I have this girl. She a few years younger than me and I have grown to love her. I had to leave her to come home to get some things together so I can bring her out here to live with me, her and her baby. Now after saying shes in love with me and all, now shes is saying she doesnt know what she wants. I am pissed. Why now she is acting like this?
2007-12-28 17:21:24 · 6 answers · asked by kirkthegame 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because she doesn't love you, she is just looking for someone to take care of her baby.
2007-12-28 17:25:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Friend:
you have 2 choices :
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first as everyone answer look at the situation in a negetive way which would only hurt you
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she is with someone else and she is looking for someone to take care of her baby
= generally answer that ppl would give u, you simply can scrowl down and see what are the negative ways
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my advice to you is let the negative point of view would be ur last view coz the only person u would hurt deeply is you
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THE SECOND PHASE-
you can look at this in a positive way but yet not so positive coz nothing is positive about ur situation but undrestandable
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Dear Friend:
by moving from one place to another u are changing the phase in ur realationship and she is just not ready for it specially she is heart broken from the last realationship she had so this would scare her a bit
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u have to tell her :
U are a grown woman now explain ur situation and tell her why you have to go back to ur home town and how long u would stay there (if you know how long ) and tell her it is hard for u to let go and leave her so this is why u are asking her to come with u and whenever she feels that she doese not want to be there she can comes back this is a granty u can give her
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my last advice to you is try to not to love someone so u would be in this situation
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good luck
little john
2007-12-28 18:40:15 · answer #2 · answered by LittlE JohN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She must b feeling bit low fr some reason...
Give her some time show ur support if she feels emotional. She will be fine after sometime.
2007-12-28 17:25:00 · answer #3 · answered by ChipnDale 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
show more love to her baby not her remember. do like this automatically she will have you
2007-12-28 17:31:11 · answer #4 · answered by rajeshp_rp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is another man horning in on your girl.
2007-12-28 17:25:07 · answer #5 · answered by C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might be scared.
Try to comfort her as much as possible.
Make her feel secure around you.
Show her that youll protect her AND her baby.
Hope I helped.
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2007-12-28 17:30:11 · answer #6 · answered by Baby<3Britt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋