Family & Relationships - 28 December 2007

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2007-12-28 17:49:21 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My ex gf is 17 and I was her 3rd boyfriend...is that normal or is she an "early bloomer" or what?

2007-12-28 17:47:45 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Have you ever truly loved someone in your heart, but were too scared they would say no, and you would lose your friendship, and you never told them? I have, and I've wondered everyday if He was the one..

2007-12-28 17:43:43 · 13 answers · asked by Jen 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-28 17:43:23 · 6 answers · asked by Lynn 2 in Singles & Dating

i have/had a wonderful girlfriend she is 4 yrs older than me and is divorced wit a kid i luv them both so very very much but her ex husband cums around and its hard to coop wit it ive had the best sluts and the best back stabbin friends that i have a very hard trustin and not thinkin literaily wantd to think sumthin is goin on cuz he cumz around mostly while im at work and she is still sorta close to him she doesnt want him she wants me but i cant help but believe their messin around behind my bac cuz ive never had a good trust worthy girlfriend plz help

2007-12-28 17:40:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've been married for a little over 5 years and have 2 beautiful children , my son is almost 3 and my daughter is 18 months, I speak of them because they are my main concern. I don't want to mess them up. I am and have been very unhappy in this relationship for a long time. He knows somewhat but really if he payed attention would know completely. I am planning on leaving within the next 4 months or so, the reason I have not told him is because I am going in for Bariatric surgery in amonth or so and need the insurance. I also know this will be a rough time and want there to be as much normalcy as possible for the kids. I do feel extremely guilty about not telling him what my plans are but don't know what else to do. We have had problems in the past and things will get better for a while but than it just goes back to the same old crap. I do care about him and feel bad but I know I have to leave for the sake of my own sanity. What is the best way to handle this and make kids be ok?

2007-12-28 17:39:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-28 17:39:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So I have the chance to go to Africa to help out an orphanage and go on a safari for 2 weeks with a well-known service group. The thing is I am 16 years old, and my mom is uneasy and basically telling me I can't go because she is the biggest worrier you will ever come across. This is something I am incredibly passionate and serious about but she doesn't believe me! I want to go more than anything in the world, and I am a responsible young adult. Any suggestions on convincing her that the world is not out to get me and rest assured there will be no civil war?!?

2007-12-28 17:37:38 · 2 answers · asked by qwert w 1 in Family

When I turned 18. my moms best friend called me and said she had a gift for me, I wnet over she was wearing a teddy, and she seduced me this was my first time having sex should I tell my mom?

2007-12-28 17:37:20 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

loosen up a bit ladies !?!

do you remember this song "saying what you gonna do to me, but i see nothing !" -***** cat dolls , -buttons

total, TRICK, Bull$H*T song.

2007-12-28 17:31:45 · 6 answers · asked by Elijah C 2 in Singles & Dating

i don't know if i am or not. i feel kind of foolish asking this question when no one here actually knows me but whatev. when i think about her i can't help but smile, i think about her almost all the time... from when i wake up til when i go to bed. we've talked about everything, we've shared our secrets. she told me i am her best friend and she loves me. somehow i am still unsure. does this mean it's not love? i don't think realisticly she could actually love me as much as she says. maybe like, but not love. i am a bad person with a nightmare of a past and i don't think she really loves me. does she love me? do i love her? what should i do?

2007-12-28 17:30:21 · 34 answers · asked by Frog Smith 1 in Singles & Dating

my fiance has two kids with someone else but she and her kids live with me .and she is still married an the daddy dont pay nothin for the kids .i pay for everthing so can i claim the kids ?

2007-12-28 17:27:20 · 5 answers · asked by LIZETTE 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-28 17:26:49 · 14 answers · asked by ¸.•*´`*•.¸ ℓανєη∂єr ¸.•*´`*•.¸ 6 in Marriage & Divorce

My dad was supposed to watch my uncles two children, but he has to work third shift so I offered to fill in for him and I won't get paid. The kids are both boys; ages 2 1/2 and almost 5. I will be watching them at my aunt and uncles house for almost 6 hours. The thing is, both children are very active and need constant attention. I am afraid that I might not be able to give them the attention they both need since they both can walk. Does that make any sense? I would hate for something to go wrong after having these feelings knowing I didn't think I could handle it.

I'm almost 15 and have taken multiple courses for childcare. Does it sound like a reasonable request to ask my uncle & aunt if I could bring a trusted friend, whom they can approve, to help me? How do I ask without them getting the feeling that I have no clue what I am doing?

2007-12-28 17:25:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Friends of my parents live about 10 blocks from us. Since they are away most of the time at their other house, they said my and my two sisters can use the pool in their backyard.

The problem is, since they are not home, their house is locked. This means we can't get to the bathroom when we need to pee. It's too far and too cold to run all the way back to our house.

Could we pee in the yard somewhere (it is fenced for good privacy) or even in the pool?

2007-12-28 17:22:05 · 30 answers · asked by Sandra F 1 in Family

2007-12-28 17:22:00 · 45 answers · asked by tricky 3 in Friends

I know someone who was very upset about this, and felt that it was a snub & an insult to have the information unrevealed.

2007-12-28 17:21:54 · 11 answers · asked by Solusia 5 in Family

i can not decide please help me.

2007-12-28 17:21:44 · 7 answers · asked by Lifo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

There's this boy. He's just a friend. His b-day's coming up soon and I have nooo idea at all what to give him. He's very nice to me and I wanted to give him something. But I really don't know what. There's really nothing between us, though. Please help? :\

2007-12-28 17:21:38 · 5 answers · asked by CoKi 1 in Friends

I have this girl. She a few years younger than me and I have grown to love her. I had to leave her to come home to get some things together so I can bring her out here to live with me, her and her baby. Now after saying shes in love with me and all, now shes is saying she doesnt know what she wants. I am pissed. Why now she is acting like this?

2007-12-28 17:21:24 · 6 answers · asked by kirkthegame 1 in Singles & Dating

Seriously! If someone "Cheats" on you, what is it exactly that you have been cheated out of? If he/she's cheating as you all call it, then that means he or she came back home to you. You didnt lose them! So what is it exactly that you were "Cheated out of?" hhhmmmmm?? Oh I cant wait to see the responces to this one ha!

2007-12-28 17:21:00 · 19 answers · asked by I Love Me a Freakin Good Burrito 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 14, and I want to ask this girl out to a movie over the winter break, but I only have her cell phone number.

Is it ok to text her and ask her to the movie, or should I try to call her and ask her out?

2007-12-28 17:19:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-28 17:18:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-28 17:18:04 · 8 answers · asked by mallory a 1 in Family

I need to use one on this one hot chick

2007-12-28 17:14:56 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im 12 years old My parents both work 70 hours a week we live finacially gifted i love xbox live and my computer.i also love to play sports but all my friends wont come out to play they all wanna play video games i used to take karate lessons i was almost black belt and i was extremly goodI have adhd i quit it got boring so i ask my mom to let me do another sport she wont let me because i quit going to karate and i had a three year contracti went from stud to fatand a geek my parents work so hard and im thankful...but in the end they are selfish they buy me things to keep my occupied then theytry and spend time with me and they dont realy know me so i cant do it al they talk about is work so i get bored and go back to my games my mom trys to spend time with me but evrytime she makes a mistake or i do she blames me for avrything she thinks shes always right my dad and i praticlly hate each other
my mom even blames me for her not knowing me for f*** sake
i want to be close with my family

2007-12-28 17:13:13 · 2 answers · asked by daltino_yal 2 in Family

will children and youth place me in foster care even though I have a place that I can live for the next year and a half (they are not a relative)...does anyone know what will happen

2007-12-28 17:12:38 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

We virtually have nothing in common except our lovemaking and we usually enjoy the same type of food. He is into playing video games, poker(he actulally wins more than he loses). I am not at all interested in the things that he is interested in. We seldom do things together. We will go walking or hiking about once a month. We watch TV together and have political discussions but I am a believer in Christ and he is agnostic. He only relies on science and I rely more on my faith. I tried to stay away from him b/c he was not a believer but we both missed each other so much we couldn't stand it. I have been going with him for 3 years. How will we ever have the like purpose that a committed couple should share? I know nothing else to do but to keep praying.

2007-12-28 17:11:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hi there,
I am newly separated and think it is normal to miss my husband even he acted very immature. Is it? Both of us have to much pride to make that first approach, When he left (he is from Europe) he said not to give up on our marriage yet, and sent me a couple short e-mails. I know his is suffering like me, but won't admit. I on another hand don't want to be a doormat and can't forgive him or leaving during the Chritmas time, he could easily rent a room in a hotel not run to mum and dad when things get tough. I am missing him, but I don't think I want to keep in touch with him at least for now. I know you have to work things out in your marriage, but him running away for the second time
doesn't leave me with too much trust in this man.
How can I deal with my problem?

2007-12-28 17:08:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband sees the negative all the time, whereas I see positives everywhere.
We are in financial trouble, and he gets so down about it. Whereas I am happy we have a roof over our heads, and we can eat everynight.

He grew up with elderly parents and was handed everything, and I lived on the streets after giving up my two children at 18. I now have 2 other children, whom I am greatful for. One is sick and has had 22 surgeries and the other has ADHD and Autism.

I've been pretty sick this last year, and I try to to let him know when I'm having a bad day.

I guess my question is how to I change his thinking, to make things better around the house, because when he gets in his bad moods, he yells at everyone and is so frustrated, because we both work so hard. How do I get him to see that things could be worse, that we could be living on the streets with nothing.
I just would like the happy husband back

2007-12-28 17:06:46 · 10 answers · asked by todamnlovable 2 in Marriage & Divorce