Family & Relationships - 28 December 2007

what do you do if you walk in on youre bf making out with one of youre best friends???

ive dated matt for about a year, i think. ON/OFF!
but now it seems like its changed everything, and i have no idea what to do?

what to say to either of them?
belive them; wen they say they wer drunk?
and idk wat to do on NEW YEARS either!?????

2007-12-28 01:11:33 · 56 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my daughter is still having a hard time adsjusting to her biological dad whom she hasn't seen since she was three and now she is six. she cries and screams and yells that she doesn't want to see them. i have to carry her to meet him because of a court order. she inisists that he hates her and i haven't had the heart to tell her that he has two boys and a wife. when she was three he was married and had one child but she doesn't remember anything from three years ago including him. he wants to meet her with his parents and wife.when i was pregnant with her for the first six months of her life he ignored her then he became a part of her life. when she was three we had a huge argument and i broke off contact with him and we moved out of the country don't live n the USit is my fault that she hasn't seen her dad. recently i was in court and the judge demanded that he be allowed to see her or i lose custody I am also afriad that we will end up arguing in front of her. we can't get along

2007-12-28 01:07:45 · 8 answers · asked by Hmmmmmm 3 in Family

I have question related to my last question of still being in love with my Ex wife (after 2 years). We talk all the time and get along great, but I have been telling her for over a year that I want her back and have changed who I am for her. Although she occasionally entertains the idea, she has not changed, she still has a boy friend and she rarely lets me in on her deep feelings. I’ve decided to try to move on and start dating, but after a few dates and telling the truth about my Ex, the relationship evaporated. I don’t want any women to be hurt like I have, but I can’t stop loving my Ex wife, but she is not coming back. Two years seems like a long time to wait. So is it wrong to date someone else? The issue is everyone I’ve met seems to want to fall fast and hard, I feel conflicted. Any advice?

2007-12-28 01:02:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am going to be going to court soon and will be representing myself, got any helpful infromation.

2007-12-28 01:01:55 · 17 answers · asked by luv_doesnt_hurt_lies_do 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-28 00:57:08 · 15 answers · asked by Aquamarine 5 in Singles & Dating

His Father took him, but by Gods' mercy, I got him back. I had a warrant for assault and the sherriff picked him up, he let his Girlfriend with him, and she didn't want him and took him to his Grandmother. She called me to pick him up, only to set meup to jump me, and while I was in the driveway, he snuck out and got on the car with me. I have him, but am worried his Dad, who by law can, will come forhim. What can I do to stop this? Someone please help me!

2007-12-28 00:54:45 · 12 answers · asked by Brenda B 1 in Family

Okay so please I don't need mean comments so if you are going to do that please leave. I am so not in the mood. I'll let you know the question before the entire story "If they press charges, who would win?"

Okay so my mom and I got into a fight. She was yelling and calling me things like ugly, unpopular, no social life, etc. My grandma came in and started yelling random things at me too when she didn't even know about the fight. SHe told me to go upstairs and I said no, clearly she has no authority even if she is older. She came over and both of them tried to push me up the stairs. Obivoiusly, a 41 and 70 year old can't push a 12 year old up stairs. My grandma grabbed my neck and started to pull on it. I really could't breath and I got out and turned around. She was right up in my face. I said "Do not ever put your hands on me like that again.". My mom told my aunt the entire story, which I thought was mean, and my aunt said that she would try to press charges.

2007-12-28 00:52:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-12-28 00:42:36 · 30 answers · asked by kas150 2 in Family

I have been married for 3 years. I'm 27 and my husband is 26. we argue a lot about small things (things we shouldn't be arguing about) I love him a lot but I i am beginning to dislike him because of the arguing. I don't know what to do. I don't have a question, just need advice on how to make my marriage better without the arguing. I don't want to divorce him over this I love him, just want things better. (we argue over who should get out the car first, were I want to eat at if i don't cook at home, what numbers we want to play for pick 3, why i keep the house too clean, why I have to clean the house so much everyday, why I take 2 sometimes 3 baths a day (I like to smell good), and on and on.) We both work. He works 65 hours a week, i work 35 hours a week, the sex is great we have sex like 4 or 5 times a week. I just don't understand the arguments.

2007-12-28 00:38:39 · 30 answers · asked by LivingMyLife 5 in Marriage & Divorce

mine would be, faithful, hardworking and mine

2007-12-28 00:36:54 · 57 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've been with my husband for 8 years, 7 of which were mentally, verbally and physically abusive. I've left him several times and everytime he convinces me to come back home. I usually come back because of our daughter and because finances won't permit me to live on my own. Every time I come back home, it gets better. He has stopped hitting me and his verbal assaults are at an all time low, but the truth is that I hate him! He doesn't seem to understand why. He feels that since he's gotten better that the situation as a whole should be better and we should just forgive and forget. I can't forget. I just can't! The situation hasn't gotten better, I've just gotten strong enough to let him know I won't take this anymore. Every time I look at him being so nice to me I want to vomit. I don't want to make it work and he just doesn't get it. He blames my attitude on my job, on us not spending enough time together and me being un-organized. Everything but him. I just want to leave safely. HELP

2007-12-28 00:35:46 · 9 answers · asked by Eileen 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-28 00:34:48 · 5 answers · asked by Phillip K 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i thought the job was more important. i weighed my odds, and i honestly thought the job would be more important to my life. i was wrong. i lost her and i've aced everything i've touched since. but i've never been happy since. don't ever go for the money or the job. just stay with the girl and make a family. nothing else matters ok

2007-12-28 00:33:26 · 10 answers · asked by steveo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My son is 5 years old and ive been with my partner for 2 years. My son's dad died when he was 2 years old so never really knew him.

My partner and my son share a great bond and he's a great dad, he also has a biological son of his own

This morning however, my partner snapped at my son, not aggressively,just firm but it really upset my son as he hasn't done it before. I must admit, i was suprised too so was just wondering,do any other mums feel as though a partner has the right to tell off their children ?

2007-12-28 00:32:55 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Were you happy with what you chose, or did you hear something later you wished you would have gone with?

2007-12-28 00:29:19 · 21 answers · asked by ○•○•Cassie•○•○ 6 in Weddings

Please help me... I have a SIL who is very manipulative, vendictive and lies a lot! She's a complete back stabber to the nth degree! She has a harsh personality and makes it virturally impossible to get along with her. I hung in there for as long as I could, that is until my hubby and I became pregnant w/ our first child (who is now 4 1/2 months old). She was SO jealous, that she vented to my brother, her hubby, about how much she HATED me for getting pregnant... rather than celebrating the joy in it. My brother has since come around, however, only to an extent. I offered him to be my baby's Godfather and he refused THREE times! His wife told him, "Don't you DARE go down there and support her and her BABY!" WTF? She is saying many bad things about me and my daughter and I'm tired of it. I told her she's not welcome in my house. I feel like the relationship w/ my bro is completely over. Since all is lost, how do I sever ties w/ him until he finally leaves the beast? Help me!!

2007-12-28 00:23:23 · 8 answers · asked by Leanna's mom 3 in Family

2007-12-28 00:20:07 · 11 answers · asked by icy_blur 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been married 7 years and have 1 child with him,but i have not seen him for 5 and a half years.

2007-12-28 00:16:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

they only do thing when they need something. she tries to get a attiutude with me for everything,but says nothing to kids breaking rules and running her life she's the mom

2007-12-28 00:14:44 · 15 answers · asked by taj m 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend is deeply in love with me. But I fall in and out of love with him, and I don't feel comfortable around him. I am young and I don't feel ready for true love. I can't sleep or eat because I worry about how I'm making the wrong decision by staying with him. He has come to visit me (he lives 100s miles away) and I don't want to see him. Should I break up with him? And should I do it while he is still in town or over the phone after he goes home? Please respond soon because I have to see him today.

2007-12-28 00:12:02 · 25 answers · asked by ilovecoffee22 1 in Singles & Dating

Charlie and the Chocolate Factory, Corspe Bride, and the new Sweeney Todd. He likes Musicals, does this mean he is gay?

2007-12-28 00:10:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I got engaged very recently and planned to get married in 2 months. My would be is very nice loving girl.
Prior to marriage, I was in love with my college mate for nearly 2 yrs. But the relationship was fully emotional never intimate phyically. We might have kissed each other a couple of times but never went beyond this. But somehow the relationship did not materialise.
I want to disclose all this to my 'would be' to be absolutely honest in my behaviour. But I am not sure what her reaction would be. I know falling in love is not a sin and I am sure it happens most of us but I am really worried about the kissing thing. I am not sure how she'll take it even though what I see around, it is very common.
Is it also a sin to kiss a girl you love ? Would my 'would be' pardon me...

2007-12-28 00:09:27 · 19 answers · asked by Jim C 2 in Weddings

my husband has to get up at 5am everyday for work and i don't have to get up till 6:30 and ends up laying thier for like 20mins after the alarm goes off and i have to stay up so he wont go back to sleep what a jerk

2007-12-28 00:08:25 · 17 answers · asked by dirt77 3 in Marriage & Divorce

OK so this is 5 diffrent hotties and we all have deffrent stories so dont think im messed up... im 5 people eaach totaly diffrent

2007-12-28 00:02:46 · 3 answers · asked by Hot Mamma 1 in Singles & Dating