I know someone who was very upset about this, and felt that it was a snub & an insult to have the information unrevealed.
2007-12-28 17:21:54 · 11 answers · asked by Solusia 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
The son told the mother, but she did not tell 2 of her siblings, & the son didnt tell them either.
2007-12-29 01:51:49 · update #1
I agree fully with nightrid , how do we no whats gone on within the family unit, maybe the son asked his mother not to say for his own reasons , i can also see the upset it coused , but there is always a reason for things
2007-12-28 18:40:42 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say there is a reason behind it and that the other person should probably mind there own business. Most people tell of marriage b/c it is a joyous occasion but for someone not too that means something is wrong there. Maybe the mom is upset about his choice of partner or maybe it brings up bad memories (like she wasn't invited) I defiantly wouldn't take it as a snub unless she told everybody else and didn't tell you.
2007-12-29 01:38:04 · answer #2 · answered by Bilinda G 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some things are better left unsaid.
The person who felt snubbed is the one with the problem. She could have been happy and gave a card or a small gift, something that showed she cared.
2007-12-29 01:32:07 · answer #3 · answered by bin there dun that 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd think they had a reason not to blab & it's no one else's business. why should we know everything about everyone? & why should someone be upset at not being told, does he/she tell the family all their business? people are allowed to keep their own council & it would be so much better if we all did more of it. diane.
2007-12-29 09:24:36 · answer #4 · answered by diquarry 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not enough info to judge that one....did the son not tell the mother or did the mother not tell the family that her son got married?
2007-12-29 03:11:27 · answer #5 · answered by nelhel96 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If my son got married and had a child, i might not tell everyone.
If my son wants everyone to know he got married, i'm sure he will tell everyone. It's his marriage not mine.
People who believe they have to know everything, are busy bodies... that's my take on it.
2007-12-29 01:33:23 · answer #6 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that the person who is hiding this from family etc either is a shamed or has something to hide!!
2007-12-29 05:23:30 · answer #7 · answered by kinkyze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps this person did something to the one who never told them about it and they haven't talked for a long time.No one is obligated to tell anyone anything about their lives.It their business and can tell who ever they do or don't want to.
2007-12-29 01:26:23 · answer #8 · answered by Janell T 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
do you know the full reason , do you know what the person has been through with there family, nether do i , i can only imagine that there is some fude and they just do not want the family knowing. +++++++++++++++++++++++
2007-12-29 01:27:11 · answer #9 · answered by mr perfect 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would think she raised a bum because he should have been the one to tell everyone...
2007-12-29 01:26:14 · answer #10 · answered by CK 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋