Family & Relationships - 28 December 2007

2007-12-28 17:05:12 · 6 answers · asked by Nice isn't it 1 in Marriage & Divorce

"Having a great time. Wish you were her."

2007-12-28 17:01:23 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

how can i convince them to give me an allowance

2007-12-28 16:58:19 · 5 answers · asked by pdc5200 4 in Family

Ive asked my sister to babysit for me tonight but she has said no twice already. Should I push it and ask again?!?!

2007-12-28 16:58:00 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I been dating this girl for 5 months now, my feelings for her are strong I love her. But there is something,that's been bothering me lately. I'm the romantic type. I like spending my time with her alone. Sometimes, it doesnt bother me much if im with her friends as well... but,we're totally different.I'm the type that always wants to talk to her, we live an hour apart.so i dont see her as much as i would hope for.I'm affectionate. She's not.Understandable.I've always wanted to be the person she is,doesnt show emotions, cares, but doesnt make it obvious to her the world, just her.But i cant be, ihave a few issues,she's asked me to change my ways if i want to keep her around.meaning being less emotional, calling less, giving her space.I agree,but is it wrong to ask me to change the way i am?should i continue with this relationship or calling it quits? Ive always wanted to be the person she wants me to be though, I just been having a hard time becoming it =\ help!?!?

2007-12-28 16:57:25 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, are wedding reception will be 50-60 people at Japanese Restaurant... we both drink, along with all our friends, but no one in my family drinks and just a few relatives in his family drink a glass of wine or so...

So should we just go no alcohol? I don't want it to look like all the young people are drinking and the "adults" are not... plus don't want to make my family uncomfortable.

2007-12-28 16:57:04 · 11 answers · asked by *ae* 3 in Weddings

me and my ex didn't ever really get along after we had our son. And now he's four months old are we haven't been together since he was about 2 1/2 months old. He cheated on me in January, i stole 20 dollars from him in November.... But he broke up with me for that but for some reason i stayed with him after i found out he cheated. But for some reason i feel like i need him. He's dating the girl he cheated on me with, he doesn't buy our son anything now, he was always emotionally abusive in some ways. Like calling me retarded for little things, calling me whore, slut, ***** ect. And was always accusing me of cheating when i never did and he was. And i want to know why i still have feeling for him?? I dont really want to but its extremely confusing!!!! HELP!!!!!!!

2007-12-28 16:55:02 · 9 answers · asked by Kirby 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been dating my boyfriend for 5 months in total. We had a 6 month break that I initiated and got back together in October.
I recently (at Christmas) told him "I love you" I am a virgin waiting for marriage but I am very attracted to my boyfriend
we've laid in bed together once for a few minutes (on my single bed) that turned into him going through the motions of sex while we were both fully-clothed (he was on top of me) I stopped it before it got hot and heavy. Yesterday we were talking about marriage casually and my roommate asked if we were getting married, he said hopefully one day. I wasn't surprised by this. We've casually talked about kids too, I know he's the one but how do I get him to slow down? He left, then called me later and said he was looking at diamond rings how do I get him to slow down without turning him away because I know I want to be with him but I'm somewhat worried that he's doing all this because he wants sex and knows we won't have it till we're married

2007-12-28 16:54:00 · 15 answers · asked by <> <3 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-28 16:52:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i just fought with my boyfriend like real big problem..what should i do??

2007-12-28 16:49:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

when it's the right time to tell someone you love them?

2007-12-28 16:49:36 · 15 answers · asked by Tara 7 in Singles & Dating

We are married, but we've been separated since a week after I found out that I was pregnant (July of this yr). He left and since he has never tried to contact me for any reason, even though he acknowledge that this is his child (100% sure). Recently, I learned that he moved to a different state, to North Carolina, as a permanent duty station (he's in the Army). We have not signed a legal separation agreement, which is not required, because what he's been trying to do is avoid his financial and any other kind of responsibility. He even asked the Army to release him from spousal support and it was granted to him because I make 15K more than he does a year... (Yes, they suck!).

So now I am considering not putting his name on the birth certificate when my daughter is born due in March. How will that affect his rights and responsabilities?? Can I still file for child support? Even through the military?

Please advice.

Oh, and for the record, he left after an argument about his x-box!!

2007-12-28 16:48:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was out with one of my girlfriends tonight and some drunk guys asked us to do something wild and crazy and lifted up the sweater I was wearing and shook my chest, keep in mind I did have on a tank top underneath, and my friend went on and on about how embarassed she was by what I did! But I didn't think it was a big deal! But she said it was obscene and that she's never going anywhere with me again! But it wasn't that bad was it?

2007-12-28 16:47:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-12-28 16:42:43 · 10 answers · asked by brandi e 1 in Family

hope someone can help me i want out of my marriage because he cheating on me he take my money and other thing he leave me home all time except when i meed to go to the store or doctors i lost my daughter because of him .sure hope someone can tell me what to do he draw a gun on me he said if i leave he will kill me ...

2007-12-28 16:39:36 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-28 16:39:32 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I moved to another city almost a year ago and my brother said I can stay with him and his family. And now he has kicked me out! He says it's because me and his 12 year old daughter couldn't get along and I was a bad influence on his 6 year old daughter, who really likes me. I mean it's true me and the 12 year old didn't get along, and usually I just wave off her sassiness but the other day she really bugged me and we got into it. I didn't curse her or anything like that but it was an intense argument. He says I'm a bad influence on his six year old because I let her do yoga and things with me and she always dresses like me in jogging pants and a sports bra, and she likes going shopping with me and my friends and we talk about all kinds of things that she goes back and tells her parents about, I'll admit some of the things aren't approriate. when he kicked me out I called my mom in Baltimore and now she's mad at him and refuses to talk to him and he blames me. is it really my fault?

2007-12-28 16:38:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Did your ex look better than your now bf/gf or husband/wife? And do you compare their looks? Or does it not matter at all?

I'm just curious to see how many people compare their current significant other to their ex.

Thanks!

2007-12-28 16:35:19 · 14 answers · asked by Virginia 3 in Marriage & Divorce

well i had a wrestling match today which is the last match my brother would be able to make it to before he gets deployed jan. 1st (hes in the marines)

and he's only made it two since he's been home and the first i didnt have a match

but this match i gave it my all and beat a pretty good kid, who was 10 pounds heavier than me, and almost everyone else on the team lost, but i kept thinking about my brother and won, he wrestled all through school so he really supports me wrestling, we're really close and he's kinda like my dad cuz he's pretty much raised me

do you guys think it changed the the way he feels or thinks about getting deployed?

cuz i wanted to make him proud before he left =)

2007-12-28 16:34:50 · 1 answers · asked by Future Marine 3 in Family

Im 24, i had 5 gf before.. and a dozens of flings.. now i'm single.. i have my own business.. and my health is perfect..

but now i feel lonely.. and i think im old.. and that i might be able to find the girl of my dreams.. am i old to be a single? how old does guys usually get married?

2007-12-28 16:32:59 · 8 answers · asked by deadmeat 3 in Singles & Dating

my partners 20yr old son lives with us and causes problems which result in my partner and i falling out.his son never takes any notice of what is asked of him,goes out drinking weekends and doesnt bother letting us know he wont be coming home and stays out all night,does nothing to help out even though his dad recovering from hip replacement,his bedroom is a tip,in a weeks time he is in crown court on a 6day trial for gbh has broken his cewfew every day,in the 6yrs he has lived in my house he has destroyed 5doors through temper.his dad keeps giving him chance after chance but it does cause friction between us because his son just walks all over us,what do i do?

2007-12-28 16:32:07 · 11 answers · asked by bev k 1 in Family

but as I've said, he "sneaks" them now and then because I've caught him...He said it "calms his nerves from work". How it does that, I don't know, but I am not a smoker. But there are healthier ways to calm your nerves, so to speak. I do not approve of smoking, it disgusts me, but mostly it truly is me being concerned about what it is doing to his health. Then he comes home and has the nerve to take vitamins!!! I had to chuckle at that one....you're smoking, but then you are taking vitamins! May as well throw those vitamins down the drain...But my question was really this....despite the fact that he is sneaking smoking, he is a very good man in every other way, more than anyone could ever ask for....I know this for a fact. I just wanted to know people's opinions on whether is should kind of "overlook" this flaw and hope he really quits for his own sake, given that he is a very good person otherwise. Or should I refuse to give in, and risk losing a good person over one thing?

2007-12-28 16:27:19 · 31 answers · asked by sheri 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-28 16:24:40 · 6 answers · asked by tigerb29209 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Hello everyone

I just have to run this by someone and I thought you guy might have some insights.

Okay, here we go

I am 26 and I met a girl, she's in university and pretty young 20. We met up, I made it clear that I was looking for a serious relationship (GF/BF situation) she said ok but she wants to get to know each other. That's great!

I did my best to be a gentleman, we had fun, never any pressure, went out on some dates. Now here it is:

I went away for Christmas, we communicated by email. I told her and I quote: "I like you and I have missed you."

I guess that was a mistake, she went werid. Said she was afraid I would force here to move faster then she wanted and she didn't have those feelings. I reassured her that it's cool, I don't want to push her and I didn't expect anything.

I guess she wasn't into me cause she won't even see me or talk to me as a friend anymore. I am very sad about it cause I did really like her and she was everything I wanted. Opinions?

2007-12-28 16:22:14 · 25 answers · asked by Karce 4 in Singles & Dating

My bpyfriend for three yrs wants to go out New Years Eve with his cousin. We always ring in the new year together and he knows i cant go to a club because i'm 7 months pregnant with our son.

I asked him why he cant stay with me for new years eve and he satd he wants to go out.

2007-12-28 16:20:51 · 7 answers · asked by Jasmine 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay,

There is this girl that I REALLY like, she is in my grade and my school, and school is back in like next week. This girl likes me the same way I like her, but she says she doesn't want a boyfriend right now. I asked her a question like "What would you say to me if I asked you out like right now ?" And then she said what's up there ^^^^ .. And with this added: "But I'd also kinda like to get to know you a little better" .. We knew each other like since school went back from summer but haven't really talked up until this month and we talked A LOT since. What I am asking is, she likes me, I like her, she doesn't want a boyfriend RIGHT NOW, should I ask her out like a few days after school goes back ? Please tell me me what you think. Thank you and have a god day :)

2007-12-28 16:20:13 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-28 16:19:41 · 36 answers · asked by BreeAnn 3 in Marriage & Divorce

all we do is fight, we hardly ever see each other anymore. date night will be good for us, just once a week. so, tonight i was getting ready for my date to pick me up and my husband freaked! why are men like this? we agreed on once a week friday date nights and now he doesn't like it? he said we should date each other...wtf??? we're married...we don't date! how should i handle this?

2007-12-28 16:18:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We got a new puppy for Christmas and Mr. Tough man is curled up on the couch with the basset hound in his lap:) I never expected to see MY husband sleeping with a puppy:)

What has your spouse done that caught you by surprise?

2007-12-28 16:17:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

please, this is a serious issue don't be giving rude answers! just help if you can!

2007-12-28 16:17:51 · 21 answers · asked by whatever............ 1 in Family