyst 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i totally understand you. im a sophomore and im 5'7''. all my girl friends are like 5+ inches shorter than me except one. i feel huge. ive never had a bf. the closest ive ever been to a relationship is a hug and some text messages lol. just go one day at a time. someday someone will ask you out. just be yourself and itll surprise you. good luck. :-)
2007-12-29 00:31:15 · answer #6 · answered by clαirε 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not listen to the first person sex will make matter worst. You got ask yourself what kind of guy you want once you figure that out show that person you seem interested in him. Some guys may not realize you have an interest with so they may not ask you because they may fear rejection.
2007-12-29 00:13:04 · answer #7 · answered by Alan W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on the mindset of your school, it may be because you're a freshman. Personally, I think you shouldn't worry about it. You shouldn't need guys to notice you to make you feel good! And if there's guys you have your eye on, try asking them.
2007-12-29 00:18:39 · answer #8 · answered by Cyali 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe your height MIGHT intimidate some folks but don't think so hard about it. The issue with you is flirting, some guys don't want to date girls who flirt with too many boys.
2007-12-29 00:15:32 · answer #9 · answered by BlaCK N M1LD 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to be going out. Focus on your schooling and in time you might find some one. Don't go looking, you might meet up with the wrong person. Your young, Homework should be your main concern.
2007-12-29 00:13:58 · answer #10 · answered by Bones 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure boys know you are a girl. Sounds like you are an athlete and that can be intimidating to young guys. Make sure whenever possible to dress sexy and cute and accent your best features and remind anyone that may not be sure that you are a beautiful woman that is proud of that fact. Believe me boys will notice!!!!
2007-12-29 00:11:05 · answer #11 · answered by belbiv1 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋