Family & Relationships - 28 December 2007

My ex and I broke up this summer, before he went away to college. We still talk quite a bit, hang out almost every time he's home, and he's even kissed me a few times. I think he just can't decide what he wants right now(i think college is like that for everyone), but we have such a good time together.

Is it possible to make him regret breaking up with me and want to get back together? How do I get him to miss me?

2007-12-28 05:07:20 · 2 answers · asked by lkh 2 in Singles & Dating

I am extremely bored at work today!!! Someone help me.

2007-12-28 05:06:57 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I work reception in a small office and once a week, we have our mats changed at the front. The guy that does it is really nice and super cute. All I ever say is hi, sign the form and run away like saying I need to do something. I talk more to the hot UPS guy but even though he's hot, he's not my type so it's easier to talk to him.

I want to talk to the guy who changes the mats and find out his name. I looked on the form I sign but all there is, is an emplyee number for who delivered it.

I'm super shy but I really want to talk to him. What do I say?

2007-12-28 05:06:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need to go back to work because my family really needs the extra income. However, I have 4-year gap in my employment. It seems as though employers view this as the equivalent to having the plague. Because my children are ages 11, 7, and 5, I am looking for something flexible. I am not looking to be a CEO. I have six years of college and am 3 tri-mesters short of my bachelors. I have plenty of work place experience, but employers seem to overlook all of this. Any suggestions for overcoming the resume gap or any suggestions for good employers?

2007-12-28 05:06:21 · 6 answers · asked by blackdagger♥381 4 in Family

I don't know the right thing to do because them texting me makes me feel a little mad. They broke up with me, and after the breakup, I tried very hard to stay friends, but felt like they blew me off. We were really close, but I got hurt very badly and don't want to go through that again...

2007-12-28 05:06:19 · 32 answers · asked by Lilie N 1 in Singles & Dating

My bf is like holly s*@% u have muscles, and i really dont i'm toned but it's not like i have big muscles. Do guys like girls with muscles, or girls that are just toned and not all jiggly?

2007-12-28 05:05:11 · 6 answers · asked by little_rae_rae 2 in Singles & Dating

are we really destined to be with someone ... is there someone out there for everyone ??? If u think there is have u met yours ??

2007-12-28 05:02:04 · 9 answers · asked by Lexi♥ 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-28 05:02:03 · 9 answers · asked by trader 15 1 in Weddings

A guy I used to work with, used to talk to me all the time ( even if I seemed uninterested, but I was....) and would go out of his way to say hi or ask me questions ( we worked in totally different departments) about how my work was going. Do you think he was interested in me in a dating way? He never made a move or asked me out... do you think he was just being friendly? and do guys just want to talk to women even if they aren't interested in them for a girlfriend?

2007-12-28 04:58:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-28 04:56:23 · 10 answers · asked by foralleternityxx 2 in Singles & Dating

i got my friend to ask out this guy for me that i really like and he said hes going out with my friend but he also said once they broke up he would get together with me. next thing u know he breaks up with her then he goes out with my bff

2007-12-28 04:56:08 · 9 answers · asked by MSpil222 1 in Singles & Dating

If you met a guy that was really nice to you and treated you with respect. Then found out later, that he was going to die in a matter of years what would you do? Would you stay or run away?

2007-12-28 04:53:04 · 23 answers · asked by Carlos de La Vega 3 in Singles & Dating

I have been going out with my boyfriend for 7 months, then there was a huge miscommunication since we're long distance and i broke it off with him. I could've gone back but I felt not so tied down. then a month later he asks me out again and i say yes, we talked about alot of issues, &2 days later we break up b/c he said he has fallen in love with me and he will give me his heart. I simply freaked, yes we've seen each other and have a physical relationship also. We have tried to be friends after we broke up but we have a very deep emotional connection. I was adopted and both of my parents were drunks, i think I'm afraid of getting too involved with a guy and then getting hurt and my ex bf has assured me over a million times he wont hurt me. I'm not going t therapy/counseling i just dont know what to do, i like my freedom yet only have eyes for my ex no matter how many different guys come knocking at my door. I dont want to do any long distance relationship, even if i love him.

2007-12-28 04:51:40 · 17 answers · asked by ~Pitbull 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-28 04:51:16 · 11 answers · asked by Paul S 1 in Singles & Dating

Some people ask the dumbest questions or are just being totally insensitive to the person they are with and ask if they should get a divorce if they have a ex they still love. I just wonder if people realize that alot of people are going to get offensive and well blunt and crude. This being said if your going to ask the question don't be surprised if some people may lash out at you for being a selfish person.

So here is may question should people not have the right to free speech I feel yahoo answers does not allow this?.

I have had answers come back as a violation really when I was just stating a fact about the person asking the question really is that so wrong?.

2007-12-28 04:49:16 · 17 answers · asked by Livinrawguy 7 in Marriage & Divorce

my son came home from dads last weekend saying daddy dressed up like a girl. My son is almost 5 and he thinks it is funny. I beleive my son but I don't know how to go about asking his father

2007-12-28 04:46:56 · 63 answers · asked by the 500 1 in Family

2007-12-28 04:45:50 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

it seems like every guy is attracted to a girl that is wasted or drunk. I know the factor of being vulnerable and "easy" and letting anything happen to you while you are drunk but personally, how do guys not think that a girl throwing themselves around potentially puking on them a turn on? someone please enlighten me

2007-12-28 04:43:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ummmm me and my bf have been going out for a few days (we started going out on christmas) and he is like really nice and sweet but he seems more serious than me about the relationship and i dont want to hurt his feelings b/c he is really into me i just like him as like a good friend though i mean i did like him but not that much anymore should i give him a chance or break up with him?

2007-12-28 04:42:51 · 31 answers · asked by Maegs<3 1 in Singles & Dating

Why is it that men try to tell us what we need to change and we try to bend a bit but when we tell men what they need to do to make us happy they just don't seems to give a damn.

2007-12-28 04:42:39 · 13 answers · asked by twistedtoad03 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-28 04:41:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay...I went on a cruise and i cheated on my bf. I feel really bad but i dont really regret it cuz i really liked the guy. But what should i do about my bf? (should i tell him, or pretend like nothing happened, etc...)

I'm so confused, I never do stuff like this... :(

2007-12-28 04:41:46 · 19 answers · asked by Abercrombie_Hippie 2 in Singles & Dating

ask her out NOW. the girls are just sitting here waiting to be asked... so just do it! why are guys such cowards?

2007-12-28 04:40:29 · 2 answers · asked by snowangels 2 in Singles & Dating

........ @ our 10th anniversary reception, after we renew our vows. It must be appropriate in a church fellowship hall, and not too corny, or sappy.Old and New country are both options.
HELP!!!!!!!!

2007-12-28 04:40:13 · 24 answers · asked by HH6 4 in Weddings

I'm always in a dilemma whether to help or not to help. I have an adopted sister who has betrayed me and my mom a number of times.. totally no sense of gratitude. She used to stay with us before but she stole my money and ran away. Now my niece and nephew are living an uncomfortable life. They moved to 3 different houses in 2 months, don't have enough food and school supplies. I told the kids I will help them as far as food and school stuff are concerned. I feel terribly sad that my nephew needs to repeat kindergarten because of their tumultuous life and lack of money. What's your take on the this? I can't have the kids under my custody coz their mom won't allow that ever and I don't want to help my "ex-sister" financially coz she needs to learn a lesson or two.

2007-12-28 04:39:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Well i have noticed that girls date guys how are known to be bad? I mean why not date guys who are nice nature wise and will treat them with respect and never cheat on them? Usually the good guys end up being their good friends and then can never be their bf? Am i right with that?

2007-12-28 04:39:16 · 20 answers · asked by Adam 3 in Singles & Dating

Is Sex good?! Answer is welcome!! JUST ANSWER

2007-12-28 04:37:37 · 74 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am thinking of leaving my alcoholic boyfriend but I'm afraid that he will get partial custody of our daughter. I don't want him to be able to take her over night, but I would allow him to have her at his parents house for a few hours here and there. He has two DUIs, no driver's license and is a heavy drinker. He is nice to her when he's sober but he can't stop his drinking and I have to keep her away from him while he is drinking because he is sloppy and scary. He has never hit her other than a little spank which I put an end to. Right now he is only home a couple of days a week. We live in Michigan and our daughter is two years old and is still nursing several times a day. What kind of custody would he be entitled to?

2007-12-28 04:29:31 · 8 answers · asked by slow like honey 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 24 and I've never really dated, I had 2 serious relationships since I was 17 and now I'm single after a 4 year relationship.

1- I don't want another serious boyfriend for a very long time but I want to start going out on dates (not at the moment but eventually). How does it work if you want to have a date with one guy one night and a different guy another night? Is it ok to see more then one guy at a time?

2- Sex is not even on my mind. I don't want to have sex with anyone until the relationship becomes serious (which I don't want for awhile). How do you tell guys that, because don't most expect it after a couple dates?

2007-12-28 04:26:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have some friends, a married couple, that are polyamorous. When they first explained it to me I thought it was very odd and that I could never take part in something like that. Now that I have gotten to know them better, and have seen that their marriage is good and there is no deceit involved, I am a bit more approving. I just wanted to get other opinions on polyamory. Do you practice it? If so, what problems have you encountered if any? Thanks for your response!

2007-12-28 04:22:09 · 18 answers · asked by Vbonics 6 in Other - Family & Relationships