Family & Relationships - 28 December 2007

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also...
please note what my flaws are and what my good things are please!!!
that would really help.
i came for honesty, but please don't be super mean.
thank you!!!=D

2007-12-28 19:42:07 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-28 19:34:06 · 39 answers · asked by lizz_90_gar 1 in Singles & Dating

We are all here to celebrate the end of a rough year 2007. this year we had lots of smiles and tears. But through it all we always remained together. There is a new baby face is our family as well as faces we all miss dearly. I want to reflect back on this year from the joyous times at Orlando's(my son) baptism, to the joyous times of Xavier's birth. even the antisipation of the Mets losing there shot at the play-offs.(just for laughs) but the good times and smiles quickly faded away. as we all lost peole we dearly loved. I want to tell my son Ceasar I Love you baby boy, daddy misses you very much and you will forever stay in our hearts. My Father Victor Barrezueta there aren't enough words to describe a man that has been loved by so many. I know you are here holding my son tighly as i say this speech. watching us all as we proced in life. we love and miss you pa. 2007 will never be forgoten. All we can do is pray that 2008 is much better for us all. I love you all may god give you

2007-12-28 19:29:49 · 5 answers · asked by whoa whoa whoa! ok 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My financee and I were talking the other day, and he said that he wanted to buy a gun. For no reason, whatsoever, he wanted one. I told him that it makes me uncomfortable, and that I don't want him to buy it. Plus I don't think it's necessary.

Today, he suprises me by saying that he bought it ($300) and he said that he was not asking for my permission.

First of all, he is in incredible DEBT. And lots of it. He's been complaining about it and it pisses me off that he did that and created more debt for himself...and eventually it would be my debt since we're planning to get married in Fall of 2008. I am the one planning to pay for most of the wedding. He is spending money like it grows from a tree.
Second, he totally went against what I strongly felt about guns. I told him that I don't even want to hear a word about what I buy from now on then. Or how much money he owes.

Has anyone ever dealt with this type of situation? I needed to get this off my chest!!

2007-12-28 19:26:48 · 17 answers · asked by Sandy 4 in Weddings

How do you break the news that you want a divorce to a husband who is emotionally unstable? I fear for my safety and my familys safety if I just present the papers to him, yet I also worry about my heirlooms in my home if I just leave him. Is there any middle ground to tread on when asking him? Any way to protect my family and possesions while still telling him that I dont love him anymore?

2007-12-28 19:20:25 · 14 answers · asked by California Girl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

after 4 years of being together, and engagment ring, and baby and all the bullshit under the sun that i have stood by my man for...he turns to me, the day after christmas, 3 days before my birthday and says..."im just not that into you anymore" i have never been so hurt in my life and dont even know where to start to get over this. i hate him, and i dont hate anyone, hes says thats normal, and someday ill appreciate him for ending things...but i wont.....what the hell do i do!! im also 3000 miles away from home...and he expects me to sit here with him til i have enough money to go home, so i dont have to ask my parents for money or to move in with them....does my life get any fn worse?

2007-12-28 19:17:31 · 18 answers · asked by Teri C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been thinking about making a journal online about my recent breakup of a 20 yr. relationship. I wrote this article about a month ago, right after my birthday, when I was feeling pretty low. Do you think it's a worthy topic and a worthy start? I look forward to some feedback. Thanks.

2007-12-28 19:15:22 · 8 answers · asked by djjroberts 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband comes and goes for days especially when its payday. But always return he has a bad drug habit, when he is not doing that he is the best husband in the world. Never yells, cuss or hit me ever in the 15yrs together. Right now we are serperated and I tired not to talk to him on the phone but he keeps txting me on my cell how is hurt and sad, that he is nothing without me. He's been talking about killing himself and I'm scared since he has tired it once awhile back. He promise to change but I heard those words before. What do I do? I still love him so but can't handle being a doormate no more.

2007-12-28 19:14:30 · 18 answers · asked by mzlatina 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok... My parents have a huge house and I live in it now.. but the thing is .. I don't care. I don't care where I live. When I was in the military, I stayed in a crappy trailer home comfortably with no a/c or heat.

I'm sick and tired of people praising me because my parents have a big house. when someone comments about it.. what do I say??? My parents maybe wealthy but I'm poor and people think I'm rich because of the house.

2007-12-28 19:09:34 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Hubby and I are married for 3.5 yrs. Its his 2nd marriage +he got a child with his ex. Bout 2 yrs ago his mum, him and I had a big fall out, ending with her telling me she doesnt like me, as long as she is alive she doesnt want to see me, she wants my hubby back together with his ex. Since that day I havent seen or talked to her. I told my hubby not to push her away, after all she's still his mum but he said he doesnt have anything to say to her. Yesterday I decided to clean the basement and found a stack of letters my hubby has been receiving from his mum. They have been in contact for the last 2 yrs. They sent each other bday,xmas cards/presents, she calls him at work every week. Also I found letters from his ex. They are in contact for a while now and there is no word about me in his letters. I asked him last night if he had talked to his mum or anyone else lately, he said he hasnt heard a word from his mum in 2 yrs. I dont know what to do. It seems like he is living in two worlds.

2007-12-28 19:04:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my wife and i made a porno and now we think that it screwed up everything.

2007-12-28 19:03:44 · 5 answers · asked by mmike_18_1984 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been married for almost 3 years. I have been a faithful wife and mom. Lately I have been, wanting to have an affair. With no one in particular. I have dreams of other men and I tend to watch other men when I go out. I don't want to break my husbands heart, but I can't stop these thoughts. What is wrong with me? Why do I want to do something so drastic?

2007-12-28 19:03:42 · 8 answers · asked by Ms. Logan 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My Ex & I divorced in MN & now both Live in ND (Same City). We have split custody. Right now he has them EVERY weekend (Friday night to Monday night)They now are going to have him start paying Child support in Jan. 08. He's pretty upset about this cause he has them Almost 50% of the time.(More like Him 41%, Me 59%). He feels since we have them almost 50-50 that he should get some kind of decuction in his payments. He said if he had to pay the full amount, he wants (or needs) to reduce his visitation to Every other weekend, as he needs to get another job to pay the child support & all his other bills. I'm perfectly fine with him switching it to every other weekend but my question is:

Since we divorced in MN (thats where the child visitation was determined) do I have to go back to MN to have this changed or can I do it in ND, since thats where both of us live now. Are there any requirements to having this changed?

Any web addresses I can view would be great! Thanks

2007-12-28 19:00:40 · 1 answers · asked by Heather 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i am in relationship since 3 years.we were very good in beginning but things hav gone worse since one year.he has become very agressive n beats me and abuse me with words like ***** and all.he wants me to break relation with all my old friends n which i am unable to do,i have never heard such words ever in my whole life n never got even a slap from my parents.i feel very humiliating and ashamed of myself.i dont want to break off too since we also love each other a lot n proper committed and dedicated.but when he abuse n hit me i feel like killing myself.i feel so much hurt that i cant even face myself in mirror.i dont want to loose him.i hav often tried to talk to him calmly but he become agressive when v discuss and stop discussion.he always give one explanation for his abuse and beat tht u instigated me.i m getting frustated and lonely day by day but i cant even end my life as i hav vry lovely parents and i m only child.please help me what to do.i just want my love back.

2007-12-28 18:58:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my partner of 6years has been watching porn by himself staying up all night we are pregnant and he just shows no intrest in me but will watch porn how do i go about getting him to watch it with me when he lies about watching it,i'm not a big fan of it but if it means having to spice up our sex life with porn i dont care and the porn he is watching is on the computer help me please

2007-12-28 18:55:03 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok i've been dating this guy, We aren't going out yet but just dating. (This would be our third date so far.) Today I stopped by his place and we kinda made out, He didn't want to go any further and said he wanted to get to know me better but felt then wasn't the right time. Then as we were talking He said He didn't want to lead me on and wanted to take things slow with me. What does it mean?

2007-12-28 18:54:00 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and if someone i think is cute at lets say subway should i go up to him and start a conversation with him? help me please :)

2007-12-28 18:52:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-28 18:52:05 · 6 answers · asked by jackies1477 1 in Singles & Dating

I remember when I was14, I had this fantasy and I've always had it. I imagined being married and sharing my wife physically with other men. Watching a woman have sex and be extremely into getting/giving pleasure is so arousing for me. I'm 24 now, and I am happily married. I love her to death, and vice versa. Foot massages in front of the tv after work, little surprises, passionate sex. Seeing the only woman in my life so turned on and into giving/receiving pleasure with me and even other men is insanely arousing, I can't stop thinking about watching her have sex with someone else.

It's not that I don't want to have sex with her, she's the greatest and our love live is tops, but it's just disappointing that my #1 desire isn't being fulfilled. I don't want any other women.

Women, if you were in a relationship that was wonderful for 4 years and counting, and your man shared this fantasy(although not asking you to do anything), how would you respond?

2007-12-28 18:51:05 · 6 answers · asked by Chris S 2 in Marriage & Divorce

they r fix maariage have to follow their elders ??/ anyone....??/help.....

2007-12-28 18:51:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

like would you rather have a girl that a size 0 or a size 4? does it really matter to u guys?

2007-12-28 18:51:03 · 9 answers · asked by Kristina 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-28 18:50:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

How many Dads are realy trying to make payments to stay afloat , and how many Moms are blowing the $$$ on coke. Is this a county isuse. Or a forgotten isuse.
Power to the Dads.
Were trying our best. Fokin Be- och.

2007-12-28 18:49:54 · 5 answers · asked by six 4 in Family

My dad makes annoying jokes which are not funny at all, sorta like the kind of jokes a 6 year old would make, to me and my sister (we are 12 and 8). It gets me so p*ssed off when a friend comes over and he starts cracking these types of jokes. How can I (nicely) tell him to stop?

2007-12-28 18:49:11 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I got back from my first semester at college earlier this month and my mother had noticed that I put on some weight- about ten pounds. It really doesn't bother me, since I still fit in all of my clothes and don't think of 120 as overweight at all. Still, it really seems to bother her. She's always noting that I look like I've gained weight and whenever I eat she points out what's not healthy about it. It's not like she's calling me fat- but it's really bothering me.
Once she realized that telling me that I've gained weight hasn't caused me to change my eating habbits, she's gone as far as to get rid of all the snack food in the house and only allow me one meal a day.
How can I tell her that she's acting crazy without making her upset? Do you think she's out of line as well, or is it just me? I know that I only have to deal with her a few more weeks, but it's really bothering me.

2007-12-28 18:46:56 · 6 answers · asked by Meana 2 in Family

2007-12-28 18:40:46 · 9 answers · asked by ladyheart 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He's 7,and he pitches a fit if he does not get his way or if things don't go his way.

2007-12-28 18:40:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i'm like a guy at my school .He so smart and cute.Sometime he act like he like me but sometime he not.HE always shy at front of me.So i'm wonder that is he like me or not.If he do like me plzz tell me how to make him say he like me

2007-12-28 18:38:34 · 30 answers · asked by prenessiks 2 in Singles & Dating

Its fun for some reason.

2007-12-28 18:38:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I hate going to family functions,holiday get-togethers or any large family social settings.I dread the thought of them,and I get nervous and I sweat,feel uncomfortable during this time.Any formal occasion where you see relatives after a long time,I will fake being sick to get out of them.I can remember feeling this way since childhood.What is this condition called?

2007-12-28 18:37:12 · 7 answers · asked by TomatoMug 3 in Other - Family & Relationships